posted April 18, 2022 10:23 PM
I recently have made a new friend. I am in my third semester of a three year full time masters program, and he is in his first semester. We have two classes together this semester, which are both virtual (not usually the case but covid has messed with things). Of all my classmates, I knew he not only was one of the few that lived nearby, but also we clearly shared a lot in common based on what we both said in classes and on discussion forums on our classroom pages.
He is about eight years younger than me... which I initially judged a bit harshly. If you see my Saturn and Scorpio heavy chart, along with a chiron/virgo south situation, you'll understand I can be extraordinarily hard on myself (and likewise sometimes others).
He and I are both studying School Psychology - becoming psychologists to work in k-12 schools and provide a lot of important support services for students, their families, and the school community in general. we both care about kids and we both grew up "on our own", dealing with neglect and invisibility and no one near our age around us. I have PTSD from childhood and I would not be surprised if he has all kinds of developmental trauma. He has also told me he is confused about where his desire lies in terms of aromanticism (uninterested in romantic connections) vs romance, and possible asexuality... or some kind of sexual difficulty. I personally have major sexual trauma and difficulty but I wouldn't quite describe myself as asexual. I don't know him that well yet but we have had some pretty genuine, honest, and saturnal conversations.
Anyway, obviously you all dont know either of us and lack all kinds of contextual information. That said, I'd like your initial impression of this composite chart - what stands out, how harmonious or conflicted it seems, what kind of relationship seems easiest vs. most challenging, lessons we may learn, any neptune/pisces delusional stuff...
I cannot figure out how to put the actual image in this so I am giving this link:
I think its better I don't show you our natal charts because I want to focus first impressions of this chart here. However I will tell you we both have one another's suns in our fifth house and we both have our natal moons closely conjunct our natal venuses (mine is cap/aqua 10H, his is cancer 11H). If for some reason you want to dive in and see the natal charts I might be willing to share them - let me know.
Thanks folks! I look forward to insightful interaction here.