posted March 26, 2008 09:30 PM         

Me:
May 27, 1979
11:30 am
Seoul, Korea

Him:
December 11, 1973
11:30 am
Saigon, Vietnam

posted March 26, 2008 11:16 PM         

QUOTE: "The twist is that it is a past relationship, so I will be able to tell if the readings hits the nail on the head, or misses the mark."

will you?

You are the Gemini. correct...

I have a sneaking suspicion that this may have another go around therefor the experiment is bust, LOL!

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______ My Initial Hypothesis: __________

You are very much still attracted to him at least physically, He's on your mind and that's why you're here. He's likely the only person you've met thus far that can stimulate and intrigue your bright mind.

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ps I haven't even looked at the charts yet.
I just saw that Gem/Sag thing, LOL!

*How is it that you each have the same EXACT time of birth?

posted March 27, 2008 11:48 PM         

Yes, he is still in my thoughts, and the one I cannot forget. He left me for someone else. The birth info is correct. We have the same time of birth.

I would like to see what the stars say, because I want to see if there really is any truth to it all.

posted March 27, 2008 11:54 PM         

Ggod thing you can put up with sarcasm!

posted March 28, 2008 09:59 AM         

Anyone really, as this question was posed to any who wish to test the validity of Astrology rather than character nature of friends at Linda Land.

posted March 28, 2008 10:57 PM         

Your welcome sweetie!

Now let's take a peek into these charts, shall we

This combination of planetary energies is intriguing. He is the opposite sun sign to you, and usually opposites are considered a great match. In your case this is both true and not true, depending on which perspective you take.

Both of you have fluctuation as part of your nature. This means that you can both expect considerable change and variety in your life. You are destined for that. This continual movement is vital to your mental and emotional health.

You love the intellectual side of social life. He prefers a philosophical and idealistic view of life and the world in general. One thing that you both love, though, is travel.

Travelling together would provide a perfect meeting point for his cultural and philosophical interests and your love of social interaction — in other situations, these can seem diametrically opposed.

The opposite sun sign relates to marriage and romantic commitments. It shouldn’t come as any surprise that when you two cross each other’s paths you both experience a magical interplay of planetary energies.

Yet, because you are both changeable sun signs, you may find it hard to make firm decisions about a future together. There could be delays and other unusual obstacles.

This mix of differences and similarities in your personalities means you need to put in some effort if you are to make a relationship work. Mostly, you both need to be free to explore your own life while still being in a relationship. If you do that, you have a good chance.

Sexually there is good energy between you, with the warm Sagittarius stimulating your communicative style. This can be a great combination. There is a lively interplay of verbal, sensual and emotional energy between you. You will excite each other.

A difficulty you will have with this particular Sagittarian man (probably due to the Mars–Aries influence).
He's the type you will naturally gravitate to in conversation, only to find that his opinionated stance irritates the socks off you. You will have to take a back seat in conversation with him, and that doesn’t bode well, does it?

Inter-planetary Aspects show:

As Further validation of the above that you two do not have the same intellectual interests, the same tastes, as a result of which you may have problems in understanding each other. This could lead to conflicts, lies, etc.

A life together may be very difficult, with intellectual misunderstandings, diametrically opposed tastes, different ideas.
While you are greatly attracted by each other, not necessarily physically. With the problems of everyday life, this love will vanish and you each will no longer understand what you found so attractive in the other.
Conflict and an aggressive atmosphere will result.

It's love-at-first-sight, the great passion: you will be drawn to each other like two magnets, you will always have to see and touch each other. Very good sexual understanding, typically very passionate. It must be said that this type of relationship won't last forever, it won't develop into a quiet and tender love and even less so into friendship. One will suffer when the passion of the other dies, it will be a very difficult time to live through.

The Sun will probably suffer in this relationship. Neptune may deceive the other, lie, will promise a fantastic future that only exists in the imagination. Neptune will not be able to live up to these dreams.

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Composite Focus

sun 10th house this combination of aspects between you is particularly useful for a business or professional relationship, but it is also very important in a personal relationship. If this relationship goes anywhere at all, it will have a strong effect on your life purpose.

This "Career House" is particularly important to you both.

The composite Moon in the second house indicates that this relationship will bring out the needs you both have for emotional and material security. In fact, you may have come together because of those needs.

You will have a strong sense of shared values, which will help to reinforce you as a couple against the outside world. Because of this shared feeling, your relationship will grow strong even when there are considerable difficulties between you. But the need for security could keep you together even when that is not the best solution for either of you.

Particularly if this were ever to become a marital relationship, you might be trapped into staying together because of what you own rather than because the relationship is working well. Like everything else, possessions must be kept in their place.

Nevertheless, the security that this relationship can offer would be one of its strongest points and would help keep you together when the going gets tough.

Venus in the Tenth House your experience of love within this relationship will very strongly affect the lives of both of you.

Satirically speaking: You are too clingy for him and he is too aloof for you. Neither of you are serious enough to make it work as "marriage" is not particularly a priority in your world. You both want and need the La' La' feelings, romance and physical satisfaction, but not the drama "real world" boring stuff that comes with a committed relationship with one another.

On the psychological level, this relationship will aid both of you in discovering what you want to do with your lives. Loving each other should reinforce you and give you greater confidence in yourselves.

At the same time, this relationship will teach you about the nature of love and how you relate to others on an intimate personal level. The only way you can learn what living with another person means is by doing so.

posted March 30, 2008 10:31 AM         

As I was reading, I almost began to tear, which must mean you have hit the nail on the head. Especially the part that says,

"It's love-at-first-sight, the great passion: you will be drawn to each other like two magnets, you will always have to see and touch each other. Very good sexual understanding, typically very passionate. It must be said that this type of relationship won't last forever, it won't develop into a quiet and tender love and even less so into friendship. One will suffer when the passion of the other dies, it will be a very difficult time to live through."

Guess who the person suffering the most is?
So I guess there is no chance of a second go around....

This was very helpful! Thanks again YFIS!

posted March 30, 2008 01:05 PM         

You are absolutely welcome.

Now go ahead, allow yourself some time to heal.