posted June 26, 2008 11:36 PM         

This is an amazing connection here between a man and I.. I've looked at astro.com synastry and studied as much as I could, but I was hoping someone would be kind enough to help me put it all together. Are there some aspects that have more I dunno "weight"? Is this a soul mate connection?

I don't even know where to start or how much information I should give. Except that maybe he and I being together would be taboo..

From the first time I talked to him, I felt like I knew him already.. He said the same before I ever did. It was so silly; when we would talk I felt like I was back in high school! Have you ever smiled so hard you couldn't stop, and you KNOW you look stupid cuz you're smiling soooo hard?? Yeah that was me. My face hurt I was smiling so hard. I had to cover my mouth

I feel at HOME with him. But the problem is, if he and I were to make it official it would be taboo..

I know there's an aspect in the report that says outside forces will create problems.. Can anyone shed some light on this?
Many thanks in advance..

posted July 08, 2008 10:00 PM         

Me: January 24, 1985
Martinsville, VA
@ 1600

posted July 09, 2008 12:44 AM         

Aquarius's Ascendant opposition Sagittarius's Ascendant:

Your attitudes about approaching most everything conflict with each other. To have a healthy
relationship, you both are forced to stretch your acceptance of these differences to offset the
tendency to get irritated with each other.

Aquarius's North Node trine Sagittarius's North Node:

Your paths for soul growth in this life naturally support one another. Your histories also lead to a
sense of familiarity with each other. You are interested in each other's stories from the past and
ideas for future growth.

Sagittarius's Sun conjunct Aquarius's Uranus:

There is something electric, exciting, and liberating about your relationship with each other. You
encourage each other to cast off cultural expectations and pursue your authentic natures. Although
exciting, Uranus is a wild card and the unsettledness and uncertainty that comes with Uranus is part
of the territory.

Sagittarius's Sun conjunct Aquarius's Neptune:

There is something mystical and spiritual about your tie, although it can be equally mystifying as
mystical. It is best for couples involved with spiritual or artistic activities together, where the
imagination does some good. There can be a telepathic, psychic rapport if you allow it. You must
watch out for soap-bubble dreams and all types of illusions with imaginative Neptune activated in
the relationship.

Aquarius's Sun sextile Sagittarius's Mercury:

Communication and a natural understanding of each other are favored. You "get" each other and
readily resolve the natural conflicts that arise in relationships. You stimulate each other's mental
activity and readily learn from each other.

Aquarius's Sun opposition Sagittarius's Moon:

Sagittarius has a difficult time being emotionally at ease around Aquarius. This dynamic tension can
manifest as rational arguments over emotional issues. Aquarius doesn't feel nurtured and Sagittarius
doesn't feel understood or at ease. The relationship functions best with some time apart in the daily
schedule.

Aquarius's Sun opposition Sagittarius's Jupiter:

You can encourage excessiveness in each other, one way or another. Sagittarius may try to
encourage Aquarius to grow and expand in ways that are not appropriate. This is motivational for
individuals who do not want to settle for complacency and, instead, reach for more of what life has
to offer, but watch out for grasping.

Sagittarius's Sun square Aquarius's Venus:

Your tastes and values can clash, and yet this is not entirely bad. It creates a strong sexual
attraction, though not the comfortable type; this type of fascination comes from that which is
different. The strong sexual attraction is favorable for getting the relationship going, but difficulties
can arise over differences in basic life values, making it difficult to live with each other on a
day-to-day basis.

Sagittarius's Sun square Aquarius's Mars:

This tie is extremely intense and often confrontational. It is passionate, without a doubt, and very
favorable in some arenas, but arguments and battles of wills can be passionate as well. If you can't
take the heat, get out of the kitchen, with this one. You can inflame each other, and without
restraint or healthy outlets, things could turn bad.

Aquarius's Sun square Sagittarius's Chiron:

Your natural instincts for helping each other through wounding times can be off target. Try not to
judge each other's wounds and, instead, see what you can do to offer support, even if your ways
of dealing with wounds are radically different.

Aquarius's Moon trine Sagittarius's Venus:

You can feel very natural and comfortable in each other's presence, making time spent together
enjoyable. You support and even take delight in each other's emotional responses to life. You can
become interested in the arts and socializing together.

Aquarius's Moon trine Sagittarius's Uranus:

This is an aspect that encourages evolutionary growth on both your parts. Aquarius feels
encouraged and supported for breaking out of old emotional patterns, and Sagittarius feels
emotionally supported for pursuing an authentic path of individuality.

Sagittarius's Moon trine Aquarius's Mars:

Sagittarius feels safe and protected by Aquarius's strength. Aquarius feels emotionally supported in
choices of action. You rarely trigger each other's defenses.

Sagittarius's Moon trine Aquarius's Saturn:

You work well together on both the personal and professional fronts. Aquarius gives steadiness
and patience to the relationship. Sagittarius adds emotional support to Aquarius's efforts in the
world of responsibility.

Aquarius's Moon opposition Sagittarius's Saturn:

This tie is usually considered unfavorable for emotional relationships, unless Sagittarius is mindful of
the excessive sensitivity Aquarius has to any disapproval. Aquarius's needs are judged as weak by
Sagittarius and tend to go unmet.

Sagittarius's Moon opposition Aquarius's Jupiter:

You tend to encourage each other's indulgent behavior. There can be excessive emotional
reactions over small issues that get blown way out of proportion.

Aquarius's Moon opposition Sagittarius's North Node:

This points to the likelihood of strong family karma from past lives impacting your relationship.
Something akin to deja vu starts the relationship off on a strong note, but it is difficult to pull out of
the past and keep growing in your relationship. Aquarius can feel drained by Sagittarius's needs
unless you both stay vigilant to a path of growth and overcoming past behavior patterns.

Aquarius's Moon square Sagittarius's Neptune:

It is not likely that you see each other clearly. You can imagine qualities in each other that don't
exist, or pull each other into escapist behavior, or feed each other's fears. Absolute honesty,
including avoiding "dishonesty by omission," is required for a healthy relationship.

Sagittarius's Moon square Aquarius's Pluto:

Sagittarius can feel threatened, unsafe, and powerless to withstand Aquarius's will. A healthy
relationship can develop only if Aquarius can remain conscious of the potential misuse of this
power of intimidation. Otherwise, the potential for unhealthy psychological patterns to develop
between the two of you is strong.

Aquarius's Mercury conjunct Sagittarius's Ascendant:

This aspect is very beneficial for communication. Sagittarius feels free to express feelings and
thoughts to Aquarius like with no other. This greatly enhances the ability to communicate through
difficulties.

Aquarius's Mercury trine Sagittarius's Saturn:

You are able to handle responsibilities well together. You not only make plans well, you are able to
follow through on them with patience and commitment. When difficulties in your relationship do
arise, this combination facilitates an ability to work through the issues patiently.

Aquarius's Mercury trine Sagittarius's North Node:

Your conversations and mental pursuits together naturally lead to each other's soul growth. You
can draw on each other for support and understanding in spiritual issues.

Aquarius's Mercury sextile Sagittarius's Uranus:

You two are excellent at looking at issues from a fresh perspective and coming up with innovative
ideas for dealing with situations. Your communications stay lively as you encourage a "discovery"
attitude in each other. The ideas that you come up with together most often have relevance and
application in your lives.

Sagittarius's Mercury opposition Aquarius's Chiron:

You likely have different opinions and views concerning health issues. It is not easy to accept each
other's help, because your views about what would be helpful differ. Try not to convince each
other of the right way toward health and healing, and instead, acknowledge and allow for the
differences to help avoid difficulties.

Aquarius's Mercury square Sagittarius's Pluto:

Difficulties in communications with each other arise because of Aquarius's tendency to feel
threatened by Sagittarius's will. It is important not to allow manipulations of any sort to enter into
your communications with each other; no good can come from it. If either of you feels manipulated
by the other, name it for what it is, and refuse to take part in it.

Aquarius's Venus trine Sagittarius's Uranus:

Your relationship will never be in danger of stagnating because you constantly find innovative ways
to explore life together. You are attracted to each other's uniqueness and allow each other
considerable freedom in the relationship.

Sagittarius's Venus trine Aquarius's Ascendant:

This is a highly magnetic and sweet combination. Sagittarius is very attracted to Aquarius's looks
and style. It is easy to love one another, and interests in the arts, entertainment, and culture are
favored.

Aquarius's Venus opposition Sagittarius's Saturn:

This aspect dampens the natural attraction and magnetism of the relationship. It is hard to avoid
judging one another. Aquarius sees Sagittarius as no fun, too harsh, and demanding, while
Sagittarius judges Aquarius's values as superficial, indulgent, and undisciplined.

Aquarius's Venus opposition Sagittarius's North Node:

The past-life karma you bring into this life is that of Aquarius having been a female lover for
Sagittarius in a previous life. It is easy to love one another, but soul memories stir feelings that don't
make sense in this life. Will you promote soul growth for each other in this life, or will you cling to
memories and yearnings for how things were?

Aquarius's Venus square Sagittarius's Neptune:

There can be a mystical attraction between the two of you, but there is the danger of illusions and
deception with this combination. Fantasy can be delightful in love when it is a seasoning, but when
it is the main course, disillusionment is the ultimate result when the fantasy can't be sustained in
reality.

Sagittarius's Mars conjunct Aquarius's Neptune:

The best of this aspect would lead to inspired activity together. Music, dance, tai chi, and creative
spiritual outlets of all sorts are the fruits of aligning with the high road of this combination. However,
Neptune is also known as the blind spot, and it is important to know the risk of making poor
choices of action together. This aspect can bring a mystical quality to your passion, and at
minimum, imagination is brought into love play. Trust this combination with creativity and the like
where the imagination is not troublesome, but be cautious of this same imagination in worldly affairs
involving money and finance. Here, there can be a stiff price to pay for illusions.

Aquarius's Mars trine Sagittarius's Uranus:

You encourage each other's independence and have marvelous improvisational skills together. In
romance, you take delight in each other's exploratory and innovative sexual style.

Sagittarius's Mars sextile Aquarius's Pluto:

You draw hidden strength from each other and thus are great allies for one another. You inspire
each other to the right use of will and power in ways that benefit everyone. You feel safe with each
other, from the physical activities of Mars, to the deep mysteries of Pluto's interests.

Aquarius's Mars opposition Sagittarius's North Node:

Your relationship brings the past-life karma of Aquarius having been a strong male in Sagittarius's
past life. Lover? Combative adversary? Source of courage? You will know if the connection is
favorable or not. If there is underlying anger that periodically worms its way into your current
relationship, it might very well be residual past-life karma between the two of you. It would take
deep forgiveness on both of your parts for all past wounds, known and unknown, complete
amnesty, to clear the slate and have an honest go of it in this life.

Aquarius's Mars square Sagittarius's Neptune:

This is a difficult aspect because of its insidious qualities. The source of problems and conflicts
between the two of you is never obvious. As lovers, you can bring out a fascination for eroticism in
each other, but you are not each other's best counsel in making important decisions, as this aspect
brings out the worst of the blind spot phenomenon of Neptune aspects. Deception on one or both
of your parts is also a possible negative manifestation of this energy.

Aquarius's Jupiter trine Sagittarius's North Node:

You provide strong support for each other's spiritual growth and can actively pursue spiritual
studies together. Travel together can be related to your spiritual quest, and it will not be difficult to
find a path that is growth-oriented for both of you.

Sagittarius's Jupiter square Aquarius's Pluto:

There is an unconscious pattern of competition between the two of you, and you can goad each
other into grander and grander displays of one-upmanship. There can be a natural mistrust of each
other's moral and ethical values in how you approach goals.

Aquarius's Saturn conjunct Sagittarius's Uranus:

The best of this aspect is when you help each other to be innovative in how you handle worldly
responsibilities. You can assist each other in adapting to changes in the world and evolving your
careers to stay in line with your needs for discovery. The low road manifests when Aquarius resists
the innovative ideas of Sagittarius, believing them to be unrealistic and irresponsible, and Sagittarius
judges Aquarius as being stuck in convention and unwilling to experiment in life.

Sagittarius's Saturn sextile Aquarius's Ascendant:

This is a stabilizing aspect for all relationships. Sagittarius is patient with Aquarius and can be a
source of guidance without being heavy-handed. Aquarius helps Sagittarius stay focused on
manifesting ambitions and goals. This combination is excellent for being able to work through the
difficult times together on any type of commitment.

Sagittarius's Saturn square Aquarius's Uranus:

There is tension from Sagittarius wanting to maintain the status quo and Aquarius wanting change.
Sagittarius feels Aquarius is a loose cannon and disruptive to what is going on. Aquarius becomes
frustrated by Sagittarius's narrow thinking.

Aquarius's Uranus conjunct Sagittarius's Neptune:

There is a creative flow between Aquarius's intuition and Sagittarius's ability to image. This sets up
a favorable flow of spiritual guidance that comes to the two of you spontaneously through
coincidences and sudden knowing.

Sagittarius's Uranus trine Aquarius's Ascendant:

You encourage and support each other's uniqueness and individuality by giving each other
permission to be just who you are without pretension. You support each other's path of awakening
and evolution by encouraging each other to stay in an attitude of discovery.

Aquarius's Uranus sextile Sagittarius's Pluto:

You support each other's big picture view of what you stand for in life. You can be creative allies in
supporting each other's efforts at transforming society through social action, or transforming
yourselves through deep spiritual work.

Sagittarius's Uranus opposition Aquarius's North Node:

You carry the past-life karma of Sagittarius having been a liberating, but unpredictable, influence in
Aquarius's past life. It is as if the two of you had a life-altering fling that awakened parts of you that
had been dormant, and then Sagittarius disappeared or moved on. This makes Aquarius feel
excited and uneasy simultaneously.

Aquarius's Uranus square Sagittarius's North Node:

This aspect presents the challenge of accepting each other's decidedly different views on what
constitutes a growth-oriented path. Sagittarius views Aquarius as being totally unpredictable and
unreliable, while Aquarius thinks it important to shock Sagittarius into awakening from not seeing
the big picture.

Aquarius's Neptune trine Sagittarius's Chiron:

You two have an intuitive awareness of the role of imagination in healing. You can work with each
other in the subtlest realms of spiritual and vibrational healing. You intuitively understand the power
of prayer in healing work with each other.

Sagittarius's Pluto square Aquarius's Ascendant:

Aquarius can feel intimidated by Sagittarius because of something that neither of you is conscious
of. This makes it difficult to have a relationship until trust is established. You see each other's
idiosyncrasies and subconscious behavior patterns. It takes great sensitivity of delivery to discuss
such issues without arousing your partner's defenses.

Aquarius's Pluto opposition Sagittarius's Chiron:

With this aspect, it is as if you know secrets about each other that could be quite wounding if
publicly revealed. You are being tested with the right use of this power to wound each other. Will
you hold each other hostage with these secrets? Or will you pass the test and be able to be trusted
with each other's vulnerable secrets?