posted August 03, 2009 04:03 AM         

I met him a year ago at work. I liked him very much but I didn't want him to notice me... I felt like he was out of my league. He is from a rich family, very cute, smart and funny, the whole "package." Besides, all the ladies I saw at work had a crush on him too, why should I be any different? I had a great time with him though and work was more fun together... we played secret games and sent each other emails when we were supposed to be working. We could bounce off each other's ideas easily because we both have an off-the-wall sense of humor. It was nice talking with someone who wouldn't think I was nuts when I said something bizarre... and I think he felt the same way. At the same time, I was afraid if he got to know me he'd become disinterested... usually that kind of thing doesn't bother me, but with him it really scared me so when I left work I didn't get his phone number or anything.

Now suddenly we've been talking on Facebook and talking turned to some serious flirting tonight, and now I'm all butterflies again. He wants to hang out again, but I'm scared to see him for the same reasons I kept flirting at bay to begin with.

I guessed he was a Capricorn when I first met him, but it turns out he is an Aquarius. I looked up his chart (sans birth time) just for kicks because I was sure there had to be Capricorn in there somewhere.

He has Capricorn Mercury, Venus, Saturn, Uranus and Neptune! I guess my horoscope radar is pretty good.

I looked up the synastry and it's pretty interesting... both the best aspects and the worst are bundled together.

His Aq. Sun conjunct my MC (1 deg)
His Cap. Venus/Mercury conjunct my Moon (0 deg)
but His Venus/Mercury opp my Sun/Mercury (0-1 deg) we both have Mercury retrograde. Composite Sun is in Taurus opp. Mercury 29 deg Libra (Comp. Sun conj his natal Mars).

His Taurus Mars trine my Virgo Venus and my Cap. Neptune (3 deg) completing a grand trine between my Venus/Neptune and his Mars. But his Mars falls in my 12th house... and my Mars is conjunct his Neptune (3 degrees) in my 8th house and my Venus trine his Neptune (0 deg). Even odder is the composite Mars is in Pisces, trine Venus in Scorpio.

His Cap. Saturn is also trine my Venus (1 deg). My Venus completes and grand trine between his Mars/Saturn. His Saturn and Neptune are conjunct, and my Mars is 5 degrees away from his Saturn.

So there are two grand trines in our synastry in the earth signs Between Mars/Venus and Neptune/Saturn in my 4th/8th/12th houses! There are NO squares anywhere (as far as not knowing where his moon/ascendant is).

Even the synastry is unusual for me, most of the time there are squares everywhere. Is it too easy? There are four oppositions.

Goodness goodness I need to calm down. That Neptune/Saturn deal makes me wonder... but I like him so much! Agh!

Eclipse go away! Get off my MC which is conjuncting his Sun! Whoa daddy.