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staborgi
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posted August 08, 2009 09:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for staborgi     Edit/Delete Message
Over the past 10 months over so I've grown very depressed. I'm always tired, lethargic. I feel lonely and wrapped up in myself. I feel uninspired...like there is no one inside me and I'm just drifting along. I'm very confused about why I am here and feel very aimless. A part of me has always felt like this but like I said over the past 10 months or its been overwhelming. Why am I like this? Will I ever get over it? On top of that I'm growing more hopeless about ever being in a relationship...will I ever find anyone? Thanks to anyone who responds...my dob is 11/24/1987 heres my chart if you need it

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Plutonian Persona
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posted August 08, 2009 11:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Plutonian Persona     Edit/Delete Message
The early 20s are a very difficult time because they coincide with a Saturn square (the last one before your Saturn Return at 29.5 years). With Saturn at 20 degrees Virgo right now and your Saturn at 21 degrees Sag (not to mention your Uranus and Venus at 25 Sag) this is going to be a very rough period for you. Virgo is all about the details in life,service, and staying grounded through the former. Sag is expansive and doesn't like to have it's wings clipped.

So, Saturn in Virgo in aspect (or almost in aspect) to your Sag planets is a very depressing episode: Sag is basically being told to stop roaming and ground itself in the here and now, which Sag could really care less about!

You will, however, get through this period of your life. It is one of those many life cycles that feels like you are going to be crushed, but will actually help in your personal development. Just try to keep your head up and know that everything will be alright in the end!

Oh, and before I forget, even though Saturn will be entering your 7th house in Libra in a few months, this is not necessarily bad for trying to find a relationship. Saturn in Libra is doubly exalted in the 7th house, so it could very well be that you find a very solid relationship with somebody older than yourself!

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Happy Dragon
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posted August 09, 2009 08:56 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Happy Dragon     Edit/Delete Message
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cpn_edgar_winner
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posted August 09, 2009 02:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for cpn_edgar_winner     Edit/Delete Message
for some reason a lot of people born 87-89 have depression i have noticed. i wonder if it is a generational aspect.

hope you get feeling better soon.

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Plutonian Persona
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posted August 10, 2009 12:39 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Plutonian Persona     Edit/Delete Message
If I remember correctly, it's either '89 or '90 (or both) that has that huge Cappy Stellium that is made up of 6 or so planets, including Saturn itself. I've always thought that has to be very difficult planetary line-up to work with.

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staborgi
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posted August 10, 2009 08:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for staborgi     Edit/Delete Message
Thank you for the responses and well wishes. I definitely feel the energy of Saturn and Pluto right now. Too bad the slow movers are the most depressing! Those links were also very insightful.

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Valus
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posted August 10, 2009 09:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Valus     Edit/Delete Message
do something nutty.

get drunk and friend a chicken

poke the soul
with a careless finger

get south of ennui

break a tooth

dance into space

fall off the edge
of a cardboard boast

soak in paint

roll on the fire

find yourself in
forests of sand

play understudy
to a scapegoat christ

paste quotes
under chairs

tell your mother
you love her
(lie if you have to)

listen to the creeping
insects of the oysterbeds

f8ck somebody
and get sick

i dont know.

shave your head
make a stink

give your CD's away
and regret it
ten years later

strand yourself
in a confessional

let the truth
out of the bag
see if anyone stares

feel dead
feel dying
feel empty
feel alive

count sheeple
while the soul sleeps

come around
come around
come around

discover jazz

discover a bluesman

write sonnets
on bathroom stalls

"for a good time
call Mercutio"

make an ass of yourself
apologize like a madman

binge and purge

sing "oo baby,
do you know what that's worth,
ooo, heaven is a place on earth"

go to hollywood
turn tricks for slimjims

swallow acid
see where you end up

pace restlessly
in front of locked churches
waiting for Sunday

"swallow a crocodile"

wear red

wear white

sleep until midnight

scrap it
start over

masterbate with things
that start with the
letter "S"

call random numbers
until you hear a friendly voice

eat more green, leafy veggies

throw a surprise pity party
and invite the whole world
then kick them out
and go to bed early

get through this
get through this
get through this


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Mannequin
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posted August 12, 2009 05:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mannequin     Edit/Delete Message
Plutonian Persona, you're right. i was born in '89, and i was depressed for 3 years. i know friends that have been depressed, and other people born in these years.

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