posted August 24, 2009 10:00 AM         

I am honestly at my wit's end with this guy.

THANK YOU so much.

Sun in Capricorn 9°42’42"
Moon in Gemini 4°13’15"
Mercury in Capricorn 14°44’54"
Venus in Aquarius 11°55’58"
Mars in Scorpio 24°53’ 1"
Jupiter in Aries 20°13’52"
Saturn in Sagittarius 25°27’27"
Uranus in Sagittarius 27°39’33"
Neptune in Capricorn 7°47’ 1"
Pluto in Scorpio 11°59’48"
Mean Node in Pisces 27°10’16"
True Node in Pisces 26°43’ 7"
Chiron in Gemini 25° 9’14"
Ascendant is Virgo. 20°56’15"

posted August 24, 2009 11:10 AM         

If you want your astrology reading to be real, good and accurate, please provide a chart. Astrologers read charts, not lists.

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posted August 24, 2009 11:44 AM         

hopefully that works, either way the information is:
31 Dec 1987,
10.30pm.
London, UK.

posted August 24, 2009 04:08 PM         

I didn’t mean for my original request to sound too harsh, I wasn’t just addressing you with that but everyone else who wants a reading also. Thank you for providing the chart. This is what I see:

He has just been through some kind of a big change and it may have made him feel alternately depressed and possibly empowered. He may also be meeting with large or small groups of strange people or he’s may be behaving in a strange manner, especially in public.

Did he just make a move or is he considering making a full move in addition to whatever is happening with your relationship? His chart suggests that he had a possible break up last year and a move as well. My thought is that if he was going to make a break he would have made it already, within the last few weeks. The energy still leans in that direction although the most critical major point of that feeling of wanting to break up is over, but it’s still within the emergency area. I must repeat that it looks like he may have endured quite a few shocks in terms of relationships and possibly career choices and he may have been moving around a lot. Please confirm if you know this to be the case.

What I described as him possibly behaving in a “strange” manner or meeting with groups of strange people, that same energy could mean that he is needing lots of freedom within all of his relationships and partnerships, not just romantic relationships. When I factor in his age, I must assume that he is or has graduated college and the cycles of life at this point in a graduates life demands that he start making decisions about his life and where he wants to be and what he wants to do. The patterns suggest that he’s making powerful and responsible decisions for himself. Without knowing the exact issues of why you may be breaking up I can’t comment any further.

There’s a very strong pattern happening in his chart right now that suggests the big picture of his life commands a certain course of action which MUST be followed, he has very little option to do otherwise.

If this break up happens, it’s not something he feels good about. As a matter of fact, if it doesn’t happen now, it will be much worse if he waits. The chart suggests a strong heartbreak scenario for him at the end of September and an even stronger suggestion of a health issue; maybe one or the other or both.

Please confirm if any of this is correct and if you need anything clarified I will do my best to make it clear.

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posted August 24, 2009 04:44 PM         

He does behave quite strangely - he is very shy and awkward on first meeting despite being a handsome, entertaining and well-liked type of person. I have learned this through all the time I've known him. Recently I might say he has been more like this, for example, he has met a few of my friends on seperate occasions and been quite odd. He also has a habit of disappearing and appearing quite rude in some ways but I don't think he actually means this - he does seem to not like being tied down.

My main problem is I am very emotional and I really don't want to throw this relationship away... he seems to want to carry the relationship on but is very worried that he will unintentionally hurt or upset me again and this is what's holding him back.

My chart is here:

in case it helps understand what i am talking about again.

posted August 24, 2009 05:58 PM         

Looking at his chart it doesn't suggest that he will all of a sudden become a person who starts speaking his heart and mind out loud to you. Although he just might write it out. There are strong communication energies with him, is he a writer or publisher of some sort? It's very strong with him, but it may not be of an emotional nature. His chart suggests that he is strongly cerebral, his emotional needs are more cerebral and diverse.

Both of your charts, individually, suggest that you'll be going through very important changes over the next several years. If your relationship with him has to end, do not think of it as throwing away a relationship. Lots of seemingly good relationships are MEANT to end. It doesn't mean you have to hate each other or "detach with an axe". You can do it gradually and remain friendly, still be friends, if that's an option. You may also be meant to be apart for years in order to begin relationships with others.

Now, here's where I become cliche. You are both very young and just starting out in life. This big change might be necessary for you both. Should you both decide to end it, you'll both be alright, you'll both survive.

You being a Pisces probably do need someone who can express emotions a lot stronger. Pisces people tend to martyr themselves, become co-dependent and leave their own needs behind in order to accomodate someone elses needs because they are idealizing them. You may have already painted him as being "the one" and he might not be. I think you're seeing the situation clearly for what it is but you may not be ready to admit it. When you are ready, you'll do what you need to do for yourself.

posted August 24, 2009 10:48 PM         

the sun/jupiter midpoint conjunct venus does indicate a very strong emotional/physical attraction between you.the jupiter influences shows feeling of steady relationship.

but with a Tsquare between venus and the chiron/saturn opposition,there is a very domineering impulse here.with pluto on the ascendant and the sun square to pluto of this composite ,power struggles and emotional control dynamics are often seen.
and with the sun/pluto midpoint conjunct saturn, this domineering and controlling tendencie is amplified.

i realize you at ein love but these aspects indicate that if you get invo;ved yopu are going to see a darkside in him.