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Topic: another composite for analysis
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crabbypatty
Knowflake Posts: 94
From: New York, NY
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 17, 2009 08:40 PM
 
 I am so intrigued and amazed by Todd's analysis of everyone's composites, I couldn't help it, had to put my own up. Anybody who cares to comment, it would be much appreciated. IP: Logged |
todd
Knowflake Posts: 82
From: Baghdad by the Bay
Registered: Jun 2009
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posted September 18, 2009 06:26 PM
this composite does have one of the most favorable pattern for a steady relationship and even marriage.moon opposed to jupiter/mars and trine to venus.
this is loving,supportive,commited and respectful .
but with mars square to pluto,there is a selfishness and a strong sexual desire that is devoid of emotional commitment.
with uranus square the MC/IC axis, there is an intensity but also a demand for emotional freedom that pervades the relationship.as the mars/venus midpoint is conjunct MC,this intensity passes to the emotions and shows a spontaneous attration intially.but it also implies that after the intial intesity has past,the relationship is likely to breakup.
with a mercury/uranus square there is a intense mental connection,showing intelligence but also indicating that you both have very different opinions about something,diffsrent enough that arguments are lkely unless you stay away from certain subjects.
the mars/pluto midpoint is square to saturn.this is a sign of a domineering and cold,mean attitude in a relationship.
with saturn/uranus midpoint square to neptune,there is a deceptive nature to the relationship especially around the concept of commitment.this aspect can indictae a unexplained breakup.with the saturn/chiron midpoint square the ascendant,again,a domineering and critical attitude that tend sto attach self esteem,nothing is good enough etc.
even the favorable jupiter position is tinged by a critical and domineering edge due to the mars/chiron midpoint conjunct jupiter.this can also bring financial problems are arguments because there is likely to be a difference in priorities when it comes to using money.this aspect also adds a tyrannical attitude to the relationship.
though the jupiter/mon/venus configuration is very favorable, and can indicate this was even a marriage at one point, the aspects of selfishness , control and domination are overwhelming.todd IP: Logged |
crabbypatty
Knowflake Posts: 94
From: New York, NY
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 18, 2009 09:18 PM
Well, Todd, thank you so, so, so, so much for that write-up and your analysis. You have been so generous with your time and your knowledge on this forum, I'm sure all of us wish we could repay you. Hey, if you ever want a website designed for you, I would be happy to do it gratis. And it would be a good one, too!So... you (as usual) hit the nail on the head. This composite is of me and my husband. A seven year marriage that is only still alive because I don't know when and how to break it to our little boy (who adores his daddy) that it's over. I dread the little boy's reaction, and for some reason I have this compassion thing going for my husband, where I'm sad that he'll be alone. It started with a huge passionate bang and yes, once the initial intensity dissipated, it was like (poof) what did I see in this guy ever? I don't really get the part about the selfishness in terms of sexuality, but yes, we disagree about certain core issues, badly. The question I have is whether one can tell from the composite who the tyrannical or controlling party is. I'd like to think it isn't me. Not that I think my husband is tyrannical, but there is definitely an undercurrent of control there; control of domestic decisions. He would never let me, for example, choose the drapes myself. He has to be there when everything is purchased, and if he doesn't like what I choose, there's no way in hell it's going up in his house. None of my female friends have a similar issue with their husbands. Deception in terms of commitment... hmmmmm, one could say I've been deceptive ever since realizing I didn't love him anymore; because I just couldn't come out and say it until recently. Wow, thanks again, Todd. IP: Logged | |
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