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piscpis
Knowflake Posts: 37
From: new york, usa
Registered: Jul 2009
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posted September 29, 2009 08:51 PM
 
Lol and I'm no different :-D I love his readings. He gave me one a few days ago and I was absolutly blown away.Anywhoooo, I hava question for anybody who cares to help me out a bit.
COMPOSITE SUN SQUARE SATURN
This is one of the closest aspects me and my boyfriend have in our composite chart. Is it a really negetive aspect to have? I have been doing some reading up on saturn and from what I understand, its influence can be like the "glue" that keeps people together for a long time when it shows up in a synastry chart, however, what about when the sun is square saturn in a composite chart ?? Also, In the event that this is a really negetive aspect to have, is there anything in our composite that may balance it out so its not that bad or make the blow less negetive so to speak ?? IP: Logged |
katatonic
Knowflake Posts: 2034
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posted September 30, 2009 05:01 PM
p - i have this with my ex-husband. don't be alarmed, but for us it signalled different emphases in life, different approaches to the material world if you will. as it happens the sun in our comp is on my descendant, and saturn is on his ASC, so it is doubly significant i guess. especially since our natal angles are squared pretty well! we had a good relationship until parenthood and business got in the way...one way of putting it. but the pressures of life made it obvious that our styles and rainbow-ends were different. whether we could have made it work, i dunno. we are still friends, though we have very different lifestyles now! and we have managed to co-parent pretty well despite some MAJOR disagreements! IP: Logged |
piscpis
Knowflake Posts: 37
From: new york, usa
Registered: Jul 2009
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posted September 30, 2009 09:35 PM
Wow thanx for the response. Sorry it didn't work out for you with him but, heyy, there's plenty more fish in the sea :-D. So going along with what you said, do you think this aspect is a "breakup" aspect all by itself? In our synastry we have moon square saturn and mars square saturn lol ... I fight with him constantly but the thought of me leaving him is crazy. We have a tight relationship but I'm hearing these are some of the worst aspects to have ... Idk what to think ... I'm just trying to understand what it all means :-/ IP: Logged |
katatonic
Knowflake Posts: 2034
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Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 30, 2009 09:49 PM
you should be able to work with the aspects to get an idea what the growth factor is. don't remember who it was but i remember an astrologer talking about how though these can be difficult they CAN be worked with. the saturn partner needs to try to lighten up when the other is being stifled, and the other needs to be sensitive to saturn's fear of change...i think it was stephen arroyo in his karma, transformation book. excellent reading by the way! no i don't think they are breakup aspects in themselves. our composite has so many contact points to my daughter's i decided long ago that we got together to have her, and having done that we had other lessons to work on individually. we had some beautiful aspects and some real grizzlies, but most of all he was a little too young to handle all the responsiblities he took on...and i was too independent to be the wife his mom trained him to expect! IP: Logged |
comica23
Knowflake Posts: 525
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posted September 30, 2009 10:19 PM
Hi ^_^ I'm not very experienced with composite readings, and I didn't experience this composite aspect, but this aspect might show some distance, maybe from him (Saturn in the composite is often associated with the man in a heterosexual relationship), or maybe a major distance between you. It could also mean hesitancy.In the synastry, I did experience the Saturn hard aspects thought. I wasn't the Saturn person, and sometimes I feel that my good spirits and actions are not being appreciated and threw cold water on (it was square my Jupiter and oppose my Mars, while conjunct my Pluto ;_; ). But on the other hand, the Saturn person would also feel bad, as if his seriousness/care wasn't appreciated too.
But well, it was never really serious or bad, so I think that bad aspects are actually not that bad sometimes, depending on each couple. If a couple is mature enough, then they might be able to learn how to deal with the problems together, but if a couple isn't mature enough, then one problem would be enough to screw everything up, even if the rest is all roses.
Well, even if there are hard aspects, it's important to see what resonates with your feelings and what doesn't. So if the relationship seems to be fine in the real life, or that the problems seen in the composite does manifest in the real life but not really strong/serious enough, then don't worry too much about it. ^_~ Relationships aren't easy, but don't worry if a relationship is overall healthy and both sides feels happiness. IP: Logged |
piscpis
Knowflake Posts: 37
From: new york, usa
Registered: Jul 2009
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posted October 02, 2009 02:17 AM
"To independant to be the wife his mom trained him to expect" ... That's a strong statement soo, ima leave that one alone lol. But, yeah ima take a look at that book if I can find it ... I'ma google it and see what comes up.C your right, I guess I shouldn't be worried if were both happy and all. I'm just wanting so bad for this relationship to be "it" you know ... I'm gonna just enjoy it and see where it goes. Thanks guys for the input you really shed some light on the subject for me.
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katatonic
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posted October 02, 2009 08:14 PM
one day at a time...maybe it IS "it". you won't know for awhile!and if you think my statement was strong you should hear my mother-in-law on the subject of men.. IP: Logged | |
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