posted December 05, 2009 11:54 PM         

I've been silent here awhile as I've been caught up in my life and the highs & lows of it for some time. The lows lately have seemed to be pretty deep, and I can't seem to see the light at the end of the tunnel any more. I would very much appreciate a reading (Tarot or psychic) from anyone, and would like to reciprocate in whatever way I can. I can read charts, do horary, and would be glad if it is of help to someone.

This has to do with my personal life. I have been involved for over 8 years with a Piscean man (I'll call him B) I have a strong bond with. Circumstances parted us many years ago, but we made our way back, only to be parted again. I know we still love each other and want to be together, but seem to be in a frozen state - nothing moves forward as we've been tiptoeing around each other, almost afraid to do anything to upset the situation. We've both felt for years that we belong to each other - it feels like an unbreakable bond, a feeling we are meant to be together. Around 3 months ago, I was frustrated with the lack of movement and decided I would focus on other things and let it happen as and when it would.

Right then, another Piscean man entered my life like a force. No one had ever before gotten me to take my mind off B, but this new guy (I'll call him A) managed to make me feel alive again - I was caught up in his sweetness, and the unexpected passion to our connection. We've managed to develop a very strong emotional bond in a short time (barely 3 months now), but there is a complicating factor here. A belongs to another faith he feels strongly about, and neither of us is really willing to convert. He wants a partner to grow in his faith with, as do I (though I'm more spiritual, less religious and would happily consider participating with him, if only I didn't have to give up mine in the process - not that we've discussed this in full detail), and so we'd decided to just stay friends. We've both had family situations to contend with these past couple of months and have grown extremely close through supporting each other - we talk or chat nearly every day, sometimes for several hours at a time. Unbeknownst to us, the feelings have grown to a point that is hard for me to dismiss, and his actions seem to reflect it as well. But either his inexperience or practicality contribute to him being in some denial about this, and A frequently worries about our involvement ultimately causing pain.. I've learned from similar past mistakes, and am now someone who prefers to go with the flow - if the situation moves me greatly enough, I will find a solution to the problem and make it happen. He believes fate will bring us together if we are so destined, and while I believe in fate, I think it also takes work - if you determine you want something, you should work at it & not be passive about it! I'm frustrated and wondering if anything will come of our amazing connection, or if as he worries, we will ultimately end up in pain, parting ways.. I know only time will tell, but every time I've decided to give up on this, something has made me reconsider that there may still be a chance of us working out. At the same time, I'm tired of us just continuing to grow in feelings without deciding to make a committed effort to give it a real shot.

I'm tired of bearing this emotional burden, especially with the family situation I'm dealing with, and the awareness of another birthday approaching next month - I'm going to be 33, divorced & still single, and I have all sorts of worries these days about being able to find someone in time to marry & have kids as long as I still can..

This was more long-winded than I'd expected, but my question has to do primarily with A - if we will ever make a real attempt to work it out with each other, or if I should look elsewhere for a stable relationship.. Please let me know if you need any other information for a reading..

posted December 06, 2009 03:12 AM         

I may be able to brighten your out look some. I match birthdates with the use of Synastry Astrology. I may be able to give you a few birthdates of people who may be compatible with you.

If you live in America and if you like, give me the birthdates of month, day and, year of you and the two men you have an interest in. I will try to investigate then give my brief point of view. During the process, I will try and find a few birthdates that suggest possible compatibility potential with you and others.

posted December 06, 2009 09:46 PM         

Sunshine: Jan. 18, 1977, 3:08AM IST

B: Mar. 13, 1979, 2:30AM PST

A: Mar. 8, 1980, time unknown

posted December 08, 2009 03:06 PM         

I received your data, Sunshine9. Nothing else is needed. Thanks for the time zone alert. I see you were not born in America, as I first thought.

This is how I see you, Sunshine9.

You are a prize fighter. You are mentally and physically ready for your fight with life. You get into the ring, shed your robe, bang your gloves together a few times and, wait for the bell to ring. The bell rings. You meet your opponent head on. It takes the first swing at you, you confidently duck and doge it's attempts. You cautiously wait for that opening and for the right moment to swing. You see your chance and fire. But wait! OOH No, something is wrong!! Instead of your arm lunging out at the opponent, you end up hitting your gloves together like when you first got into the ring! And every time you try and swing, the same thing happens! So you suddenly have to constantly bob and weave from your opponent’s advances and swings. Something is wrong with your fire power circuitry. And when you look to your corner for help, there's no one there! What do you do? You yelled HELP! But most people can not hear you because of the crowd yelling, hoping to see you get knocked out. Keep ducking; help is on its way.

posted December 10, 2009 01:26 AM         

I compared person A & B to you Sunshine9. I noticed you were born in or around India. I will give you the results soon . . .

A.) A CHANGE OF FOCUS FOR Sunshine9:

You made the following statement that caught my attention:

"I'm going to be 33, divorced & still single, and I have all sorts of worries these days about being able to find someone in time to marry & have kids as long as I still can.".

You have been searching for someone with the hope of him being the right person, Sunshine9. You, along with most people living, have been gambling on love, waiting and hoping for that "Chance" incounter. I have discovered how to that "Chance" incounter and turn it into "Targeted" possibilities.

I use Synastry Astrology calculations to crunch aspect numbers. Without using the traditional Synastry pie chart, I am able to see thousands of date comparsions in a short amount of time. And can determine good groups of dates over really bad dates. The resulting aspects are fairly close to what you might find in a pie chart. But my informtion is incomplete, in that, I am not able to see the house position of the planets and signs. Nor am I able to see the grand trine and grand square.

That being said, though, the selections made are relavent to you and have proven to have merit in my test cases. Many of the good attraction aspects found between you and those two men, mentioned later, are also present in many of the dates presented to you here, plus more!

I only deal with the old planet selections of Sun (S), Moon (M), North Node (NN), Mercury (MY), Venus (VE), Mars (MR), Juipter (JP), Saturn (SA), Uranus (UR), Neptune (NP) and, Pluto (P). I normally consider my efforts as a special service when given the time and place of birth in order to include the MC and Asc in computation analysis.

B.) THE Seach ANALYSIS:
The analysis is focused on the aspects to your VE and JP and then to the supporting cast of aspects. The objective is to find per date sufficent stimulating emotional, mental and, physical compatibility aspects.

C.) I END UP SEEING A THEME IN A PERSON'S LIFE CYCLE TOO

I am able to see aspect combantion patterns from searching so many dates as a bye product. These patterns are part of your Solar Cycle (One year Sun cycle).

In your solar cycle, Sunshine9, I notice that MR, SA, UR & NP are the domant planets. Mars shows up as a positive influence indicator while NP and (SA & UR working as a team) do every thing they can to keep your VE (love and or money) from shining.

My assesement of your life cycle is that you should have no problem locating people to satisfy your VE. But you are strap with surprising obligations and restrictions that are imposed, either by you or by others, which may get in the way of the influences represented by your VE. I would suggest that you not trust people with your money, especially when times are GOOD.

D.) YOU ARE INDEED WISE TO ASK FOR THIS LIST

You and most of the people associated with your list may have the ability to work with you to overcome your obsticals.

The best unions in the world have there share of problems, even if they make a lot of money, your union would be no different. The potential behind your list suggest, in varying degrees of strength and from person to person, that there is some possibility of having money and or growth in your lives as a unit.

And speaking of units. Most dates listed suggest the potential for the good formation of friendships of both men and women. So you would be wise not to limit the use of it for finding just a marriage partner.

posted December 10, 2009 01:36 AM         

CONDITIONS:

1.) Control your excitement when meeting anyone who has a birthdate on one of these dates. These are ordinary people who do not have clue about the information you have. If you act too happy and getty with you first meet them, they may think you are a nut and brush you aside.

2.) Use extreme caution with meeting new people associated with the list. Because I can not vouch for anyone you meet. I do not know their physical status, health, wealth, and religion standings. Nor do I know thier criminal tendencies and, or sexual orientations.

3.) Understand that meeting people with DOB's matching the dates on your list does not prevent you from getting STD, Aids and or, other illnesses.

4.) Understand that you should keep your expectations low. Meet any new person, associated with your list, for who they are and not for what you expect them to be and or look like.

5.) Understand that many of the people associated with your list may not attract you or be attracted by you upon first meeting.

6.) Understand that you need to give the union time to mature before surrendering into a personal relationship totally.

7.) Understand that no two dates will produce the same type of union. Each will be unique and no relationship resulting from your list will be free from some degree of stress and other problems brought on by everyday life encounters.

9.) Understand that your list has been generated to help you locate compatible people. But in the broader sense, that it has been created to help you surround yourself with more positive people on a friendship level. "Surround yourself with positive
people".

10.) Understand, Sunshine9, that it has been recognized that you were born outside of the USA and that your personal DOB data was drawn from the Indian Standard Time Zone (IST) and that all of the dates and results compared to you are from the origin of the United States of America. Your positive people list will be far less valid should you us it to associate with people born outside of the states.

TERMS:

1.) Understand that I do not guarantee your satisfaction: of the results, the type of people you meet with the use of your list and or, of my advice and or suggestions.

2.) Understand that you agree not to hold me the person with the UserName (slowpoke) on the Linda-Goodman.com website or anyone
associated with this website liable for any mishaps, damages and or injuries resulting from use of your list by you or of anyone else using or being associated with your list that is injured and or damaged in some way.

3.) Understand that this list has been generated through the use of Synastry Astrology calculations, using the old traditional planets only. And that the results are based solely on the general aspect combinations pertaining to one person named "Sunshine9" of the Linda-Goodman.com website. Sunshine9 agrees to accept this information for entertainment purposes only and to use Synastry Astrology aspect interpretations concerning these dates.

Procedure For Agreement:

Before I release my results, I need some sort of statement from you that you understand these conditions and terms and accept the information and your list free of charge and that you release me from any subsequent obligation of performance for free additional service concerning your dates.

I believe that the website policy is for each person to log into the site with the use of a UserName and a password. Therefore acknowledgement of the terms and conditions on this website will suffice.

Copy this page and paste it onto your Add Reply form and state below my word Slowpoke that you agree to the terms and conditions above for receiving your positive people list.

Slowpoke

posted December 11, 2009 11:57 PM

sunshine9

Slowpoke, Thank you for your reply. I do understand the terms and am ok with them.

posted December 10, 2009 01:42 AM         

I am surprised to hear from you!

I developed a spreed sheet program for myself. All of the data and interpretations come from me.

posted December 12, 2009 08:52 AM         

sunshine9

Slowpoke, Thank you for your reply. I do understand the terms and am ok with them.

Thanks,
Sunshine

Hi Sunshine9!!

At last!! Slowpoke has arrived! What took you so long Slowpoke? He smiles and says, Hey, you know me; I ride a fast Tortes, while dismounting his trusty mount named Triumph. Together we get the job done through a slow and steady pace of determination and concentration. Ok Triumph, lets . . . move along!
(The surrounding audience responds; Oh my goodness, it is going to take him three days to leave this room . . . Hmmm)

Here are 475 dates that might be important to you, Sunshine9. These dates were match with your DOB and have been proven through Synastry Astrology to have compatible qualities to you. Find people born in the United States with these dates and you will have found people who have been prescreened to be compatible to you. Congratulations!!!

Sunshine9: Jan. . 18, 1977, 3:08AM IST

------------------------- 1950's -------------------------

------ 1952 ------
Nov. 21, 23, 24

------ 1954 ------
Feb. 23, 25, 26, 28
Mar. 01, 02
Jul. 15, 16, 19, 20, 23, 24, 26, 27, 29
Aug. 02

------ 1956 ------
Aug. 02, 17, 18, 22, 23, 26, 28

------ 1957 ------
Sep. 22, 23

------ 1958 ------
Nov. 03, 06, 07

------ 1959 ------
Jan. 13, 14
Feb. 09
Aug. 03, 25, 27, 30
Dec. 18, 21

------------------------- 1960's -------------------------

------ 1960 ------
Mar. 22, 23, 25, 26
Apr. 14, 18
May 06, 07, 09
Nov. 17, 20, 22

------ 1961 ------
Jan. 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 20, 21, 25, 30
Feb. 03, 04, 13, 14, 17, 21, 28
Mar. 02, 03
May 13, 14, 16
Jun. 19
Aug. 11, 12, 13
Sep. 18
Oct. 06
Nov. 02

------ 1962 ------
Jan. 17, 18, 20
Feb. 27, 28
Mar. 01, 02, 24
Apr. 15
May 16, 17
Jun. 02, 03, 05, 27, 28
Jul. 17, 18, 19, 20, 21
Aug. 12, 13, 15, 17, 18, 20, 26, 27, 31
Sep. 23, 26
Nov. 28, 29
Dec. 01, 02, 04, 05, 08, 09, 14, 16, 17, 27, 28, 31

------ 1963 ------
Jan. 01, 02, 13, 14, 18, 21, 23
Feb. 09, 10, 11, 13
Mar. 09
Apr. 13, 15
May 03
Jul. 16, 17, 18, 20, 23
Sep. 16
Oct. 23
Dec. 07, 08, 13

------ 1964 ------
Jan. 13, 15, 25, 26, 28
Feb. 01, 28
May 13, 14
Jun. 03, 04
Oct. 27,
Dec. 24, 25, 27, 28, 29

------ 1965 ------
Jan. 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20, 21, 23, 24, 26, 27, 28, 29, 30,
31
Feb. 01, 02, 03, 04, 26, 27
Mar. 03
Jun. 15, 16, 18, 19, 20, 21, 22
Sep. 23
Oct. 30
Nov. 08, 09, 10, 11, 12, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 21, 22
Dec. 25

------ 1966 ------
Feb. 15, 17
Apr. 23
Nov. 07

------ 1967 ------
Jan. 16

------ 1968 ------
Oct. 03, 04, 05

------ 1969 ------
Jun. 14
Aug. 11, 14, 29
Sep. 29
Dec. 29, 30

------------------------- 1970's -------------------------

------ 1970 ------
Jan. 15, 17
Feb. 21, 22, 23, 28
Mar. 01
Apr. 09, 10
Sep. 14, 15, 18, 19
Nov. 19, 21, 22
Dec. 05, , 09, 11, 19, 20, 28, 29

------ 1971 ------
Jan. 12, 15, 16, 17
Feb. 03, 08, 12, 22
Mar. 01, 02
Jun. 01, 02
Aug. 31
Sep. 01
Dec. 20

------ 1972 ------
Jan. 26
Feb. 01
Aug. 25, 26, 30
Sep. 16, 17, 18

------ 1973 ------
Jan. 14, 18, 21, 22, 23, 29, 31
May 21
Aug. 28
Dec. 26, 30

------ 1974 ------
Feb. 17
Apr. 22, 24, 25, 28
May 01, 21
Jun. 15, 16, 18
Aug. 06, 07, 11
Sep. 02, 03, 06
Dec. 24

------ 1975 ------
Dec. 17

------ 1976 ------
Feb. 16
Jul. 21
Nov. 01
Dec. 08, 09, 10, 11, 24, 26, 27

------ 1977 ------
Feb. 05

------ 1978 ------
Jan. 16
Jun. 25, 26
Jul. 19
Aug. 02, 03
Sep. 15, 16, 24, 26
Dec. 03

------ 1979 ------
Feb. 28
May 16
Jun. 12, 13
Oct. 17, 18
Dec. 04, 05, 07, 08, 09, 10, 11, 12, 14, 15, 18, 21, 22, 24, 25, 28

------------------------- 1980's -------------------------

------ 1980 ------
Feb. 17

------ 1981 ------
Nov. 29
Dec. 01

------ 1982 ------
Feb. 20

------ 1983 ------
Feb. 10
Nov. 03, 04

------ 1984 ------
Jan. 31
Feb. 01, 02, 03, 04, 10
Mar. 02, 13, 16, 22, 24, 26, 27, 30
Apr. 23
May 07, 08, 10, 15, 16, 18, 19, 20, 23, 29
Aug. 24, 25, 26, 27
Sep. 09, 14, 16
Oct. 02, 30
Nov. 03, 04, 07, 17, 20, 28

------ 1985 ------ ------
Jan. 10, 11, 12, 14, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20, 22
May 08, 09, 10
Oct. 11, 12

------ 1986 ------
Jan. 10
May 09, 14, 16, 17, 18
Sep. 16, 17, 18, 21, 27, 28
Nov. 05, 07, 16, 18
Dec. 06, 07, 08, 09, 11, 12, 13, 16, 18, 19, 20, 21, 22

------ 1987 ------
Jan. 01
Feb. 25, 26, 28
May 07
Sep. 05
Dec. 12

------ 1988 ------
Jan. 25, 27, 28, 29, 30
Mar. 23, 26, 30
Jun. 05, 06, 20
Dec. 28

------ 1989 ------
Jan. 12, 15, 16, 24, 28, 29
Feb. 27
Mar. 07, 08
Aug. 14
Nov. 20

Problems in finding people through their DOBs.

This is a large list. Use it to build yourself a base of friends. Some of these friends could become closer personal people. Many of them may have the potential to carry your union into a broader life style. But locating them by way of their birthdays is a large problem. Some churches, sport organizations and, dating companies collect DOBs but may not allow public viewing to their list. If you submit an application for a dating service, perhaps you can try and request to meet people who have specific birthdates from your list. I do not know of any astrology website chat line available for people to openly share their birthdate for the purpose of meeting people.

The people associated with your list may help you have a happier, rounder and, more productive life style, try not to take them and your list for granted.

posted December 12, 2009 08:58 AM         

You have this man problem . . .

I compared person A & B to you Sunshine9. I noticed you were born in or around India.

B: Mar. 13, 1979, 2:30AM PST:

The "B person" and you are strongly attracted to each other. Take away the attraction and you have two people who disagree on many issues. There are enough indicators here to suggest that a relationship between you would evenually sour to the point of wanting a mutural seperation. The statment you made eailier, may be the starting point to this insight;

"I know we still love each other and want to be together, but seem to be in a frozen state - nothing moves forward as we've been tiptoeing around each other, almost afraid to do anything to upset the situation."

In Synastry Astrology terms, you have VE opposition SA twice and they are supported with S 178 JP, MR 85 NP and, UR 180 JP. This strongly suggest that an intimate relationship may shut down. A communication gap may keep you from being friends.

". . .my question has to do primarily with A . . ."

A: Mar. 8, 1980, time unknown:

You and the "A person" are strongly attracted to each other in a slightly softer tone than that of the "B person". Take away the attraction between you, and I see that you have the potential to gain more in the relationship than he. You communicate well together but together as a unit, there may not be enough power between you to help him feel satisfied (Not your fault, it is just the dynamic essence between you.). In this case and in the long run the relationship may be lacking in substance for him. He could wind up as an on-again off-again kind of friend who keeps poking at you for some personal attention. You may eventually tire of this and his attempts will begin to irritate you and frustrate him further. Sadly, he has reason to worry.

In Synastry Astrology terms, the relationship is lacking in aspect indicators that would suggest mutural benefits.

posted December 13, 2009 06:54 PM         

I'm so very sad to hear the synastry part though - I've always been told there is excellent synastry between me and B despite the challenges (that double Venus-Saturn opp has been one). It seems to be very good with A too - the topic of marriage has come up but the difference in religion is a daunting line to cross. We have seemed compatible in so many other ways though, so I'm pretty sad to hear it didn't show up in the synastry.