posted January 28, 2010 11:22 PM         

That's it in a nutshell (see, even the very, very short version's long)

Can anybody do a reading for me on what's to come or what the outcome may be?

posted February 01, 2010 04:44 AM         

Luck is equal to both of you as you are both Pisces Heavy, and Jupiter is in Pisces.

The slight edge for you is Transit North Node sextile by sign, for him it opposes by Sign. Also, Tr Jupiter trine Jupiter by Sign this year.

posted February 01, 2010 08:49 AM         

Vesta, what is a horary reading...and where do I get one??

I have documented soo much. We've been seperated for 4.5 years and I'm pretty sure he's bi-polar or something because he goes from nice, rational, etc to completely off his rocker, crazy, making threats of suicide and stuff in minutes sometimes.

Like I said, I've documented and documented and documented and in all reality I should have no trouble getting sole custody. He moved away 4.5 years ago and only occasionally comes into town to visit the girls. He makes promises to come and doesn't, he has never paid child support (though is ordered to through family maintenance), he has sent text msg's to his 12 yo daughter saying he will kill himself if I went to court for child support, he has made multiple threats to me saying he will kill himself in front of the kids. He has written me emails and told me verbally that he would give the children up for adoption so that he didn't have to pay support. He has a drug problem (and has admitted this to me but has also, many times, said he's quit).

posted February 07, 2010 09:19 PM         

Any insight would be really appreciated.

posted February 08, 2010 04:07 PM         

i did a tarot reading for you. this is my first time doing a reading like this (for a stranger) so i hope it helps.

it looks like things happened really fast between you and the father of your children. one or both of you felt like you hit the jackpot in finding the other...i suspect its him though. maybe he idealized you a bit. it looks like there was lots of romance and lovey-dovey stuff going on. neither one of you were practical about the relationship. very idealistic.

at some point some conflict arose where one of you was being very childlike, needed a lot of attention and wanted to be the center of the other's world. the other person was being the willful more serious adult.

i would suggest you definitely follow the advice that has been given so far. be very methodical in your proceedings and keep track of all the paperwork. there seems to be an overall lack of rationality and an excess of impulsive behavior on both sides. so, this is the time to use your rational mind. stay as detached as possible...do what makes the most sense.

posted February 17, 2010 09:15 AM         

I'm not sure about the "fast" thing: We got together when I was only 19, and yep, I knew there were a ton of warning signs but I loved him...I also felt that once we moved in together (that was fast) that I "shouldn't" leave, that somehow I'd be disappointing my family or I'd be a failure if I did...Very dumb I know, but I was young. We got pregnant 5 years later and then married. We were together a total of 16 years, It was never a good marriage but until the last few years (when he started using drugs) it wasn't horrible.

This part is true: neither one of you were practical about the relationship. very idealistic.

And this part definately is: one of you was being very childlike, needed a lot of attention and wanted to be the center of the other's world. the other person was being the willful more serious adult.

Anyway, thank you for taking the time to do the reading, like I said, I appreciate it!

Can you possibly do a reading asking simply if there will even be a trial and what the outcome will be??