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posted July 21, 2010 09:14 AM            

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OK so there's this scorpio man at my work.. i've never felt so strong for someone and i never thought i would .. i mean i really really like him .. and he told me that he likes me alot and that i'm different from all the other girls and that he wants me to be his girlfriend .. he asked this many times and i just keep sayin no.. because i really don't feel that he is honest .. and i actually don't trust him coz he doesn't have a good reputation at work.. but i really like him and I'm just scared to take this risk and end up with a broken heart.. people say he is a player but he deny it .. i don't know whom to believe and should i take the risk or not :S!!??

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posted July 21, 2010 12:36 PM            

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It doesn't take a psychic or astrologer to tell you that this guy will say whatever it takes to have you. Common "sense" is the number one tool for any psychic or astrologer. My suggestion is that you read your own post. If people in your office are warning you and even YOU say you don't trust him, FOLLOW YOUR OWN INSTINCTS!!

If you TELL him that people are saying negative things about him, OF COURSE he's going to deny it. You've admitted that you're very attracted to him and that's fine, but that doesn't mean that you cannot use your brain. Don't mistake your strong attraction for confusion. You're not confused, you just want someone to give you permission not to pay attention to the warnings. Sorry, you won't get it from me.

Sometimes it sucks to do the right thing for yourself, but you must!!!

*EDIT* I just wanted to add your own quotes here:

I just keep saying no because:

1. I really don't feel that he is honest.

2. I actually don't trust him because he doesn't have a good reputation at work.(Red Flag)

3. I'm just scared to take this risk and end up with a broken heart.

4. People say he is a player. (Red Flag)

"I don't know who to believe?" Really?

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posted July 22, 2010 10:09 AM            

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Geocosmic valentine I really enjoyed reading your reply because it is very professional and very true... and I have to agree with your opinion as far as the information I gave... but the thing is I can help but feeling that I should really give this matter a deeper thought .. Since some additional facts that I didn’t mention before could play a role in reflecting the real situation... like the fact that he actually is very vain... he has too much dignity... so he was never pushy about a subject a day in his life... he told me so .. His friends say so... and I can tell... so knowing this... and that he asked ME to be his GF like MORE than SIX times... must really mean something... and everytime we talk… he tells me he is unhappy and that he is in need of a deep radical change in his life .. that he wants to go to another planet to change everything... and he said when he saw me he thought to himself this is the girl I want to change my life with I want to go to a whole new world with her.. I want commitment now.. I’m tired of all the foolish games..
Other than that... he is a VERYYYYYYY secretive person... but he really opens his heart to me and talks about stuff I never thought a Scorpio would feel comfortable talking about... what really keeps me thinking about this matter is that all my life I was playing on the safe side... I’ve always chose THE SAFE GUY... u know? the guy that is committed and very faithful and very expected: S... but it wasn’t love... It was more like playing a role in a play... it wasn’t true... I didn’t even feel jealousy back then... which definitely can’t be right for a SCORPIO... but now I think I might actually feel something and MAYBE just MAYBE it’s worth taking a chance... so what confuses me is.. maybe what people say isn’t true .. maybe my doubts aren’t true .. maybe I’m just too much of a coward (( like I’ve always been .. always playing on the safe side))- and cowards don’t get anywhere in their lifes-.. maybe I should give him a chance .. maybe I should give myself a chance… but then again maybe it’s like you said I’m just trying to convince myself all that .. and not paying attention to the warnings .. because well I’m just very attracted to him ..

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posted July 22, 2010 10:19 AM            

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Geocosmic valentine I really enjoyed reading your reply because it is very professional and very true... and I have to agree with your opinion as far as the information I gave... but the thing is I can help but feeling that I should really give this matter a deeper thought .. Since some additional facts that I didn’t mention before could play a role in reflecting the real situation... like the fact that he actually is very vain... he has too much dignity... so he was never pushy about a subject a day in his life... he told me so .. His friends say so... and I can tell... so knowing this... and that he asked ME to be his GF like MORE than SIX times... must really mean something... and everytime we talk… he tells me he is unhappy and that he is in need of a deep radical change in his life .. that he wants to go to another planet to change everything... and he said: "when I saw you I thought to himself this is the girl I want to change my life with I want to go to a whole new world with her.. I want commitment now.. I’m tired of all the foolish games.."
Other than that... he is a VERYYYYYYY secretive person... but he really opens his heart to me and talks about stuff I never thought a Scorpio would feel comfortable talking about... what really keeps me thinking about this matter is that all my life I was playing on the safe side... I’ve always chose THE SAFE GUY... u know? the guy that is committed and very faithful and very expected: S... but it wasn’t love... It was more like playing a role in a play... it wasn’t true... I didn’t even feel jealousy back then... which definitely can’t be right for a SCORPIO... but now I think I might actually feel something and MAYBE just MAYBE it’s worth taking a chance... so what confuses me is.. maybe what people say isn’t true .. maybe my doubts aren’t true .. maybe I’m just too much of a coward (( like I’ve always been .. always playin on the safe side))- and cowards don’t get anywhere in their lifes-.. maybe I should give him a chance .. maybe I should give myself a chance… but then again maybe it’s like you said I’m just trying to convince myself all that .. and not paying attention to the warnings .. because well I’m just very attracted to him ..

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posted July 29, 2010 10:03 AM            

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Do what you want really. If you're prepared to deal with the consequences, go ahead lol.
But it's pretty stupid if you don't take geocosmic's advice.

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posted July 29, 2010 10:09 AM            

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Sometimes we need to take a chance even when it means that we will get our heart broken...

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There is no such thing as a problem without a gift for you in its hands. You seek problems because you need their gifts.

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~ Richard Bach "Illusions"

Tread carefully. Not every heart can be mended after a storm and not all the time.

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posted July 29, 2010 08:46 PM            

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I faced the same situation as you did about 7 months ago, I was VERY attracted to a guy at work, he was always flirting with me but he had a reputation as a player at work so I avoided it, but eventually I went for it, and surprisingly I developed really deep feelings for him and he feels the same for me. It was not a mistake for me; it's been the best relationship of my life. But then again, I took it SLOW physically (still am, actually).

I also agree with the idea that I was okay with getting my heart broken. Well, not okay, but that it was worth it for me to take the risk because of how much I loved him. I'd rather be hurt and KNOW, then be safe and live with regrets. It sounds like you like him but are afraid. I say don't live your life in fear. But still be smart and take it slow - good luck!

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posted July 30, 2010 01:08 PM            

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mintgirl123 thank you for your advice.. and u should know I really respect and agree with what Geocosmic said but I felt that I should explain the situation further in order for it to be better understood..

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posted July 30, 2010 01:08 PM            

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Yin I really liked the quote .. and sometimes I do really feel like taking this chance but I just don’t .. I feel like I’m still waiting for something but I don’t know what it is .. maybe time is the answer.. dunno .. anyway I think I might figure out what to choose the next time I see him..

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posted July 30, 2010 01:09 PM            

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Shankara thank you for sharing ur experience it sure gives me a little boost .. if I were to get involved with him I would’ve definitely go slow.. but I just would like to know ur sign and the sign of ur guy ?

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posted July 30, 2010 04:10 PM            

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I'm a Libra and he's a Leo. His Moon is 1 degree away from my Sun.

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posted August 02, 2010 08:55 AM            

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how can u tell if his moon is one degree away from ur sun and what does this mean !?

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posted January 10, 2011 11:15 PM            

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@Scorpio72.....I'm curious as to whether Lilith was making a transit in your natal chart when you met this guy at work. If so, then that's an indicator that he is one to avoid. Look back at your natal transits. I recently had a Lilith conjunct my natal Moon, Jupiter, and Juno back in September. And same as you.....I met a guy at work. I didn't like him at first, but later on did. Slowly but surely, he turned on me for no reason. I think the Lilith represented me having to avoid him at all costs. I think he was psycho or something. lol.

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