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posted January 27, 2011 03:02 AM            

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Hy ALL,

I really enjoy reading the forum, I have been doing it for quite a long time as there are a lot of very insigthful posts.

Now I registered because I would like to ask for your help - Astrology, Numerology, Tarot...

There is a Cancer man that confuses my analitical Cappy nature and I need to know more.

Is he in love with me?
Is he sincere and honest with me?
Are we compatible?
What is the best I can do to make the "happily ever after" manifest?

Our data are as follows:

ME - 10.01.1984; 07:50 am;
Samokov, Bulgaria;(+2h)

HE - 08.07.1976; 11:45 am;
Sofia, Bulgaria; (+2h)

I will be VERY VERY VERY thankful to all of you that can give me some more insight and clarity

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posted January 27, 2011 10:57 AM            

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Welcome!

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"Cooking is like love. It should be entered into with abandon or not at all." Harriet Van Horne

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posted January 27, 2011 11:03 AM            

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Does he have a girlfriend?

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posted January 27, 2011 12:07 PM            

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Hy Randoll and thank you for welcoming me!

Dear CoconutCancerMoon well it is a tricky question . I think the answer is rather yes.

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So dear CoconutCancerMoon... now I think you see why I am so puzzled (bare in mind there are more details and words and looks I have not mentioned) with him.

I think he has some...well must I call them feelings towards me. And yet "flirting" with me (it is in a subtile way, I am even unsure sometimes it is flirting, while on the other day I can sware it is) and having a gf is not something I tolerate.

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It is YOU Guys!

Tell me what does he want from me? Is he in love with me? Does he want a relationship with me?

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posted January 27, 2011 12:52 PM            

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Toptops,

Itīs not really an īhonestī thing by itself since he does have a girlfriend.
I understand that he is flirting - yes, we all want that at some point.
Since you became friends, why donīt you try talk to him and realising his situation.
You know, a man can do many things to allure a woman... and at the end she ends up hurt.
If he is already involved with someone else!

I am just saying to be careful - watch your steps and see what you really want first - not him!

Donīt give before you are sure...

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posted January 27, 2011 01:10 PM            

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Hy Venia ,

thanks for giving your insight! Yes, I am perfectly aware of the fact man do...things to get into your pants (lets be realistic).

What puzzles me is that he is rather "woowing" me rather that flirting with me in the way for us to get phisical.

When we meet and talk we kind of "connect" (I know it sounds strange - just imagine how it is for me Capricorn! to feel that way). The issues we discuss are real life fundamental topics and we have discovered to share many similar points of view.

SO it is either that he falls for me and has hard time deciding or he is great actor and player.

And Vania, I don't thing I am easily fooled. I can read people, am a down to earth woman, can take care of myself and do it pretty well. Losing face and my dignity I will not let happen.

Yet... I am so puzzled with him... And just need objective opinion of somebody apart - as You and the other guys here.

I need it as a different angle of view

P.S. And just something I realised I have not mentioned - he doesn't know I had and have ended a relationship. I have just never spoken of a man in my life. ANd before 30.12 neither has he.

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posted January 27, 2011 01:17 PM            

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Well, my friend...

I think that yes - he is having a hard time deciding. Thatīs the feeling I get...

And thatīs why he needs some time...
But on the other hand... do you and can you wait?

You may be having a special connection - I donīt doubt that.
The question is what will he decide...
Cause what I feel currently, is that he is somehow attached to his girlfriend - whatever the situation. And he is having dificulties of letting go...

You are a smart woman and I think you can handle it - you will īknowī if itīs going to happen and when.

Hope it helped....

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posted January 27, 2011 01:28 PM            

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(hug)

COncerning the can I and do I wait - yes, as said I ended a relationship everyone expected to proceed to wedding so I am not interested in jumping into another one over my head.

Und die Rede ist of a real one, other things are not at all the point of discussion here .

It is nice that what you say corelates with what I feel - he is just as puzzled as I am and has difficulties deciding.

Well...we will live and see. It can be just one of two ways, no third one exists.

P.S. I have read your other post - I can't do any kind of a reading . But I am sending you all my BEST wishes for clarity of mind and strenght of will!!

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posted January 27, 2011 02:46 PM            

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Hey Guys,

I have found a website where a long sinastry table is offered. Yet I have no idea what it means .
http://www.configurationhunter.com

List of astrology aspects for synastry or transit:
TYPE* PLANET 1ST ASPECT PLANET 2ND P1 POSITION P2 POSITION ORB

S Sun opposition Sun 19 Capricorn 10' 9" 16 Cancer 20'47" 2.83

S Sun opposition Venus 19 Capricorn 10' 9" 21 Cancer 54'43" 2.73

A Sun sextile Pholus 19 Capricorn 10' 9" 16 Pisces 24'19" 2.77

S Sun opposition Ceres 19 Capricorn 10' 9" 25 Cancer 19'35" 6.15

S Sun trine Juno 19 Capricorn 10' 9" 18 Virgo 9'48" 1.02

S Moon square Mercury 6 Aries 15'58" 7 Cancer 46'59" 1.52

S Moon trine Saturn 6 Aries 15'58" 3 Leo 50'50" 2.42

S Moon opposition Pluto 6 Aries 15'58" 9 Libra 1'57" 2.77

S Mercury opposition Mercury 0 Capricorn 25'43" 7 Cancer 46'59" 7.35

S Mercury trine Mars 0 Capricorn 25'43" 0 Virgo 51'49" 0.43

A Mercury sextile Uranus 0 Capricorn 25'43" 3 Scorpio 2'15" 2.62

A Venus conjunction Moon 11 Sagittarius 3'47" 5 Sagittarius 8'44" 5.92

S Venus trine Saturn 11 Sagittarius 3'47" 3 Leo 50'50" 7.22

A Venus conjunction Neptune 11 Sagittarius 3'47" 11 Sagittarius 42'52" 0.65

S Venus sextile Pluto 11 Sagittarius 3'47" 9 Libra 1'57" 2.03

A Venus square Pholus 11 Sagittarius 3'47" 16 Pisces 24'19" 5.35

S Venus opposition Pallas 11 Sagittarius 3'47" 15 Gemini 28'51" 4.42

S Venus square Juno 11 Sagittarius 3'47" 18 Virgo 9'48" 7.1

S Venus opposition Vesta 11 Sagittarius 3'47" 17 Gemini 29'11" 6.43

S Mars square Venus 29 Libra 32'13" 21 Cancer 54'43" 7.63

S Mars sextile Mars 29 Libra 32'13" 0 Virgo 51'49" 1.32

S Mars square Saturn 29 Libra 32'13" 3 Leo 50'50" 4.3

A Mars conjunction Uranus 29 Libra 32'13" 3 Scorpio 2'15" 3.5

S Mars opposition Lilith 29 Libra 32'13" 27 Aries 52'56" 1.67

S Mars opposition Chiron 29 Libra 32'13" 1 Taurus 34'52" 2.03

S Mars square Ceres 29 Libra 32'13" 25 Cancer 19'35" 4.22

S Jupiter trine Mars 27 Sagittarius 57'54" 0 Virgo 51'49" 2.9

A Jupiter sextile Uranus 27 Sagittarius 57'54" 3 Scorpio 2'15" 5.08

S Saturn trine Sun 14 Scorpio 40' 1" 16 Cancer 20'47" 1.67

S Saturn trine Mercury 14 Scorpio 40' 1" 7 Cancer 46'59" 6.9

S Saturn trine Venus 14 Scorpio 40' 1" 21 Cancer 54'43" 7.23

A Saturn conjunction North Node 14 Scorpio 40' 1" 9 Scorpio 14'14" 5.43

A Saturn trine Pholus 14 Scorpio 40' 1" 16 Pisces 24'19" 1.73

S Saturn sextile Juno 14 Scorpio 40' 1" 18 Virgo 9'48" 3.48

A Uranus conjunction Moon 11 Sagittarius 38'15" 5 Sagittarius 8'44" 6.5

S Uranus trine Saturn 11 Sagittarius 38'15" 3 Leo 50'50" 7.8

A Uranus conjunction Neptune 11 Sagittarius 38'15" 11 Sagittarius 42'52" 0.07

S Uranus sextile Pluto 11 Sagittarius 38'15" 9 Libra 1'57" 2.62

A Uranus square Pholus 11 Sagittarius 38'15" 16 Pisces 24'19" 4.77

S Uranus opposition Pallas 11 Sagittarius 38'15" 15 Gemini 28'51" 3.83

S Uranus square Juno 11 Sagittarius 38'15" 18 Virgo 9'48" 6.52

S Uranus opposition Vesta 11 Sagittarius 38'15" 17 Gemini 29'11" 5.85

S Neptune trine Mars 29 Sagittarius 41'13" 0 Virgo 51'49" 1.17

A Neptune sextile Uranus 29 Sagittarius 41'13" 3 Scorpio 2'15" 3.35

S Pluto trine Mercury 1 Scorpio 56'58" 7 Cancer 46'59" 5.83

S Pluto sextile Mars 1 Scorpio 56'58" 0 Virgo 51'49" 1.08

S Pluto square Saturn 1 Scorpio 56'58" 3 Leo 50'50" 1.9

A Pluto conjunction Uranus 1 Scorpio 56'58" 3 Scorpio 2'15" 1.1

A Pluto conjunction North Node 1 Scorpio 56'58" 9 Scorpio 14'14" 7.3

S Pluto opposition Lilith 1 Scorpio 56'58" 27 Aries 52'56" 4.07

S Pluto opposition Chiron 1 Scorpio 56'58" 1 Taurus 34'52" 0.37

S Pluto square Ceres 1 Scorpio 56'58" 25 Cancer 19'35" 6.62

A North Node opposition Neptune 14 Gemini 2'21" 11 Sagittarius 42'52" 2.33

S North Node trine Pluto 14 Gemini 2'21" 9 Libra 1'57" 5.02

S North Node conjunction Pallas 14 Gemini 2'21" 15 Gemini 28'51" 1.43

S North Node square Juno 14 Gemini 2'21" 18 Virgo 9'48" 4.12

S North Node conjunction Vesta 14 Gemini 2'21" 17 Gemini 29'11" 3.45

S Lilith square Moon 3 Pisces 14'17" 5 Sagittarius 8'44" 1.9

S Lilith opposition Mars 3 Pisces 14'17" 0 Virgo 51'49" 2.38

A Lilith trine Uranus 3 Pisces 14'17" 3 Scorpio 2'15" 0.2

A Lilith trine North Node 3 Pisces 14'17" 9 Scorpio 14'14" 6

S Chiron opposition Moon 28 Taurus 8'55" 5 Sagittarius 8'44" 7

S Chiron square Mars 28 Taurus 8'55" 0 Virgo 51'49" 2.72

S Chiron conjunction Jupiter 28 Taurus 8'55" 23 Taurus 30'36" 4.63

S Chiron sextile Saturn 28 Taurus 8'55" 3 Leo 50'50" 5.7

S Chiron sextile Ceres 28 Taurus 8'55" 25 Cancer 19'35" 2.82

S Pholus square Sun 14 Aries 50'16" 16 Cancer 20'47" 1.5

S Pholus square Mercury 14 Aries 50'16" 7 Cancer 46'59" 7.07

S Pholus square Venus 14 Aries 50'16" 21 Cancer 54'43" 7.07

S Pholus opposition Pluto 14 Aries 50'16" 9 Libra 1'57" 5.82

S Pholus sextile Pallas 14 Aries 50'16" 15 Gemini 28'51" 0.63

S Pholus sextile Vesta 14 Aries 50'16" 17 Gemini 29'11" 2.65

S Ceres square Moon 4 Pisces 45'52" 5 Sagittarius 8'44" 0.38

S Ceres opposition Mars 4 Pisces 45'52" 0 Virgo 51'49" 3.9

A Ceres trine Uranus 4 Pisces 45'52" 3 Scorpio 2'15" 1.72

A Ceres square Neptune 4 Pisces 45'52" 11 Sagittarius 42'52" 6.95

A Ceres trine North Node 4 Pisces 45'52" 9 Scorpio 14'14" 4.48

A Pallas sextile Moon 7 Aquarius 27' 9" 5 Sagittarius 8'44" 2.32

S Pallas opposition Saturn 7 Aquarius 27' 9" 3 Leo 50'50" 3.62

A Pallas square Uranus 7 Aquarius 27' 9" 3 Scorpio 2'15" 4.42

A Pallas sextile Neptune 7 Aquarius 27' 9" 11 Sagittarius 42'52" 4.25

S Pallas trine Pluto 7 Aquarius 27' 9" 9 Libra 1'57" 1.57

A Pallas square North Node 7 Aquarius 27' 9" 9 Scorpio 14'14" 1.78

S Juno trine Mars 1 Taurus 15' 3" 0 Virgo 51'49" 0.4

S Juno square Saturn 1 Taurus 15' 3" 3 Leo 50'50" 2.58

A Juno opposition Uranus 1 Taurus 15' 3" 3 Scorpio 2'15" 1.78

A Juno opposition North Node 1 Taurus 15' 3" 9 Scorpio 14'14" 7.98

S Juno conjunction Lilith 1 Taurus 15' 3" 27 Aries 52'56" 3.38

S Juno conjunction Chiron 1 Taurus 15' 3" 1 Taurus 34'52" 0.32

S Juno square Ceres 1 Taurus 15' 3" 25 Cancer 19'35" 5.93

A Vesta opposition Neptune 14 Gemini 34'51" 11 Sagittarius 42'52" 2.87

S Vesta trine Pluto 14 Gemini 34'51" 9 Libra 1'57" 5.55

S Vesta conjunction Pallas 14 Gemini 34'51" 15 Gemini 28'51" 0.9

S Vesta square Juno 14 Gemini 34'51" 18 Virgo 9'48" 3.58

S Vesta conjunction Vesta 14 Gemini 34'51" 17 Gemini 29'11" 2.92

*A - Applying aspect ; S - Separating aspect

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posted January 27, 2011 07:11 PM            

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I asked you if he had a girlfriend for a reason

No, he is not in love with you, he's will sleep with you and thats part of the reason why he flirts. But, he will not leave his girl for you.

Sorry.

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posted January 28, 2011 02:35 AM            

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Harsh but straightforward CoconutCancerMoon.

You know what puzzles me the most - from all I have read the cancer men are supposed to be the most loyal and non-cheating men.

And that game I don't do neither and this he knows as well. Nor have I initiated the thing or sent some loose woman vibes.

It is probably that I just don't want to beleave it

Anyway... Thanks for the input.

P.S. Yet I am still curious what does the charts mean .

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posted January 28, 2011 07:46 AM            

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Hello, tops. I apologize for hurting you and being so harsh, but essentially, it is for your own good.
His sun sign is Cancer, but remember, this is just one part of his astrological make up, you can't assume that he is loyal based on his sun sign let alone his whole chart.

Just because he lusts for you does not mean you gave a "jump off" vibe. Its your innocent and sweet nature that turns him on. He likes to entertain the idea of being with you. There is something about your face or a look you make that makes his heartbeat quicken.

But, at the end of the day, he loves his girlfriend and will not leave her for you.

I hope this helps. You have free will, but I hope you choose path that causes less heartache

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posted January 29, 2011 02:32 AM            

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(HUG) CoconutCancerMoon (HUG) Vania

Thank you for sharing what you see/feel - that is what I wanted after all! Now I have two more points of view helping me to grasp the situation.

He is not the one for me so no lines will be crossed. I kind of naively still beleave that by not doing to people what you don't want to experience yourself is the only proper way of behaving.

Can I than now ask for something else Guys? As briefly mentioned I recently ended a 8,5 years relationship and am now organising my life all over again.

Could you be so nice as to look into my charts or see/feel in the cards (whatever your area of expertise is ) and tell me what you see there. I don't think I really have some spesific question but rather would like to know what is in there for me? The real One, the future paths, the coming difficulties and so on.

The only thing I can offer you in return is my deep gratitude!!! as I don't posses your gifts of reading cards or charts. ANd as well one website I visit from time to time: www.newagestore.com

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posted January 29, 2011 03:53 AM            

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Cancers men are.

Be in for a ride. Lol

They can be loyal if they have a venus in cancer, otherwise if they have a venus in gem (which I suspect your one does) they will cheat and cheat and flirt around like they're paid to do it.

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posted January 29, 2011 09:06 AM            

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My limit is one reading per person. This isn't something I just "do", I have to go into meditative state in order to properly read and choose not to force or over stress myself.

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posted January 29, 2011 12:37 PM            

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I understand CoconutCancerMoon and as said am grateful for what you have already done!!!

Do pls excuse me for being selfish and demanding . I guess it was just a reaction of me feeling fooled and hurt (not by you, but by the situation itself).

After deciding to end my previous relationship I burried myself in work as to have nothing else to think about for some time until I get used to the new situation. And when that cancer man initiated the...well however you choose to call it it served me as the thing that lightens the day.

Well... looks like I have to pull myself togerther and take it one day at the time.

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