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posted March 10, 2011 11:49 AM            

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i am in need of some insight on my relationship with my mother. i don't have a birth time for her so it will have to be something other than astrology.

any takers?

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posted March 11, 2011 04:22 PM            

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posted March 11, 2011 10:42 PM            

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Originally posted by electricmind:
i am in need of some insight on my relationship with my mother. i don't have a birth time for her so it will have to be something other than astrology.

any takers?

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Would you tell us a bit more?
That is a rather vague open ended request.
Also;
are you a man or woman and are you living with your mother?
How old are you?
How old is your mother?
Where is your father?
Are you the eldest, middle, youngest, or only child?

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posted March 12, 2011 12:33 AM            

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Hi..no need of her birth date.
Your birth date and time will do.

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posted March 12, 2011 01:46 PM            

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2/6/84
4:30am
danville
female

my mom's bday is 6/19/52
i was adopted about a month or two after birth. this is my adoptive mother

ETA i am the youngest of 3. 2 older brothers.

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posted March 12, 2011 11:19 PM            

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EM can you furnish with more details about your place of birth ie city/state/country.

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posted March 12, 2011 11:44 PM            

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sorry that was a typo

danville, IL

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posted March 13, 2011 03:32 AM            

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i see a woman with medium length dark blonde or light brown hair walking away from you. she has shame on her back radiated toward her from you. i do not know if this is your birth mother or your adopted mom. what did you find out about her, or overhear that makes you send out the shame onto her? the guilt from the shame rides under her heart and causes her to slump a bit and to curve her right shoulder down, she is carrying the weight and her face shows it. even if you forgive her this thing that has caused her to retreat from you is so intense as to be irreperable. sorry for the bleakness, its only what I see. This "thing" will always affect the relationship.

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posted March 13, 2011 04:28 AM            

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Your mother was very distant from you.
She kind of neglected you of her mothering skills due to her selfish needs or may she was more engrossed in other areas of her life and didnt have much time for you one of the reasons being that She herself might have been deprived of a loving mother during her childhood.
Nevertherless your mother was an authoritarian figure in your home.
She is outspoken,and has a strong influence on you.

Your thoughts and speech may be preoccupied by trivial matters and are influenced by unconscious emotions arising from family affairs and early childhood lessons.
Your mother is very impatient and quick to anger as a result,
your moods are quick to rise, and need a ready outlet.You can be angry at her, yet direct it at others.Your mother taught you to take your ideas
personally, to identify with them emotionally, and to think
defensively. However,your true freedom comes from letting go of
your emotional attachment to your ideas.

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posted March 13, 2011 04:28 AM            

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You do not see your mother clearly. Either she is so wonderful
that you feel you'll never live up to her example, or she
relinquished her responsibilities, leaving you to create your own
maternal concept. She may have avoided reality through drugs,
alcohol, food, sleep, etc.

you both may argue quite a bit, but this arguing originates from a deep bond between you both, where many things are blended together, like jealousy and also a mutual desire to dominate one another.
You have misunderstandings with or separation from an overly indulgent parent, usually your mother. Family problems usually center on religion (which you cling to for sentimental reasons rather than faith)Your mother may be an unusual person or your relationship with her may be unusual. You have a strong sense of duty but must learn to control your more extreme tendencies.
There will be emotional upsets in the house occupied by Neptune that require sacrifice and understanding on your part.
You must cultivate reasoning power and not allow your emotions to control your actions.

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