posted April 21, 2011 12:55 AM            

I do not know exactly what information to provide, so first I will give you some background on my situation and then I will share birth dates, as I assume those are needed

First, this is about me and the love of my life. We met waaay back in 2002. We entertained and flirted with the idea of being together while getting to know each other without being really serious until Feb 2005, when we actually decided to be together and for our relationship to become serious. However, our relationship ended abruptly when my parents and I had to move. He and I lost touch for about a year or so, but then became in touch again around 2006 and stayed that way (on and off) up until the end of 2010. This is when we started talking more and we both confessed to each other that we still loved one another. He also said even before I did (as I wanted to) that yes, we have had other relationships, but it was just not the same. We have missed each other ever since. We believe that we are soulmates and we also feel this strong pull towards each other. I would love to know why this is too!

We have been trying to see each other again ever since the end of 2010, but a bigger obstacle got in the way when he had to move back to his home country.

However, we did not lose touch and kept our communication flowing. He recently moved to a different (and more safer) area in his home country and told me that we would keep in touch. We had plans to see each other again. However, it has been three weeks today since he told me he would call me (after he moved there.) I just do not understand it at all and I would like to know what other see regarding this situation.

I feel that he is the one I have always been destined to be with. He is in my heart so deep. Him and I have also said that he is my "Jack" and I am his "Rose" like from the movie Titanic. Titanic has become our theme lol!

But why have we lost communication? I have all these thoughts running through my mind and I am going crazy at times thinking that maybe he is being stubborn about something, as he IS a Taurus, or that maybe he changed his mind. However, he made a promise that he would never change his mind again (as he did in the past) and he told me that he would never say goodbye to me again. He basically said he was in it for the long haul if I was, and I certainly AM!!

Anyways, my birth date is January 4, 1985. I'm a Capricorn. And his birthdate is April 25, 1983. He is my Taurus.

I really love this man and I believe he feels the same, however there are times where I feel that we will never see each other again.

Any insight at all from anyone??? I greatly appreciate it in advance and I thank you for your time!

posted April 21, 2011 11:30 AM            

Do you have a birth time for either of these charts? I will still look, but it makes the information a whole lot more accurate if I know what time you were born.

posted April 26, 2011 11:28 PM            

I hate to bother you, as I am sure you are busy, but I was wondering if you have read mine and my Taurus' charts yet? I hate to sound like I am being impatient -- really I am just excited!!

Thank you so much!

posted April 28, 2011 01:26 PM            

You're fine, no need to apologize. I should be apologizing to you. I was just able to get to your chart now. Please check back later today and it will be up. I'm trying to have it up by 5:00 PM.

posted April 28, 2011 01:41 PM            

Oh you do not need to apologize at all, so do not worry. Everyone is busy, so I complete understand!

I appreciate you trying to get up my chart by 5 pm, thank you. However no pressure!

Thank you again though, and I look forward to seeing what you have to say soon!

posted April 28, 2011 06:32 PM            

After looking at your chart and your boyfriend’s chart my assessment is that you both have a lot of aspects between you that would suggest a very strong love bond, strong soul-mate aspects are there. I don’t really have to say much more, you already feel it, YOU KNOW IT! You both know it. That’s why the rest of this difficult stuff comes into play. In one respect it’s what being soul-mates is all about. Sorting through the rocks together, slogging through the mud, learning difficult lessons from each other and it seems that’s what you’re both doing now.

Without knowing his birth time there are a few things that I can’t tell but I have a high suspicion that his Moon might rule his 3rd House of communication and I base that on the fact that his Moon is in Libra, no matter what time he was born and if transiting Saturn is making conjunctions with his natal Moon as it is transiting, then retrograding and going stationary again, this may be affecting his ability or desire to communicate with you or anyone. This is also a strong signature of emotional depression, no matter what house it rules or what house it’s located in, BUT whenever Saturn relates to the Moon in a chart, it is a strong suggestion of ambition being brought to the center stage in one’s life, showing up for that ambition no matter how unpleasant it may be, the person is usually trying to get there needs met because they feel a lack of nurturing. Now, this may be in the past for him, but when I look at your chart and the patterns affecting your 7th House of "the partner" those same energies match up. He'll get through it or he is getting through it.

Toward the end of May, transiting Jupiter will oppose his natal Pluto and this is a suggestion of tremendous resourcefulness on his part, this often translates to receiving opportunities or money or reward. Then, there is more good news for him around the end of June. Transiting Jupiter will conjunct his Sun. This is HUGE reward energy, so it looks like “good luck” energy is building for him. I don’t know exactly what it will mean for him but I do know that Jupiter is the planet that rules long distance travel. DO NOT BANK ON THIS “but” if he was going to make the trip, that would be the best time to do it or it may simply mean that somehow he has the means to begin the process of – whatever he wants to do, be or have, he will be experiencing joy. The extra good news for him is that Jupiter will go retrograde this year in the early degrees of Taurus so Jupiter will come back to his Sun again when it goes retrograde. It will conjunct his Sun a 2nd time at the beginning of November and then a 3rd time in the middle of February, so things are looking up.

When I look at your chart I can see that relationship issues have been extremely difficult. Transiting Saturn recently squared your natal Sun for the 2nd time as it went retrograde. Your Sun is located in the 11th House of “love received” and it rules your 7th House of “relationships, the partner”. This may simply be suggesting the difficulty and sadness you’re experiencing by not having him around. Saturn will square your Sun one more time before it’s through. Saturn is not there just to make things difficult for you, Saturn is also teaching you lessons about relationships so pay attention to what ever lessons on maturity you may be learning.

If you haven’t received communication from him by the time I’ve posted this information, there is a high probability that you’ll receive some word from him around the beginning of June. There is one large pattern in your chart that actually speaks of the last year being a time of strong planning and organization and it was difficult for you mentally as well in a depressing kind of way. This may have also affected your home, your mother or both parents and career as well. It’s been a strong year of life development for you, but that pressure and time of strict lessons is coming easing up for you.

One thing I need to state clearly. No matter how wonderful your charts look together, in order to have a relationship with anyone there needs to be proximity. If you both want to spend your lives together, then you need to BE together, in the same country, state, city, town, HOUSE! If he can’t be with you here, you need to be with him there. One of you has to make that decision and deal with whatever the fall out may be. I do believe that something is going to give rather soon for you both, but it’s happening gradually as most things do (and most of the time, should). Please let me know if any of this rings true and I’d love to be updated as events unfold.

The way I usually do consultations is by conversation and it’s becoming increasingly more difficult to write out consultations so feel free to ask me any questions if you want something clarified or if I have forgotten something. Now that I’ve looked at your chart and I’m more familiar with it (yours and his) I can get to the answers more quickly.

Have a great day and I have my fingers crossed for you both.

posted April 29, 2011 05:58 PM            

Well I cannot believe how awesome your assessment is! I want to say thank you SO much again for taking the time out to look at both of our charts.

I am so happy to finally have someone confirm my feelings, about me and him having a very strong love bond as well as soul-mate aspects. Just like you said, I have always felt it. From the moment we met I have, and I believe he has too. I believe this is why even though we have been in other relationships, we always think about one another and we always get in contact again. However, this time is certainly different since before we never really confessed our feelings for each other. At the end of last year we did and have been making plans to see each other ever since. It is like I have never had doubts about us and I trust him too. With past relationships, I have always questioned “Am I meant to be with this person?” But with my Taurus, it is like I already know that I am destined to be with him. There is no doubt and no question about it.

When you mentioned emotional depression regarding my boyfriend, I have to agree with you about that. He has always felt lonely, especially after we had to end our relationship with me moving with my parents to another state. I think that is what he is going through now as well, since he had a falling out between him and his parents before moving. I think this is how he is. If he is depressed or if he is having problems, he withdraws from it all. He can also dive in deep with his work too, to get his mind off the depression or problems. But just like you said, he will get through it or he is in the process of getting through it. I do not believe this is the last I’ve heard from him.

It is also funny that you bring up something regarding long distance travel! Before he moved, we talked about what month I would be planning on traveling there…at first it was in April. Then it was at the end of May. Then I found out my graduation date, and we decided it would be best in June. However, there was no specific time (beginning, middle, or end) of June. I am wondering if this means maybe I will be traveling to see him at the end of June. I know he wanted to be renting his own place and have another job lined up as well as be able to take time off for a week or so for us to spend time together. I think you already mentioned this word: Ambition. That is one of the things I just love about him: His drive and ambition to get things done.

I am very happy to read that he has a lot of “good luck” energy building up for him. He really needs that, so this is good Even though we have not communicated in a while (no, still not yet!) I can somehow feel that he is going through a rough time right now. It is like I can kind of feel his energy or something. Did you (or can you) see if there is anything in my chart that says something about how I can feel energies sometimes? I know it is probably an odd question lol, but usually I can feel someone else’s energy. It can either make me very uncomfortable to be around them, or everything conversation, etc. goes smoothly. Maybe I am feeling their aura? But in regards to my boyfriend, I can “feel” that he is going through a rough patch right now and I know that is why he has not communicated either.

You are right when you say that relationship issues have been difficult. I have been going through many problems with my son’s father (a completely different story lol) and then my non-communicative Taurus who I miss hearing from dearly, as well as my ex-husband from a long time ago who has been threatening me lately because he wants to get back together! Talk about a soap opera lol! But it has been a very difficult time. However, I still feel like this could be my year and I am hoping so! I am going to (as well as have been) paying attention to any lessons on maturity that I am or have learned.

So I have not received communication from my Taurus yet. And I am hoping with my fingers crossed that I hear from him by the beginning of June or even before! I have a feeling I will though.

When you wrote that last year was a time of strong planning and organization, I was surprised because you are right! Me and my boyfriend were planning and organizing things so that I would be able to go see him. That is ALL my life focused on, and it affected my parents greatly because well, that is all I thought about. And I just got a feeling that maybe that is why things have stalled too, so I can get back in track and not just revolve everything around planning my trip to see him. And yes, that also affected my career too. I got behind very much so with my work and studies. I still am too, but slowly but surely I am getting close to being caught up.

I am very happy to read that that pressure and time of those strict lessons will be easing up for me, as it has been a very hard and difficult time as well as emotionally draining.

I am also very happy to read that our charts look wonderful together! But I completely agree, as I know does my boyfriend, that if we are going to be together, we need to be just that: TOGETHER and under the same roof. We have already talked about it, and I know we will decide for him to either move back here somehow some way, or I will be moving there with my son. However, if I have to move to Mexico with my son I already know there will be a falling out between me and my mother. She is completely against my choice to move there, even though she knows it is an extremely high possibility in order to have a real relationship together with my boyfriend. Even though I am 26 years old, my son and I have to live with my parents, and it is hard because they (well mostly my mother) is very involved with my life. She has even gone as far as to say she would try to take my to court to get some kind of document that prevents me from taking my son to Mexico if I were to move there!

But at the end of the day, so to speak, I am willing to deal with whatever fall out there may be. My mother will just have to understand and would have to support my decision.

Just like you, I feel that something is going to give soon for us both as well. However, I am glad that everything is happening gradually. I was just thinking that it might make me and my boyfriend feel as though things are going too fast if things were to happen one thing after another quickly! So even though by nature I am not a patient person and when I want something I want it yesterday, I think these things are happening gradually for a reason.

All of the things that you have said have rung true! You are very good at what you do! I have always been interested in learning how to read Astrology charts, but it just seems so difficult!

posted May 03, 2011 12:49 PM            

I'm so glad that I could hit on how the energy was truly flowing in your chart and in your boyfriend's chart in order to give you some helpful insight.

To answer your question about whether I saw anything in your chart suggesting that you might have a sensitivity to receiving vibrations from others, the answer is yes. Because I'm not necessarily teaching right now (I sometimes don't have the energy for it) I'll just let you know that the symbols are there, but it's funny to me that people who feel vibrations will ask an astrologer instead of trusting the vibrations they're feeling. Before I learned astrology I always went to psychics for insight, I still do from time to time, but my strong suggestion is for you to trust yourself when you're feeling something. Sure, it's alright to back that up by seeking confirmation, I didn't mean to make it seem silly, but from now on I suggest that you trust yourself and remain calm when you feel the vibrations.

Also, if you ever sense something or someone may be in a dangerous type of situation, never panic. Instead, consciously communicate with God or your Higher Power and let him/her know your highest intention for the situation you're feeling. That's my highest thought on that subject.

As for your Mom threatening to take your child from you, your chart suggests that your Mom may be a highly eccentric person, possibly a little irrational and unless you tend to be that way also (and I don't get that feeling from the way you write) I wouldn't worry about her threats. If there is some situation that I don't have the full information about then I shouldn't be commenting. My point is that you are of age to make your own decisions. If you wanted to move to North Pole with your child, you are the parent and it's fully your choice to raise your child where you please.

Take good care and thank you for your detailed response. It's very helpful.

Enjoy the spring,

posted May 10, 2011 10:50 AM            

I have been trying to reply back to you on here, but for some reason it loads very slow when I submit my reply and then it does not go through. So I am thinking my reply may be too long. I am going to try splitting it up.

Well, I wanted to give you an update! I finally got in touch with my Taurus (I’m going to say his name now lol, which is Marcial), except it was not in the way that I expected. You see, his brother and the rest of his family and I have been in touch during this time where my Taurus had been MIA. They were worried just as much as I was. I finally decided to be patient lol, something that I am just not good at, and I was doing well until Marcial’s brother called me and gave me his boss’s number. So I called Marcial’s boss’s number. To make a long story shorter, me and Marcial finally talked, however it was not the phone call that I expected. He apologized for not being able to call. He told me when he first got to the new place with his boss, he was not working hardly at all. Now though he is working six days a week, sometimes seven, and he is able to “put money in his wallet now.” I wished him a happy belated birthday and he asked me “Is that the only reason that you called? To wish me a happy birthday?” I was stunned by this question and told him “No! I called you because I have been worried about you and I actually thought that you were dead or something!” He told me that he is fine.

He was also curious about how I got the number. I told him that everyone is worried about him. I also apologized many times for calling that number, as I knew it was his boss’s.

posted May 10, 2011 10:53 AM            

As much as this phone call was an odd one and not at all how I thought it would turn out to be, I still feel like this man is my soul-mate. However, maybe we are not meant to be right now. Maybe I still have some growing to do, as well as himself, before we can actually BE together? Even though I know he is okay, I still feel like I am back to square one again. I really regret not asking him my main question (but I did not want the conversation to be focused on just that), but has he changed his mind about us being together. That is what I regret not asking him.

posted May 10, 2011 10:53 AM            

But who knows now if that is even going to happen! The way I felt with talking to Marcial on the phone….well, it was different. I do not know if it was because he was shocked to hear from me and that I had nerve “tracking” him down or whatever you want to call it. Or maybe he has just changed. I could have sworn I heard him say “Love you” at the end of our conversation though. But our conversation was too quick and it happened just so fast, that well, it seems like it did not even happen at all! I know I probably sound crazy.

But I wonder if this odd phone call is part of where you said things are happening gradually, just as they are supposed to be. I did not expect him to say when he wanted to see me, not at all, as I know those things take time. I guess I wanted him to say “Don’t worry, I have not changed my mind about us.” But then again, we are talking about Marcial here, and he has always been a busy man. Always busy working. One time a few years back he even had three jobs!

Okay, well I am going to stop writing now. I just wanted to update you on one event that unfolded, a quite unexpected one! I will update as things happen.

I do have one question though: Do you think I ruined our chances of having anything in the future by getting in contact with him first? Do you think he will contact me again? Or are things going exactly how they are supposed to: Gradually, like you told me before. I’m feeling literally sick over this lol! I know, I know. Silly questions right?

Thank you again Geocosmic* Valentine!