posted May 27, 2011 01:27 PM            

So, if anyone sees a way with which I can avoid being kicked out of this apartment, tarot, horary or even transit, or whatever work, PLEASE share!

I really need insights now on how to deal with this!

posted May 28, 2011 04:30 AM            

The death card
Fortunately enough this card promises you will be ok in the long run of things,though there is going be some sacrifices made on your part.This card usually points to a sudden,or slow but inevitable loss.Either of a job,home,finances etc.This card tells you not to go at this alone and ask for help.You need it right now,so there is no shame in asking for it.You have a young baby and you need to do what you must to get through this in one piece.

Ten of cups
In short,and in your situation,i would say this card points to family.Parents,siblings,it can even extend to the kindness of close friends.This card is positive to confirm that help asked through family will go through well.

Two of swords
This card is representative of balance,and partnerships.Also creativity and agreements.
I think if you are careful enough,and frame your proposition in the right way,you can come to some type of living,or sharing arrangement with staying at the home of a family member,parent,sibling or even close friend to help you out for the time being.

From a practical stand point,and without the advice of tarot,i would have advised you to make this move either way.I think you need to get creative with your way of living for the time being ,and come to some agreement of sharing or living with an acquaintance of some sort,for an amount of time.Though i can't imagining anyone turning down a woman in need,with a young baby.If all else fails,you should look into getting some type of public or emergency assistance,as the street is no where for a baby to be.It might take a few hours in a human resource department,but it will be well worth the time to get some emergency help and shelter,should you not find someone to help you out.Most places even offer emergency rent money.try to find your local human resource department.

posted May 28, 2011 07:24 AM            

I feel it will go to that anyway. I do have a good friend who has offered to help me out and I know he can accomodate me. But because he has already done so much for me when I broke up with my ex and there's nothing that I can give back to him, I feel I'd be taking advantage of his kindness if I did move in with him again.

My family, on the other hand, cannot accomodate me and my son. The only ones who can, I don't want to move in with for very personal and very serious reasons. So it seems that that friend is my only option if it comes to it and because I don't want to seem to take advantage of his kindness, I was really hoping that you would have said that the matter would have been dealt with and I wouldn't have to move out.

Also because a local reader told me that I would only move house by the end of the year. If that is true, that would mean I would be without an address for another half year and stand to lose my son and my income. You can imagine those are two things I want to avoid at all costs. Also I'm confident that if I have to sacrifice my computer, cd's and books collections which I worked incredibly hard for to get, I might do something horrible. I've lost everything once and I'll be damned if I loose everything of value again.

My landlady definitely wants me out. She has wanted me out nearly since the start even though I've always paid well until my ex lost his job and I was left paying everything on my own. But rather than understanding that we were in a dire situation, she used it as an excuse to get rid of us for good.

I have been court ordered to pay the rent I'm owed and then move out. All I can do is be honest about my situation, but I have been considering to play it cruel. I'm set on bringing her down before she does me. Might be the Scorpio in me but it serves her right for not having sympathy while I was trying my hardest to make ends meet.

posted May 28, 2011 10:30 AM            

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posted May 28, 2011 03:38 PM            

I too feel that I will be okay in the end, but I just feel too tired to struggle at the moment what with everything I had come my way in the space of two months. And I also feel that if I don't fight now, it might be worse than it is now. I feel the urge to fight, but I just simply don't have the energy anymore...

posted May 29, 2011 12:29 AM            

I will take a more closer look on your chart a bit later.

Beside looking for and accepting any kind of help which could be beneficial, i would advise you two other things: chakra clearing and praying, becasue both of them are very powerful.

You especially need to focus on your root chakra, because this is the one responsible for material security issues.
http://www.connectingwithlight.com/chakra.htm - some basic information
http://www.connectingwithlight.com/chakra.htm#root - a prayer for root chakra clearing
http://ezinearticles.com/?Chakra-Clearing---A-Great-Exercise-to-Restore-Harmony&id=3920505 - clearing with white light

posted May 29, 2011 08:12 AM            

Spell for finding a new house

A house of my own

a house to be free

a house that loves me

and is perfect for me

a perfect house

to rest and to play

where my heart is at home

is now coming my way.

My own home to live,to love and grow

posted May 29, 2011 12:45 PM            

I'm definitely going to try the chakra thing, and will have to delve into what knowledge I have left of spellcasting to try that spell... I'll keep you all posted on what will happen in the coming weeks. So far on a less spiritual plane I've found out so far that there are social housing companies which I might be able to turn to, and other support systems which I could apply for, but knowing Belgium, I'm afraid it might include a tower of paper work and weeks, if not months, of waiting to see if I can apply for anything at all.

posted June 08, 2011 02:12 AM            

I have not been to court yet, that is next week. But the "friend" who might have been an option to accomodate me, is also no longer an option (I don't exactly consider him a friend anymore after what he did yesterday). My chances are slimming rapidly.

posted June 13, 2011 06:56 PM            

The hearing is tomorrow. I have had some good news tonight that I will be recieving quite a copious amount of money from the tax office, but I will only get that, at the earliest, around November.

I am, in the mean time, applying for several social housing schemes in the hope that my situation will be deemed urgent and I will soon be able to get out of this apartment and out of my landlady's hair.

This might all take a while, seeing Belgium's notorious love for endless paperwork and check-ups, and I have to say I'm bloody nervous for the hearing! I'm praying to whichever Deity wants to listen that a) everything goes right and b) I don't end up putting my foot in my mouth when I had everything going for me. Which often happens...

posted June 14, 2011 07:07 AM            

The hearing is over and in retrospect I didn't have much to worry about. The landlady agreed with paying off the rent I am behind in bits and won't kick me out if I continue to do so. It means I have to reign in here and there and it'll be harder than I've grown used to over the last few years but I have survived on 50 euros a month for food before, surely I'm going to be able to survive on 200 a month for two?

And of course, the tax office is owed a humble thank you, the refund I'm getting convinced everyone it was doable.

In the mean time, now I'm not in a hurry to find a new place (the agreement will be on paper so she has to stick with letting me live there) I can stop stressing about that as well. Still looking, though!

Thank you again all for your readings and advice!

posted June 14, 2011 08:49 AM            

(don't mind the triple post, was posting on my phone and only saw afterwards it posted three times instead of two )