posted June 02, 2011 08:49 AM            

I would really appreciate some advise on my natal chart regarding relationships both personal and with family ...everything has gone pear shaped any help would be great feeling a bit low.
thanks x

posted June 09, 2011 12:54 PM            

Equal house chart below thanks for your time.

posted June 09, 2011 03:18 PM            

I'm assuming you had a very difficult childhood somehow taking on the same burden your parents had. Your difficulty in love is this fine line between love and hate. It's like you hate someone for making them love you (as one friend put it). You've got really deep passions and have a hard time dealing with them. You need to control the relationship probably due to childhood/family trauma. You're definitely possesive and very physical in love. You love to shower gifts on your lover and like to be dined and wined (or would like to) You like the traditional approach to love/relationships.

Generally you are a very closed off person, you like to keep your life fairly private. My advice to you is to make some time for yourself and to trust in your intuition in terms of how to help out people but allow yourself that alone time to understand what your needs are as well. With Jupiter in the 11th trine Sun, I assume you make friends easily and have a wide circle of them? You might want to deal with your family in the same way. Meaning with a wide variety of friends you don't see them everyday and don't get to close, there is distance there, and this might be helpful in dealing with family.

However family is often a tough nut to crack. There are many influences there and we just need to accept some things for what they are and realize there is not much we can change. But you can always change the way you react to things and how you communicate. With Sun in the 3rd house communication is essential to your individuality and sense of person. This is probably what attracts people to you, allow this to show through to your family. Don't quickly jump to the defensive (sun square saturn). Hear them out and take time to digest what they're saying before you respond. You have a very disciplined mind with merc trine saturn and uranus. You constantly seek mental stimulation.

posted June 10, 2011 04:02 PM            

WOW! Pluto is right on your moon right now...oh jeez I feel bad for you. It's conjunct your Neptune, Dsc and opp your asc....In the sixth house...I'm typing as I think....oh jeez it's also square your mars in the 9th...Damn this really is a hard time for you huh? While pluto was transiting your 6 house did you take a different approach to health?
And Pluto is opp your chiron!!! Daddy issues??

Ok as far as Pluto goes, this is definitely a transformation period in your life. It's hitting some very sensitive spots which are likely to stick with you for the rest of your life. My simplest advice is try to learn the lessons you're supposed to right now because whether you like it or not they're going to be learned the easy way or the hard way. You can't fight Pluto, ok you can but you won't win. Pluto can be very brutal but these are needed changes in your life so try to take it in stride. Easier said than done. I had Pluto creating havoc going back and forth over my IC/MC for the longest time.

ok Saturn. Opposite your mars, in the 4th house, square moon/neptune...(btw so jealous of that moon/Neptune conjunction, super psychic abilities). OK the Saturn lessons will come a bit slowly over time. They don't punch quite as fast as Pluto lessons but you still feel them. Personally I can deal with Pluto much better than Saturn...but that's just me. I'm assuming you might be feeling some sort of energy drain do to the family issues? Since saturn is hitting your 4th house I'm assuming most of the impact is being felt there. Since mars is about asserting yourself having Saturn oppose that might be giving you an energy drain. You might be second guessing yourself, doubting your ability to do things, maybe even less energy for sex?
Squaring your moon, you might feel less able to express your emotions, doubts about feeling loved and being able to connect emotionally with people. Stay positive because feeding into the negative thought will make the thoughts a reality therefore self-sabotaging things because of insecurities and fears. Also try building a better relationship with your mom, if the relationship is already good with her keep supporting the closeness you've had.

posted June 11, 2011 12:57 PM            

I could do with some of the psychic abilities at the moment......lol
Relationship is pretty much over with mom, can I find out from the chart how long these influences will last? How do I work it out?