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sunshine9
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From: Durham, NC, US
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posted June 05, 2011 03:21 AM
  
Dear knowflakes,I am in a long-distance relationship with someone I've loved a long time, but due to various obstacles, we've lost much time getting to where we are now. I'm in my early thirties and am very concerned about the timing for children - I feel like our relationship will definitely progress to marriage, given time, but I am anxious about taking too long getting there! Could someone please look over my chart & that of my man's, to tell me if our progressions & transits support the possibility of us getting married this year, and about the possibility of us having children together in the next year or two? I would really appreciate any help with this.. Best,
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sunshine9
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posted June 05, 2011 03:22 AM
Here are natal charts for him & me, showing transits & progressions:   
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sunshine9
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posted June 05, 2011 03:29 AM
Do we keep the orbs tight for progressions? Say, within a degree or so, for themes that may show up within the year? Is there a need to do solar arcs? IP: Logged |
sunshine9
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posted June 05, 2011 03:42 AM
I was reading about Sun-Moon midpoints being activated when significant relationships begin - is that through a progression or synastry aspect in the other's chart? How do you calculate midpoints between two opposing planets? My man has a Sun-Moon opposition, so does his chart have 2 midpoints? My Karma is about 3" away from conjuncting his Sun-Moon midpoint in Sagittarius.. is that significant? Speaking of Karma, his is within a degree orb of conjuncting my Descendant. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
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posted June 05, 2011 04:26 AM
I do not know how to do progressions or transits or I would look at it.
I can do synastry,composite( a little ) and the natal's.
Sunshine , we can keep it bumped so someone will see it ------------------
Enlightenment doesn't result from sitting around visualizing images of light, but from integrating the darker aspects of the self into the conscious personality
Jung
You must lose your life for My sake in order to find it .
Jesus
He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city
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sunshine9
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From: Durham, NC, US
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posted June 05, 2011 02:29 PM
Thanks for checking in, hon.. I know you would if you could..  I'm looking forward to learning more; I started digging for more information last night, but I don't yet know nearly enough to figure this out. IP: Logged |
sunshine9
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From: Durham, NC, US
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posted June 05, 2011 10:30 PM
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sunshine9
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posted June 07, 2011 01:22 PM
Hoping, waiting.. hoping..  IP: Logged |
sunshine9
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posted June 09, 2011 02:15 PM
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sunshine9
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posted June 09, 2011 10:20 PM
Not feeling so sunshine-y.. I'm really worried about my life - things have been so stagnant for years in my love life. There has been more movement in it of late, yet it seems to be inching along so slowly I wonder how long it will take for us to a place of real commitment. My 24 year old cousin's getting married this weekend.. I love her dearly & wish her all the best, yet I find myself wondering when my life will have the same joys.. and if I even deserve to have the happiness of companionship, of a life partner to share my life with, of having children.. I love my man and he loves me, deeply, but long-distance is so hard.. we see each other only once in 2-4 weeks, and I find myself feeling sad/lonely when weekends roll around when we are not together. I had a serious health issue come up in March when I was out of town in another part of the country that I'm still dealing with, and a frustrating job search & visa situation that has held me up from getting jobs closer to him.. Some days I feel blue, and so alone in tackling life's problems - I had a ceiling leak the other day to deal with on top of a health situation that happened at the doctor's office that required me to take it easy with no stress, and felt so frustrated at being alone with my problems with no support. I really, really wish our relationship would progress faster toward commitment.. I have waited a looong time for this - we've known each other 10 years now. I don't know if I'm expecting us to move faster than I should, or perhaps I should, and his Pisces Mars just needs much nudging to make things happen - we've talked & he agrees with me but his timeline is much slower. I don't know if I'm being reasonable or not sometimes. I just know how I feel when I realize I'm missing out on life - most people my age I know are married with kids. Seeing the joy those cute little ones bring makes me really want one or two of my own. It sounds silly..I know.. but is it wrong to feel a pang for those things at my age? I will be 35 in 6 months. I wonder just how long the Universe will have me wait for the simple pleasures of a loving family.. is that too much to ask, really?  IP: Logged |
abcd efg
Knowflake Posts: 583
From: India
Registered: Mar 2011
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posted June 10, 2011 09:43 AM
Ofcourse not! I dont know astrology otherwise i would have read your chart by now. I hope that things work out very fast for you now and by next year you give us some good news. Next year because marraige can be fast but children hmmmm.......OK why don't you try pushing him a little? You know sometimes even just taking plane action works. I dont know much abt ur bf but one of my acquaintances (an elderly lady) had asked her bf straight away and took the matter in both hands. And boy did it work! This was ages ago and in those days it was a big no no that too here in our place. And one more thing. Don't laugh. I am serious. Give GOD an ultimatum. (I am sure you must be laughing by now) I dont know if you are an atheist but even if you are you can try giving whatever power runs this universe a threat or two. At times this gives marvellous results. Belive me. All the best!  IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
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posted June 10, 2011 09:53 AM
 Sunshine
I am sorry you are hurting!------------------
Enlightenment doesn't result from sitting around visualizing images of light, but from integrating the darker aspects of the self into the conscious personality
Jung
You must lose your life for My sake in order to find it .
Jesus
He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city
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Ami Anne
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From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
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posted June 10, 2011 10:07 AM
Pluto Squared is good with transits.I will ask her if she can look at it Darling.------------------
Enlightenment doesn't result from sitting around visualizing images of light, but from integrating the darker aspects of the self into the conscious personality
Jung
You must lose your life for My sake in order to find it .
Jesus
He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city
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sunshine9
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From: Durham, NC, US
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 10, 2011 11:18 AM
Thank you so much for the kind words, abcd efg & Ami Anne...  Dear abdc efg, Oddly enough, I did feel pushed to the point of pouring out my troubles to God & asking His help yesterday.. I'm normally a happy, positive person, but sometimes when I'm really struggling with something, then I decide I'm going to put it in His corner, and He needs to take care of the issue if He still remembers me and cares about me. If I'm at the end of my rope, I do give Him ultimatums, and the dear One has always come through. I meditate, and last night, I felt Him say that I need to start working on the boy, talking to him about what I need, and discussing how we can get there - it takes much discussion on big matters with him, but we do work things out well that way, by talking through it regularly. So I'm going to start doing that more and will keep you posted on how things go. You are a real sweetheart.. Dear Ami Anne, thank you so much for caring; it means a lot to me, love.. Any help from Pluto would be greatly appreciated and welcomed. Much love,
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Ami Anne
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posted June 10, 2011 11:26 AM
You are welcome Sunshine. MY pleasure.I messaged her ------------------
Enlightenment doesn't result from sitting around visualizing images of light, but from integrating the darker aspects of the self into the conscious personality
Jung
You must lose your life for My sake in order to find it .
Jesus
He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city
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abcd efg
Knowflake Posts: 583
From: India
Registered: Mar 2011
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posted June 10, 2011 11:40 AM
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sunshine9
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From: Durham, NC, US
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 10, 2011 11:00 PM
Ami Anne & abcd efg,
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Ami Anne
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posted June 11, 2011 04:11 AM
I can look at both natals and synastry if you want Sunshine.
I can give you some insights with that if that will help.
Let me know ------------------
Enlightenment doesn't result from sitting around visualizing images of light, but from integrating the darker aspects of the self into the conscious personality
Jung
You must lose your life for My sake in order to find it .
Jesus
He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city
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abcd efg
Knowflake Posts: 583
From: India
Registered: Mar 2011
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posted June 12, 2011 01:32 PM
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sunshine9
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posted June 12, 2011 02:14 PM
Dear Ami,Thank you so much for the offer, hon; it's so sweet of you! I've had the natals & synastry checked out a few times, and I want to save your efforts for the many here that need your insights - would feel badly to hog your time. I really appreciate the offer, much more than you know, sweets!
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abcd efg
Knowflake Posts: 583
From: India
Registered: Mar 2011
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posted June 25, 2011 11:21 PM
Hi,I hope you are at it. Actually now i feel like posting a pic of a man heaving an object. Pics speak a thousand words. Anyways, all the best. IP: Logged |
sunshine9
Moderator Posts: 398
From: Durham, NC, US
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 26, 2011 09:42 PM
abcd efg,How are you doing? Thanks for checking in; you're a sweetheart! Actually, nobody ever did respond to my original request for help with progressions or transits.. though Ami did kindly offer help with my natal/synastry. I guess the spirit didn't move anyone.. and I don't blame either. It takes much effort to spend time on readings, and it is a great service to offer them here. If and when someone feels like taking a peek, that will be the right time, I guess. quote:
Originally posted by abcd efg:
Actually now i feel like posting a pic of a man heaving an object. Pics speak a thousand words.
?? Do you feel like that applies to me, or are you going through something, hon? I hope you're doing alright.. If it's me, I wouldn't be surprised, I guess.. feel that way sometimes. Things may be improving for me.. This past week, I got called to interview for a job that I would love to have; I'm keeping my fingers crossed that it works out. I talked to my guy last weekend, and told him what I need, without putting much pressure on him at the same time, and he was open and amenable. He's already working on the things I brought up.. he's a real darling, and I'm lucky. I still worry about how long it's all going to take though.. I have a 35th coming up in 6 months that I'm not looking forward to experiencing unless my status is changed. Sigh. Anxieties still swirl around, and may continue, until I have a commitment. Hugs,
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abcd efg
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From: India
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posted June 26, 2011 10:14 PM
Hi,
Actually i should have said a woman giving a man a shove or gentle nudges. IP: Logged |
abcd efg
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posted June 26, 2011 10:17 PM
Keep it up dear. I am glad to hear this i.e. you working at it. I hope it comes out very nicely for you.IP: Logged |
sunshine9
Moderator Posts: 398
From: Durham, NC, US
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 26, 2011 11:12 PM
quote:
Originally posted by abcd efg:
Actually i should have said a woman giving a man a shove or gentle nudges.
LOL.. you've captured the essence of it, abcd efg. Lots of gentle nudges every so often. Some boys seem to need them from time to time. I hope he gets it together and going soon.. we really do love each other, and I'd rather not lose patience waiting for the grand gesture. Hope everything with you is going great.
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