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posted June 12, 2011 09:31 PM            

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Hello everyone I am new to posting here but have been a lurker for quite some time...I was wondering if someone would be willing to give their insights as to why I feel so exposed in dealing with a close friend of mine. We've known each other for 6 1/2 years now though we have never met physically; never seems like the "right time" that and for some reason I am really unnerved about meeting him...I can sense that our meeting is definitely going to change me although I don't know if its for better or worse...Any insights would be greatly appreciated

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From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
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posted June 12, 2011 11:05 PM            

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I will look tomorrow

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Enlightenment doesn't result from sitting around visualizing images of light, but from integrating the darker aspects of the self into the conscious personality
Jung
You must lose your life for My sake in order to find it .
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He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city
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posted June 12, 2011 11:06 PM            

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Welcome!

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posted June 12, 2011 11:19 PM            

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Thank you Ami, I appreciate it

Thanks for the welcome Randall

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posted June 13, 2011 01:13 AM            

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Ah, here you are, PG.. I've replied your thread in Soul Unions.. check there too!

Welcome again!
Sunshine

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posted June 13, 2011 04:52 AM            

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His pluto and jupiter are in your 12 house, his chiron hits your DSC, his DSC falls in your 5th, and he dumps a lot into your first house. The house of self. You guys also have a double whammy of 2nd house ruler trine 8th house ruler. Which is very nice, it's very sensual and loving. But deep down to the core loving.

That's your answer.

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posted June 14, 2011 11:42 AM            

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Thanks Littlecloud--could you explain the affects of his chiron hitting my DSC and his DSC falling into my 5th house? Thanks

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posted June 15, 2011 04:19 PM            

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That's just a matter of understanding what the Descendant is. It is referred to our shadow and our partnerships often. Where the Ascendant is ourselves and how we appear to the world the Descendant is the opposite, our hidden selves (shadow) and our relationships with other people, how we relate to them. (all relationships but most focus on marriage) Chiron is the wounded healer an can point to areas of pain and healing in our own charts and in synastry charts. It's very sensitive. Your Descendant being an angle anything that hits this makes it a very Karmic tie, and having Chiron that may heal old wounds or may heal threw wounds is like having your innermost parts of yourself exposed to another person to with as they please.

The 5th house rules falling in love where the 7th house rules the commitment on paper ie marriage. So to have his DSC/7th house cusp fall into your 5th house immediately makes him a sort of ideal partner, you look at him as someone you could be in love with even through marriage. And he looks at you as someone that will keep the spark alive, the 'in-love' feeling in a serious committed relationship.

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