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Topic: Can anyone do a Synastry Reading for me? -I'm New here :)
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worldofchances11 Newflake Posts: 13 From: Los Angeles, CA USA Registered: Jul 2011
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posted July 17, 2011 11:44 PM
I tried reading it on my own, but I completely failed, so can anyone read it for me? I have been lurking around this forum and decided to finally create an account on here. I just want to know what you see for this relationship. IP: Logged |
sassaqua Knowflake Posts: 129 From: Australia Registered: May 2011
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posted July 18, 2011 01:13 AM
Hi worldofchances11,I will! You are a capricorn, he is a gemini. His gemini conjunct his mercury, and venus, makes him very chatty. This conjunction is square his jupiter, makes him for a big talker, and maybe has too many impractical ideas - and friends too - to be able to manage. Maybe too, it's too much for you sometimes as well, as your mercury is opposite his. He is quite attracted to you (his mars trine your moon/venus/saturn), as well as, he is committed to you, and wants to spent time with you, and will apply work in the relationship too, if it is necessary (his saturn is conjunct your moon/venus/saturn). Your saturn's being conjunct means that, you are both on the same page when the "work" in the relationship is required. Possibly the work is about feelings. The work is also about communication; you have some challenges in the areas of communication. He can understand your feelins, but you have a little trouble understanding what his deep, emotional needs are in the relationship (your mercury is not aspecting his moon). I also see some areas of discord and power struggles/issues with his mars opposite your uranus/neptune - something that he has already in his natal, but he might well take out some of this aggression on you, as you will most likely trigger it - that is, if he hasn't worked through these "issues" himself. Your marses are square too, which might equal arguments that just go around and around, flaring up quite often, making you both baffled and depleted - you perhaps go to defend yourself but it just makes things worse? Additionally to this, his pluto squares your venus/moon/saturn (ouch, be careful with this one). How's this going? Am I getting anywhere? I don't mean to look at the negs exactly but, if I see them, my theory is that, it's best to be aware of them so each know what's going on and can grasp things before gets into trouble. Please let me know what you think of all that IP: Logged |
worldofchances11 Newflake Posts: 13 From: Los Angeles, CA USA Registered: Jul 2011
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posted July 18, 2011 01:40 AM
Wow, thank you so much. It ALL makes sense. It's true that I when I try to defend myself in fights, it just gets worse and it's true that his outgoing personality sometimes gets me annoyed a bit because i'm not like that at all. This really opened my eyes. Wow haha. Thank you! IP: Logged |
sassaqua Knowflake Posts: 129 From: Australia Registered: May 2011
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posted July 18, 2011 02:12 AM
Hi again,ok, so I was on the right track? I see also that, you both really like eachother (your venus/moon/saturn trine his venus/sun/mercury, AND, your jupiter trines his venus/sun/mercury). So yes, a lot of like there. YOur jupiter trine his sun, etc, gives you good, kind feelings, and generosity to him. This giving however, would be mostly to the benefit of the venus/sun/mercury (ie, him)- make sure the giving is not all one way. The sun, and venus can suck all this goodness up, reaping the benefits for the ego, without giving back Your feelings of openness and generosity might send you a wee bit off balance too, as your jupiter (being quite activated here), is square your own neptune(and uranus); you might have issues come up about feeling deceived, that he is being underhanded while you are being very open, or that you are being taken for granted. You may feel a bit "foggy" or scatty/nervy (uranus). Having said all of this, he is returning the warm feelings to you (his jupiter is trine your sun), so there is a bit of give and take there. I'd be watching out for the pluto square your venus/moon/saturn. I'm not sure who would win that one Maybe do a google on this aspect and see what comes up. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 14592 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted July 18, 2011 07:34 AM
Hi World of Chances ------------------ Enlightenment doesn't result from sitting around visualizing images of light, but from integrating the darker aspects of the self into the conscious personality Jung God has not given us a spirit of fear but of power,love and a sound mind. He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city Proverbs IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 9984 From: The Goober Galaxy Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 18, 2011 08:48 AM
Welcome!------------------ "To avoid criticism, say nothing, do nothing, be nothing." Aristotle IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 14592 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted July 18, 2011 09:32 AM
Were you guys born really closely together--date of birth wise?------------------ Enlightenment doesn't result from sitting around visualizing images of light, but from integrating the darker aspects of the self into the conscious personality Jung God has not given us a spirit of fear but of power,love and a sound mind. He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city Proverbs IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 14592 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted July 18, 2011 09:34 AM
You have Mars conj the ASC.You are bold and take action. His moon is in your 12th.Does he have kind of telepathy in to you?------------------ Enlightenment doesn't result from sitting around visualizing images of light, but from integrating the darker aspects of the self into the conscious personality Jung God has not given us a spirit of fear but of power,love and a sound mind. He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city Proverbs IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 14592 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted July 18, 2011 11:37 AM
I see an interesting thing.You tell me if it fits. He has Saturn in the 7th.It conjuncts your Saturn which is good.However, his Saturn comes in to your 8th house which holds Saturn moon and Venus. I am thinking that he is gonna squelch your depth. Does he rain on the deeper side of you? Does he tell you "Just get over it " when you want to delve in to emotions deeply? ------------------ Enlightenment doesn't result from sitting around visualizing images of light, but from integrating the darker aspects of the self into the conscious personality Jung God has not given us a spirit of fear but of power,love and a sound mind. He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city Proverbs IP: Logged |
worldofchances11 Newflake Posts: 13 From: Los Angeles, CA USA Registered: Jul 2011
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posted July 18, 2011 02:11 PM
quote: Originally posted by sassaqua: Hi again,ok, so I was on the right track? I see also that, you both really like eachother (your venus/moon/saturn trine his venus/sun/mercury, AND, your jupiter trines his venus/sun/mercury). So yes, a lot of like there. YOur jupiter trine his sun, etc, gives you good, kind feelings, and generosity to him. This giving however, would be mostly to the benefit of the venus/sun/mercury (ie, him)- make sure the giving is not all one way. The sun, and venus can suck all this goodness up, reaping the benefits for the ego, without giving back Your feelings of openness and generosity might send you a wee bit off balance too, as your jupiter (being quite activated here), is square your own neptune(and uranus); you might have issues come up about feeling deceived, that he is being underhanded while you are being very open, or that you are being taken for granted. You may feel a bit "foggy" or scatty/nervy (uranus). Having said all of this, he is returning the warm feelings to you (his jupiter is trine your sun), so there is a bit of give and take there. I'd be watching out for the pluto square your venus/moon/saturn. I'm not sure who would win that one Maybe do a google on this aspect and see what comes up.
This actually all makes sense! Thank you so much
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worldofchances11 Newflake Posts: 13 From: Los Angeles, CA USA Registered: Jul 2011
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posted July 18, 2011 02:13 PM
quote: Originally posted by Ami Anne: Were you guys born really closely together--date of birth wise?
Actually no. He was born in June and I was born on December of the same year.
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worldofchances11 Newflake Posts: 13 From: Los Angeles, CA USA Registered: Jul 2011
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posted July 18, 2011 02:14 PM
quote: Originally posted by Ami Anne: You have Mars conj the ASC.You are bold and take action. His moon is in your 12th.Does he have kind of telepathy in to you?
I haven't really figured that out yet haha IP: Logged |
worldofchances11 Newflake Posts: 13 From: Los Angeles, CA USA Registered: Jul 2011
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posted July 18, 2011 02:15 PM
quote: Originally posted by Ami Anne: I see an interesting thing.You tell me if it fits. He has Saturn in the 7th.It conjuncts your Saturn which is good.However, his Saturn comes in to your 8th house which holds Saturn moon and Venus. I am thinking that he is gonna squelch your depth. Does he rain on the deeper side of you? Does he tell you "Just get over it " when you want to delve in to emotions deeply?
Yes, every time I try to talk to him about how I feel. He tells me to get over it and that he doesn't see the problem. IP: Logged | |