posted August 05, 2011 02:23 PM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
This is my take. You guys are not compatible.How was it during the engagement?
Did you have ANY choice about him or you had to marry him?
Did you feel you loved him or were attracted to him during the engagement?

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posted August 05, 2011 02:37 PM            

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Originally posted by sid:
But he always says that he loves me a lot and cannot imagine his life without me.

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Well if I were you and you just told me all these things this is what I would do
1. I would stay with him and expect nothing more than what he can give now.I would try not to be angry cuz it is like wanting an apple to be an orange.
It can't ever

2.Leave him and find another person with whom you are more compatible.Do the charts first lol

The bad option would be to keep trying to get him to change.He can't.He is what he is.
He is not "bad" per se at all
He is just not that compatible with you

I would get a reading from IQ too if you have the financial means cuz he is wonderful.
He lives in your part of India too

Please come back and talk to me every day too if you want
Did you have any questions?

posted August 05, 2011 02:46 PM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Well if I were you and you just told me all these things this is what I would do
1. I would stay with him and expect nothing more than what he can give now.I would try not to be angry cuz it is like wanting an apple to be an orange.
It can't ever

2.Leave him and find another person with whom you are more compatible.Do the charts first lol

The bad option would be to keep trying to get him to change.He can't.He is what he is.
He is not "bad" per se at all
He is just not that compatible with you

I would get a reading from IQ too if you have the financial means cuz he is wonderful.
He lives in your part of India too

Please come back and talk to me every day too if you want
Did you have any questions?

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