posted August 09, 2011 01:40 PM            

Does he love being in groups?

posted August 09, 2011 02:17 PM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Bad childhood?

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posted August 09, 2011 02:18 PM            

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Feels he does not fit in society? Why?

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Only thing I sense is he doesn't care to cater to "that stuffy stuff." He appreciates the finer things, but isn't driven to amass or collect material items.

Which I think is pretty good character.

posted August 09, 2011 02:22 PM            

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Boiling anger?
Hard to know when to give and when not OR hidden illnesses which are hard to diagnose?

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Never seen any anger - could he internalize?
Don't know of any illnesses - healthy as an ox.

posted August 09, 2011 02:29 PM            

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*8h Sun,Sat and Merc
Is he super sexual but a prude at the same time lol
Does he think about taboo things and like things that are "taboo"

Does he love being in groups?

Why indeed he is super sexual - it plays a very important part in his world. No question. He is a very kind generous and responsible person. Outward folks would not be able to tell, as he is sincere, optimistic and eternally giving.

It's when he's one-on-one then he is drawn to his sexuality - and that is fine with me (hubba hubba)

Taboo? Now that's a freaky thought. Open and adventurous definitely. Not too open and certainly not too adventurous that I can tell. May fantasize about wilder side, but doesn't act. Ha ha, don't we all sometimes LOL!

Please give some detail in your answers so I can learn rather than just a yes or no

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posted August 09, 2011 02:35 PM            

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Venus in Scorp
Is he sexy?
Is he sensual
Venus conj NN
Is love the biggest thing to him in his life?The most important?
Is he serious about relationships not a fling type of guy?

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Oh AmiAnne, why this so true. Very strong in this department (with me anyway).

I know it is a very high aspect of realization for him to have that connection and level of relationship.

Now re: is he serious about relationships or just a fling guy. Could be his main struggle from where I sit. He's so loving and drives to a close and deep relationship. Then whoosh, freaks out? Feels wonderful but still a little voice might say, but is there something better you are missing (that's speculation of course)

posted August 09, 2011 02:38 PM            

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Did he have anything go on in his early home to shut down his sexuality/,make him repress his primal feelings?
Did he have sexual abuse?

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I really don't know about his earliest childhood at all. Only from his first marriage on to now.

posted August 09, 2011 02:43 PM            

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Ok
Like in service to people like how much to give so you don't get burnt out.He could give too much and then have to run away and back and forth.Does that fit?
Like not know when to say "No" lol

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I pray this is exactly what is happening. He is juggling caring for his elderly incapacitated father, and no home care support. Quit his job to do it, and his sister (one of them) has every excuse in the book not to get home care.

I think he may not have time for anything more - even though he wants to. But he has for a while now, so I don't know why he cracked.

posted August 09, 2011 02:47 PM            

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He is ABLE to talk openly about his deep feelings though.He can talk openly about his childhood.Is that true?

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Able to talk about his feelings yes. How deep depends on the person and situation I think. He can button up - or if feels safe, has/will open up and share deep feelings.

posted August 09, 2011 02:50 PM            

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Asc conj Nessus
He would have had to have to deal with abuse with this ASC.
Do you know HIS history with woman?
Would you know

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100% yes, this past woman was borderline and narcissitic. Toxic!! And after a few rounds (years) of emotional abuse, berating, belittling to the core - he snapped and left.

I only pray he doesn't get drawn back to it.

posted August 09, 2011 02:52 PM            

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Mars in 11th Quin Pluto in 4th
The Pluto shows abuse in the home .Mars shows a drive to be part of a group.
Did he deal with abuse in the home by becoming part of a group like the Boy Scouts or any group?
Did he tell you about his home life? People can repress bad memories

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Pretty sure he was a boy scout - vaguely remember that coming up once. He is always an active guy - sports, neighborhood assn, college, friends for many years, parties periodically

posted August 09, 2011 04:08 PM            

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Ok Lets talk true
Do you have a bad feeling WAY down deep about him

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Actually, that may be part of my problem (blushing). No. I really admire all of him, and who he is. They way he cares for people, his honesty (brutal at times) and his deep feelings really resonate and bring out the best in me. Hope that is not weird. I do feel whole around him. Content and at peace.

That's not to say there isn't another more suited. I'm not always second guessing though - and I know 100% he is not an abuser, just seen that he lets some women walk over him, beyond what most would tolerate.

I don't have that trait, so I figure he is scared of a good thing. Or?