posted August 11, 2011 10:12 AM            

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Originally posted by MsVenus:
Hiya Ami Anne, am beginning to seriously question myself as to whether I have created this situation rather than it "happening". Reflected on your comment about me being victim...hmmm could there be a reason I'M doing it. beating myself up trying to figure how we got here

Question remains will we overcome this soon and what part do I play in the resolution. ...spent hours last night just staring up at the stars (gorgeous night here)

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posted August 11, 2011 10:52 AM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Darling
Do you want to write anything here so you can get it clear in your mind?

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My Libra mind is battling itself. Same worry about whether I'm creating this and onus is on me to take action or is it outside of my control and he should be coming back to me.

posted August 11, 2011 11:40 AM            

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Originally posted by MsVenus:
My Libra mind is battling itself. Same worry about whether I'm creating this and onus is on me to take action or is it outside of my control and he should be coming back to me.

I see places where I could do things differently - and while I know it takes two - what can be done now?

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I think the man has to chase as it is the natural order of things in the biological kingdom of which we fit as humans
Some more than others

posted August 11, 2011 11:53 AM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
I think the man has to chase as it is the natural order of things in the biological kingdom of which we fit as humans
Some more than others

So I would let HIM come back to you.Every man even a Pisces will go after a woman if he cares enough x x

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You may be right. I have these male tendencies for some reason. Maybe because of my work? In a leadership role.

If I've caused him pain in any way then shouldn't I work to repair it?

And if I've reached out(a couple times) have I really ruined it?

It's such a funny twist of the stars - I just hate what occurred. Shouldn't there be a way to connect, to understand?

This "chase" makes sense at the outset, but with deep connection is that still the case?
I took that to heart, and feel now that I may have actually done harm by being so much in wait for him mode.

Ah well. Just wonder what is in store.