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love being Aries
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posted August 14, 2011 09:14 PM
  
Background: we broke up in Nov 2009. after that i moved on with my life. back in august 2010, I had a vivid dream about him, I take my dreams very seriously so I contacted him again, just to find out that nothing had actually changed between us, he was still the abusive, mad, insecure guy that I had to get away from for my own good. Feb 2011, we stopped talking at all. June 13th, he contacts me again, to ask me how m doing (tell me about it), I tell him to go away and not to disturb my life again. He promises he will not. Moved on again. Now its been two nights in a row that m seeing him in dreams. There have been other signs too in card readings that m not over him yet, there is something to cut off. Now m devastated in figuring out what that something is. Any one who can help me Question: What is still connecting me to him?  I will be really really grateful if anyone can help me in this.
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Ami Anne
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posted August 14, 2011 09:26 PM
I don't do Horary.
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love being Aries
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posted August 14, 2011 09:29 PM
yes Ami I know you don't  I hope someone will come along IP: Logged |
love being Aries
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posted August 16, 2011 09:11 AM
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Ami Anne
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posted August 16, 2011 09:42 AM
Lioness is just doing Horary.Isn't that fantastic?------------------
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love being Aries
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posted August 16, 2011 11:55 AM
yeah i saw that..  hope she will take a look at mine too. actually i prefer not doing it for myself otherwise i always get too biasedIP: Logged |
love being Aries
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posted August 18, 2011 11:06 PM
since no one else is coming up i have decided to give it a go on my own  I am sun and I am in my own sign, Moon is also in Pisces, a water and sensitive emotional sign, so apparently I'm supposed to be very secure at every level. Moon in 7th is showing my emotional attachment with him, he is saturn, standing right between my 2nd and 3rd house, opposing my Mars, ruler of my fourth still can't make anything out of it..ummphhh IP: Logged |
Dreamy_AriesGirl
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posted August 19, 2011 01:55 AM
Its not a good question to do a horary, (it should be a yes/no question), maybe you could try a tarot reading instead, or meditate about your dreams, ask guidance about it. I would say, do not contact him again, but keep attention to your dreams and other signs, the answer is within you!Good luck, Im also trying to get over someone these days, so you're not alone. IP: Logged |
love being Aries
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posted August 19, 2011 01:36 PM
Thank you for your reply, i guess sometimes instead of pondering over the question so much, we should just let it all go, and let things move on their own pace IP: Logged |
starcrossedleo
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posted August 19, 2011 09:04 PM
love being ariesNeptune opposite venus is the culprit in my opinion This transit is associated with vivid dreams and will make you yearn for love and your "dream" man. IP: Logged |
starcrossedleo
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posted August 19, 2011 09:07 PM
love being ariesNeptune opposite venus is the culprit in my opinion This transit is associated with vivid dreams and will make you yearn for love and your "dream" man. Also venus opposite chiron signifies the impossible dream or IP: Logged |
Snake Lady
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posted August 19, 2011 09:20 PM
Hi, Aries. I broke up with my boyfriend in June and I have dreams about him quite regularly. I think it's just that if the relationship was pretty intense for you, maybe there's a part of you that is still processing it. I try not to take my dreams of him too seriously, because I know it's just because it's hard to let go of the guilt of seeing him so hurt by the break-up. But I know I can't let that bother me if I want to move on. ------------------
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love being Aries
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posted August 19, 2011 11:39 PM
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Originally posted by starcrossedleo:
love being ariesNeptune opposite venus is the culprit in my opinion This transit is associated with vivid dreams and will make you yearn for love and your "dream" man. Also venus opposite chiron signifies the impossible dream or
I guess this is what it is.. so when this opposition will resolve, its going to be fine on its own... hopefully
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love being Aries
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posted August 19, 2011 11:40 PM
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Originally posted by Snake Lady:
Hi, Aries. I broke up with my boyfriend in June and I have dreams about him quite regularly. I think it's just that if the relationship was pretty intense for you, maybe there's a part of you that is still processing it. I try not to take my dreams of him too seriously, because I know it's just because it's hard to let go of the guilt of seeing him so hurt by the break-up. But I know I can't let that bother me if I want to move on.
Thank you for your compassion and I honestly say that a part of me totally agrees with you, i guess on the subconscious level there is something that is not letting it go. But I guess I don't have another option !
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Lioness
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posted August 20, 2011 12:51 AM
Sorry I just saw this... Keep in mind.. Im very new and still learning.. You are sun he is Saturn. No sun/saturn aspects.. shows your not in a relationship.. Or really have any contact. Your also moon.. I find it interesting moon/chrion/neptune is all conjunct... Maybe this is the dreams. The moon also rules h12. Your question is more about you.. not really about him... You (sun) is in H1.. your thinking about yourself.... It seems your stuck in between venus/Mercury.
Which rules H2 and 3... Your stuck between your values and your mind???????? Its affecting your dreams?? Your wounded over it, and having a hard time getting it out (moon/emotions).........So your working through it via your dreams.. Now maybe Im not sure guessing here...
Moon/Chiron has a nice aspect to Mars and Jupiter.... I think the way through this is H9 matters.. Higher learning.. travel... etc... (do things.. mars) again.. Im really super new.. so dont take everything as for sure...
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Lioness
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posted August 20, 2011 01:01 AM
Just in case I wasnt clear... I was looking and typing at the same time.. So rambling... Moon is conjunct Chiron.. I think you feel deeply wounded by this man, and your working it out via neptune (dreams) He somehow affected your values and its instilled in your head.. Whats right whats wrong? type of things.. Deep down you know whats right.. You know whats best for YOU!
Venus is combust.... You still have your values and self esteem, dont let anyone or anything let you believe different.. IP: Logged |
love being Aries
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posted August 20, 2011 01:31 AM
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Originally posted by Lioness:
No sun/saturn aspects.. shows your not in a relationship.. Or really have any contact. You (sun) is in H1.. your thinking about yourself.... It seems your stuck in between venus/Mercury.
Which rules H2 and 3... Your stuck between your values and your mind???????? Its affecting your dreams?? Your wounded over it, and having a hard time getting it out (moon/emotions).........So your working through it via your dreams.. Now maybe Im not sure guessing here...
Moon/Chiron has a nice aspect to Mars and Jupiter.... I think the way through this is H9 matters.. Higher learning.. travel... etc... (do things.. mars)
You are super cool seriously, because what you said about Moon/Chiron makes total sense, he did hurt me a lot and I am wounded emotionally and here is where Neptune comes inabout being stuck between values and mind is also true because he did hurt my self-esteem and my values at a deeper level and now i find questioning myself that what i did, was it right or wrong? did i do the right thing for breaking up with him because he was hurting my beliefs and my self-esteem? You wre right on that.
about the 9H matters, I will have to try things out, i guess may be going back to uni will help me getting over him... Thank you so very much for this, much appreciated
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love being Aries
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posted August 20, 2011 01:32 AM
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Originally posted by Lioness:
Deep down you know whats right.. You know whats best for YOU!
Venus is combust.... You still have your values and self esteem, dont let anyone or anything let you believe different..
That was a wonderful advice, thank you so much for that
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Lioness
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posted August 20, 2011 01:35 AM
Since he was hurting your beliefs and your self esteem... He is NOT the right man for you....
some one that truly loves you, supports and accepts you... W/o judgement... Your hanging on to the hurt... Let it go.. release him, and forgive yourself... you did nothing wrong... It is what it is, Learn from it and know this is not the type of man you need nor deserve.. Know you Deserve much more and better... Trust me.. there are way better men out there.. IP: Logged |
starcrossedleo
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posted August 20, 2011 07:47 AM
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Originally posted by love being Aries:
I guess this is what it is.. so when this opposition will resolve, its going to be fine on its own... hopefully
Yes when Venus first went opposite Neptune a few weeks back. I had a very vivid dream about my ex. We hadn't spoken in over 2 months. A few days later he was back in my life. Really working hard on keeping him. So my comment
Was not so much that you won't get him back but what is affecting you transit wise.
I know the feeling of being on and off. Just when you think you are over they appear. I've been dealing with my on off for 7 years. Im going to give it one last try.
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love being Aries
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posted August 20, 2011 07:24 PM
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Originally posted by starcrossedleo:
Yes when Venus first went opposite Neptune a few weeks back. I had a very vivid dream about my ex. We hadn't spoken in over 2 months. A few days later he was back in my life. Really working hard on keeping him. So my comment
Was not so much that you won't get him back but what is affecting you transit wise.
I know the feeling of being on and off. Just when you think you are over they appear. I've been dealing with my on off for 7 years. Im going to give it one last try.
Wow you must be one hell of a patient person but my problem is that I cann't stand anything thats hurting my self-esteem, and this is exactly what he did. I broke up with him because I started having anxiety attacks and that was the time i Knew i can't take it anymore otherwise i will kill myself. It took me 1.5yrs to recover the attacks. last one was 7 months ago.
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