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Topic: If you only want to hear what you want to hear
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LEXX
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From: Still out looking for Schrodinger's cat.......& LEXIGRAMMING.♥.. is my Passion!
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 26, 2011 05:44 PM
  
No problem.{{{hugs}}}
I will try to answer your queries.
I am tired and sleep deprived too so bear with me. quote:
Originally posted by Voix_de_la_Mer:
I agree, but what if you feel that what you are being told is inaccurate?Is it not open for discussion, considering it is an informal environment? Does disagreeing with something automatically relegate you to the 'blow-sunshine-up-my-arse gang?
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Originally posted by LEXX:
If inaccurate why would you want such?
I am also confused as to what you are saying/asking here.
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Originally posted by Voix_de_la_Mer:
I mean, what if the reader allocates placements in your chart to events in your life, and you feel this is inaccurate?
Then you should tell them so and ask how they arrived at that. By all means do not automatically agree or disagree.
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Originally posted by Voix_de_la_Mer:
I'm not saying anything, I'm trying (not very well!) to enquire about what would constitute one as only wanting to hear the good stuff.
I will use examples I have witnessed or experienced.
I have had folks ask me to read for them. Well due to the methods I use, I cannot simply pick and choose what I am getting. They say, oh yes please do not tell me anything scary or creepy!.
Or "I only want the nice stuff".
Then there is also the fakes I have seen at psychic fairs, as I had my own station for Lexigrams. I overheard them read almost word for word the same lines to each person with similar questions. If the person asked a scary question, the reader would say, "oh he is as healthy as can be, do not worry" Or "you will be just fine" to such questions as:
Do you see any health issues for my friend?....or, I have been feeling ill, is it anything serious?"
Well the friend became gravely ill.
The person who said they felt unwell died a few weeks later, when going to doctor may have saved their life.
So yeah, lying and only giving happy readings is wrong and can backfire.
Like a reader saying,
"yes forgive him, he loves you".
Then the woman is beaten near to death.
I have seen too many examples of such.
Then these readers also had their stock happy happy joy joy readings they gave to folks wanting a general reading.
They literally cycled through like 5 different versions of same reading given and then would repeat cycle over and over again all day!
And those who would say;
Always give the person something happy and nice even if you have to make something up! A happy customer will tell their friends!
So even if you do not pick up on anything, just make something up!
I saw aura photographers do the same with colors. So like 6 colors.
1 to 6 were same as 7 to 12 and 13 to 20 and so on.
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Originally posted by Voix_de_la_Mer:
But at the same time, I am interested in whether, as a reader, you feel that the reading should just be accepted and not discussed, or given feedback on?
Oh gods no! Never take any such things at face value! Talk, ask more questions, disagree, ask for clarification.
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Originally posted by Voix_de_la_Mer:
EDIT God, Lexx, I just read that back, I am really not explaining myself well at all, I think I am drained. I do apologise. Feel free to ignore my comments, but if you think you can see what I am asking, I welcome your response.)
No problem.{{{hugs}}}
And thank you! 
On that note, I am drained too so off for catnap and Tens Unit.------------------
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~The present time is theirs, but the future is mine.~Никола Тесла
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AquaGem
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posted August 26, 2011 05:57 PM
edit..oops  IP: Logged |
AquaGem
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posted August 26, 2011 05:59 PM
That sounds awesome!
What does the future encourage for my career?
I am ready for a change!IP: Logged |
Voix_de_la_Mer
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posted August 26, 2011 06:10 PM
Ahh thank you Lexx, for being able to decipher my question and answer it so clearly!Tens Unit? Are you expecting or does it have other uses? IP: Logged |
LEXX
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From: Still out looking for Schrodinger's cat.......& LEXIGRAMMING.♥.. is my Passion!
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posted August 26, 2011 06:13 PM
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Originally posted by AquaGem:
That sounds awesome!
What does the future encourage for my career?
I am ready for a change!
Still need to take that nap! And you're welcome!IP: Logged |
LEXX
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From: Still out looking for Schrodinger's cat.......& LEXIGRAMMING.♥.. is my Passion!
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posted August 26, 2011 06:18 PM
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Originally posted by Voix_de_la_Mer:
Ahh thank you Lexx, for being able to decipher my question and answer it so clearly!Tens Unit? Are you expecting or does it have other uses?
You're welcome 
No I am not expecting.
Sigh, would be nice.
I use the Tens Unit to help with my damaged spinal and other nerves etc. so I do not get partial paralytic or blindness episodes as often.
I am disabled and it also helps with the too often agonizing torsion spasms.
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~The present time is theirs, but the future is mine.~Никола Тесла
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AquaGem
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posted August 26, 2011 08:28 PM
Gosh LEXX....
Torsion spasms caused by a genetic neurological disorder?
I am so sorry...
Not fun
I am glad the tens unit helps 
Be well LEXX.
Looking forward to your insight!IP: Logged |
LEXX
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posted August 26, 2011 08:30 PM
AquaGem
I will reply to you asap.
Thank you for your post and kind understanding!Spending time with boyfriend. 
I shall return as soon as possible.  ------------------
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~The present time is theirs, but the future is mine.~Никола Тесла
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AquaGem
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posted August 26, 2011 08:39 PM
yummy..have fun !!! I will be riding the storm out thanks to Hurricane Irene
anticipating power failure anytime ....lol chat later IP: Logged |
LEXX
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From: Still out looking for Schrodinger's cat.......& LEXIGRAMMING.♥.. is my Passion!
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posted August 26, 2011 08:50 PM
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Originally posted by AquaGem:
yummy..have fun !!! I will be riding the storm out thanks to Hurricane Irene
anticipating power failure anytime ....lol chat later
Oh please take care! I love storms but that is way too much!
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AquaGem
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posted August 26, 2011 09:05 PM
Ty !
We are "hunkering down" as they say in Hurricane country !
All is well!
20 year plus veteren.
The hurry up and wait is exhausting !
"cya" after the storm IP: Logged |
Voix_de_la_Mer
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posted August 27, 2011 06:51 AM
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Originally posted by LEXX:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by Voix_de_la_Mer:
[b]Ahh thank you Lexx, for being able to decipher my question and answer it so clearly!Tens Unit? Are you expecting or does it have other uses?
You're welcome
No I am not expecting.
Sigh, would be nice.
I use the Tens Unit to help with my damaged spinal and other nerves etc. so I do not get partial paralytic or blindness episodes as often.
I am disabled and it also helps with the too often agonizing torsion spasms.
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Wow! That sounds painful lass. It sucks you are dealing with that.
Is there not a more effective management program, can muscle relaxants not help the spasms? (sorry if I am speaking out of line, as I don't know what you are dealing with, and I'm not medically trained). IP: Logged |
Voix_de_la_Mer
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posted August 27, 2011 06:52 AM
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Originally posted by AquaGem:
Ty !
We are "hunkering down" as they say in Hurricane country !
All is well!
20 year plus veteren.
The hurry up and wait is exhausting !
"cya" after the storm
AquaGem, I hope you are safe through the storm. IP: Logged |
LEXX
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From: Still out looking for Schrodinger's cat.......& LEXIGRAMMING.♥.. is my Passion!
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posted August 27, 2011 10:55 AM
Please bear with me AquaGem and Voix_de_la_Mer
Had a rough night.
Also I am active in over a dozen other forums here too, so must attend to them also.
However I shall return here to reply and read.
PS. I hope you are weathering the storm well AquaGem.{{{hugs}}}
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~The present time is theirs, but the future is mine.~Никола Тесла
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Metid
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posted August 27, 2011 11:12 AM
Hi Lexx..
Just posted my chart on... Could you take a look please. Have no fear to what may be in it! Thanks IP: Logged |
LEXX
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From: Still out looking for Schrodinger's cat.......& LEXIGRAMMING.♥.. is my Passion!
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posted August 27, 2011 12:24 PM
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Originally posted by Metid:
Hi Lexx..
Just posted my chart on... Could you take a look please. Have no fear to what may be in it! Thanks
Hello!
I do not read charts but can get vibes of such and the birth information.
I also like to know gender and marital status.
Rather busy but will get back to you as soon as possible.
Is there a specific question?
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~I remember, therefore I am immortal~LEXX
~The present time is theirs, but the future is mine.~Никола Тесла
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Metid
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posted August 27, 2011 05:56 PM
Hi Lexx,Male, Divorced. Thanks in advance for what you pick up! Work and Lovelife main points  IP: Logged |
AquaGem
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posted August 27, 2011 11:24 PM
Thank you LEXX and Voix_de_la_Mer
for the well wishes !
Irene's visit has passed by without incident and we are well
Hope you are feeling better LEXX
Any thoughts on chart anyone!IP: Logged |
LEXX
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From: Still out looking for Schrodinger's cat.......& LEXIGRAMMING.♥.. is my Passion!
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posted August 28, 2011 12:42 PM
My apologies for not replying in full yet.
Lack of sleep and having to address several various chaos issues;
Arrrrrgggghhhhhhh!
well,
please bear with me folks.
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~I remember, therefore I am immortal~LEXX
~The present time is theirs, but the future is mine.~Никола Тесла
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LEXX
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posted August 30, 2011 05:11 AM
Apologies.
Been ill and just had another death in the family, second one in less than two weeks.
I do not know when I will be able to do the readings. ------------------
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~The present time is theirs, but the future is mine.~Никола Тесла
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Metid
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posted August 30, 2011 05:46 AM
Sorry to hear about you loss LEXX. Thoughts are with you!IP: Logged |
Voix_de_la_Mer
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posted August 30, 2011 06:55 AM
Lexx, my thoughts are with you.
I wish I could do more.
I'm moved by just how much you have had to deal with recently, I hope the end of the negativity is in sight, and that you have good people around you for support.
Try to ignore the ones who are not supportive, many people feed off others' pain, it's like a kind of denial, but just try to focus on those you connect with, and who love you.
The rest have no power over you if you ignore them, and put no energy into them.IP: Logged |
Aya_and_baby
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posted August 30, 2011 10:28 AM
Wow Lexx, sorry for your loss. Two in two weeks is awful!
On the topic in general, I think we could ponder on the origins of the words soothsayer and fortune teller to understand why people generally only want to hear only good news. It's a vicious cycle. Probably the first professional ones did only say good things, earning them those names, and as a result, people now expect this.
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AquaGem
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posted August 30, 2011 02:35 PM
Gosh LEXX!
Sorry for your loss
Peace and love to you and yours !
Aqua
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LEXX
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From: Still out looking for Schrodinger's cat.......& LEXIGRAMMING.♥.. is my Passion!
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posted August 31, 2011 12:40 PM
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~The present time is theirs, but the future is mine.~Никола Тесла
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