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Topic: Can’t Get This Guy Out of My Head
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downtomars Knowflake Posts: 917 From: NY Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 13, 2011 01:55 AM
I never usually like to go backwards – seriously, I am not that type of girl – but I keep thinking about this guy. We broke up 2 weeks before my birthday (our birthdays, he is 3 days & 9 months older) and haven’t talked since…Is there a chance for reconciliation? I get confused because I don’t know if I even want to reconcile but maybe…I don’t know, please, have a look (I'm on the inside): IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 22819 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted October 13, 2011 08:16 AM
he brings you a lot of positve energy. He brings you warm fuzzy's and sparks. I can see why you would like him and miss him!------------------ Do You Think This Psychic Is Cute? http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 22819 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted October 13, 2011 08:18 AM
It seems super intense, vibe wise, but you may not have a meeting of minds, as his Mercury does not seem to touch you. It may be all wonderful as long as the passions fly. What do you think? Does this fit, at all?IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 22819 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted October 13, 2011 08:20 AM
His Saturn conjuncts his moon.Is it hard for him to show emotion. This opposes your Uranus,so you would have sparks, together, but can he express emotion, I wonder. What do you think?------------------ Do You Think This Psychic Is Cute? http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 22819 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted October 13, 2011 08:22 AM
He brings the 11th house to your 7th.Does he want to just be friends or do you? I can't remember which way it goes. He may think of YOU as a partner and you may think of him, as a friend. Which does it seem to be?------------------ Do You Think This Psychic Is Cute? http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 22819 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted October 13, 2011 08:23 AM
Does his Pluto square your Mars? This can be sexy and/or argumentative. ------------------ Do You Think This Psychic Is Cute? http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 22819 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted October 13, 2011 08:24 AM
Does his Venus trine your Chiron? If so, it can be intense,in a good way.------------------ Do You Think This Psychic Is Cute? http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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downtomars Knowflake Posts: 917 From: NY Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 13, 2011 10:54 AM
quote: Originally posted by Ami Anne: It seems super intense, vibe wise, but you may not have a meeting of minds, as his Mercury does not seem to touch you. It may be all wonderful as long as the passions fly. What do you think? Does this fit, at all?
Thank you for your responses Ami Anne! You seem to hit the nail on the head here! The relationship was not intellectual at all and we had very little in common education-wise. Not much to talk about except the day to day stuff and how cute we were to each other IP: Logged |
downtomars Knowflake Posts: 917 From: NY Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 13, 2011 10:59 AM
quote: Originally posted by Ami Anne: His Saturn conjuncts his moon.Is it hard for him to show emotion. This opposes your Uranus,so you would have sparks, together, but can he express emotion, I wonder. What do you think?
Oh man, he is such a stoic man (until he has a drink in him). I used to chalk that up to his culture (he is from a Balkan country). It did create some sparks because I could feel down and he would say things like "it could be worse". I didn't argue though because I realized it could've been (the Libra in me was swayed to his side)... IP: Logged |
downtomars Knowflake Posts: 917 From: NY Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 13, 2011 11:03 AM
quote: Originally posted by Ami Anne: He brings the 11th house to your 7th.Does he want to just be friends or do you? I can't remember which way it goes. He may think of YOU as a partner and you may think of him, as a friend. Which does it seem to be?
At first I didn't want to take it seriously. I actually avoided him and tapered off the relationship for a while (he was rebound) and then we got really, really serious and then he wanted to taper off so we just said "forget it"... IP: Logged |
downtomars Knowflake Posts: 917 From: NY Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 13, 2011 11:10 AM
quote: Originally posted by Ami Anne: Does his Pluto square your Mars? This can be sexy and/or argumentative.
It was more on the sexy side...although he would make me a little jealous, and I really don't get jealous, but he is such a good looking man that women would always stare . IP: Logged |
downtomars Knowflake Posts: 917 From: NY Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 13, 2011 11:19 AM
quote: Originally posted by Ami Anne: Does his Venus trine your Chiron? If so, it can be intense,in a good way.
Yes! It is actually a "double whammy" - My Chiron trined his Venus, orb 2 deg, and his Chiron trined my Venus, orb 9 deg (wide but, it's there)...That is supposed to be a "Cinderella Aspect" according to Magi Society... IP: Logged |
downtomars Knowflake Posts: 917 From: NY Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 13, 2011 11:22 AM
quote: Originally posted by Ami Anne: he brings you a lot of positve energy. He brings you warm fuzzy's and sparks. I can see why you would like him and miss him!
I think that is the issue - he gave me sparks but I didn't affect him in the same way, even though he was the initial pursuer... IP: Logged |
downtomars Knowflake Posts: 917 From: NY Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 13, 2011 12:12 PM
Thank you for letting me unleash my the "Astrology Therapy Session" Ami Anne!...This all started after last year’s Solar Return. I had Libra on the Ascendant, brining my 9th house to the Ascendant and SR Jupiter in the 7th house… When I first started talking to this man I was still getting over another guy, who I had so much in common with intellectually but had zero physical chemistry. We thought we could get past that but we couldn’t. I was sad because, besides what was lacking physically, we could talk about anything and everything and it was all ironic and funny and smart, very quippy. We got each other. It was more like we had a crush on each other but no crazy spark action. We broke up as a result but he wanted to remain friends and I just couldn’t do that. We only dated for a few months but I was really upset about the break-up. He is a lawyer, and we met 2 days after my birthday (Libra, 9th, Jupiter)… So, less than a month later I meet this guy, still within the same SR. I just wanted someone to talk to at first, and my mind was still on the other guy so I really didn’t let it go too far. But then right before Valentine’s Day things got intense and he told me he loved me in the most dramatic fashion (that Venus+Mars in Leo) and then we got pretty cozy up until April, when I got a temporary gig someplace far from him and his company started getting busy because of the good weather. Then I didn’t see him for weeks at a time because we were so tired and lived about an hour away from each other. It was okay because I knew that we had more of a physical spark than an intellectual one so it didn’t mean that much to me - this is what I told myself (I was preparing to get hurt). Then my job ended and the plan was for me to stay with him while I find a job closer to him until we decided to get engaged, move in, etc. But during that trial run, he was acting strangely. He would come home later than he said and not have the courtesy to call. I am not a fool, I am sure he was seeing someone else, but I didn’t confront him and then he breaks up with me, 2 weeks before our birthday. This was after the serious marriage and kids talk we would have all of the time (he wanted a girl right away, like I had a choice in the matter)… My heart was broken twice last year, and my SR Venus was in the 12th house. I have asked for SR readings for this year and a few people have said “ooh, it looks like it might be a foreign man” because of the 7th house ruler in the 9th and I am like “been there, done that! Am I going to do it again? Same guy?” ('cause he is the only foreign man in existance!)… I wish I could merge these two men together, I’d have the perfect man… This is my synastry with the other guy, just to show that we have nothing going on really…
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downtomars Knowflake Posts: 917 From: NY Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 13, 2011 05:08 PM
Here is the composite chart for me and the top guy: - Note the Sun/Moon conjunction IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 22819 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted October 13, 2011 06:59 PM
You can always unleash with me.I am the chief unleasher I will be back to study it!------------------ Do You Think This Psychic Is Cute? http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 22819 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted October 14, 2011 01:10 PM
His Nep oppose your Chiron. Does your inner pain see him as some sort of a savior? I may be all wrong with thi.------------------ Do You Think This Psychic Is Cute? http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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downtomars Knowflake Posts: 917 From: NY Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 14, 2011 04:13 PM
quote: Originally posted by Ami Anne: His Nep oppose your Chiron. Does your inner pain see him as some sort of a savior? I may be all wrong with thi.
Actually...yes (that is all I feel comfortable saying about that "savior-savee" issue though) IP: Logged |