posted November 09, 2011 07:03 AM            

He admitted that he likes me a lot and expressed it in various way that were genuine. I know for a fact that his words and action don't match.

Will he come back? Should I wait for him to come back which i want to or should just move on?

posted November 09, 2011 12:36 PM            

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Originally posted by enchantress:
hi anongrl10, i hope you could read this soon cause I won't be able to use my laptop for a while starting from tomorrow... I need your advice. I just have a quick question regarding my reading few days ago about A.

Because, here's the thing, tomorrow will be the last day that I will see him, do you think that telling him that I'll miss him is a 'good' move or do you think it would just push him away? I'm kinda thinking of doing this ages ago, I tried once but but I totally changed the topic! (silly me -_-) is the connection strong enough for me to wait and hope for him in the future? cause I'm kinda doubting about what he really feels about me, right now, I'm still wondering if he really does like me (as what the cards have told us) he did something that made me jealous that's why I'm asking this... (i know, I shouldn't even be jealous right now cause we're not even going out! ) or maybe it's just my sensitivity that's makin me think that he doesn't like me? for some reason I hate seeing him talking and laughing around girls especially when he tells me that he doesn't like them when it's just the two of us...while we were sitting at a table in front of each other, I saw him from the corner of my eye looking at me but I pretended I didn't see him, I know it's a sign that he could possibly like me, but is the connection strong enough? if it is, I'll tell him what I really feel for him (i'm just trying to be strong here!) thank you

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Hi there!

I am thinking -and this is just my advice- that you lose nothing by telling him that you will miss him. If this pushes him away, then you will know that he doesn't really care or he has issues. If I remember the reading I did for you, he does like you, so I see no harm in telling him something so sweet. People get flattered by such sweet words even when they don't care about you.
So, be brave and perhaps invite him for coffee or give him a nice goodbye card and tell him that he will be missed. I am sure he will appreciate it even if he would get stunned a bit!
Do it for you (not for him). As a way to express yourself. OK?

And do write back with what happened!

posted November 10, 2011 01:41 AM            

more hugzzzzzz,
Anongrl10

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Originally posted by enchantress:
can life get any worse? I was planning to tell him at school early in this morning cos he always come early to school but today he was late. When he was already at school, there were already heaps of people around so can't tell him at that time. And then we need to come inside our classroom cause our exam's about to start and that was for 3 hours. after the exam I thought I have all the time to tell him cause we're all free now but then his dad called him and said he was going to pick him up! and his bestfriend was with him too so can't really tell it to him in front of best friend...now, I'm so devastated that I never had the chance to actually tell him what I really feel, i don't even wanna think about anything anymore, my heart is just so numb to feel anything </3

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posted November 10, 2011 01:43 AM            

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Originally posted by Cella:
We were in a long distance relationship. When we met he realised that it will be hard to keep the relationship alive for practical reasons.

He admitted that he likes me a lot and expressed it in various way that were genuine. I know for a fact that his words and action don't match.

Will he come back? Should I wait for him to come back which i want to or should just move on?

Am I on his mind? What does he thinks of me?

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Sorry, Cella, I responded to this but the post got lost somehow.
The thread has closed several days now.
I only receive feedback from the 5 people whose readings I did.
Catch me at another offering!

posted November 10, 2011 06:22 AM            

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Originally posted by enchantress:
does it sound weird if I tell you I don't have his number? yes, we're friends but i don't have his number. I have his e-mail address though but his sister can also access it and he doesn't have facebook as well cause he chose not to have one few weeks ago, I told him to keep in touch and he said, yes we will, you have my e-mail address right? He also told me that day that he admires me because he said he knows that I always try my best (this is regarding to my parents), it was very sincere..I know deep inside i also know that he still wanna keep in touch with me but he's just way too shy to make a move and it's now hurting me Does he even know how much I this is hurting me right now? sometimes I think if it is just me who can feel this, if it just me that's going crazy for him? if it is only me that feels this attraction, this love....i don't know, I guess I'll just let time heal everything, he'll stay in my heart forever. he is my first love...I just realized that now that we're apart

I'm so sorry if that was too long, I couldn't really tell anyone about what i'm feeling right now, crushes and love and boys and boyfriends are foreign words to my parents so I can't really talk about these stuff around them, but thank you Anon for your time reading it

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I understand, no worries!
I've been there like all of us.
That he admires you and he told you that is a very good sign. I know he will try to keep in touch. You can email him. Even if his sis is seeing the emails, who cares? Send him an e-card with a "will be missing you" message; it's nothing to be ashamed of. Keep in touch so he can keep in touch too.
Remember the reading; your lives separate right now but life is long, so a little perspective is called for. You will heal. Time heals all. And you probably can't think of the future right now but it will come.
Keep on living your life the best way you can.

posted November 10, 2011 07:16 PM            

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Originally posted by anongrl10:
I understand, no worries!
I've been there like all of us.
That he admires you and he told you that is a very good sign. I know he will try to keep in touch. You can email him. Even if his sis is seeing the emails, who cares? Send him an e-card with a "will be missing you" message; it's nothing to be ashamed of. Keep in touch so he can keep in touch too.
Remember the reading; your lives separate right now but life is long, so a little perspective is called for. You will heal. Time heals all. And you probably can't think of the future right now but it will come.
Keep on living your life the best way you can.

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posted November 11, 2011 06:06 AM            

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Originally posted by enchantress:
thank you anon for the kind words, your reading is the only thing that's giving me hope for him, thank you

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Hi there,

I see you asked the same question elsewhere, so I am going to advise you to REread my original reading for you VERY carefully.
I guess sometimes we want to read our wishful thinking rather than the exact message brought out to us.
So I told you that you BOTH are going to move on with your lives. Do you remember that?
That he likes you is what my cards showed and he gave you evidence of it already.
However, this is not a marriage proposal or something you can capitalize on.
I advised you to focus on your studies and life and let life flow.
I did not mean to give you false hopes.
Hope this clarifies.

Anongrl10

posted November 11, 2011 07:10 AM            

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Originally posted by enchantress:
yeh, i know overtime, things might change..he might like me for now but i know this is not going to be forever...i'm so sorry if i am being a bit narrow minded i'm still learning the 'art' of love, i'm still very young and all these mixed feelings are new to me..yes, i'm trying to focus on my studies, i always did. i think i just got too caried away with your reading but it was very very helpful as well as the advices that you gave me

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posted November 18, 2011 03:16 AM            

is he serious with me and should i continue with him???