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Topic: Is this realistic?
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noir
Newflake Posts: 20
From: New Orleans, LA, USA
Registered: May 2011
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posted November 14, 2011 11:35 PM
  
I'm a 24 year old Libra woman, and the past five months I've been dating a 41 year old Capricorn male. He is amazing, but so aloof. The past two days are probably the most affectionate he's ever been towards me. I just hate how hard he is to figure out, it drives me effing insane. Could this relationship work? I've never daydreamed about someone marrying me until now. It's crazy. I adore him. Due to some Scorpio placements I can be really obsessive when it comes to new relationships but it fades away pretty quickly. This faded, but now I feel this strange feeling. I think I might be in love. Never felt this way before. Wtf is wrong with me? Can this work? I need advice from the real experts. :PME:
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yuting
Knowflake Posts: 163
From: Hong Kong
Registered: Oct 2010
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posted November 15, 2011 04:40 AM
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YoursTrulyAlways
Knowflake Posts: 481
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posted November 15, 2011 09:44 AM
What is so unrealistic about it? He is affectionate with you, and you have feelings for him. What's so wrong with that?I'm Capricorn male myself and I'm slightly older than him. I can't help you with the astrology but I can help with the thought process. IP: Logged |
noir
Newflake Posts: 20
From: New Orleans, LA, USA
Registered: May 2011
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posted November 15, 2011 11:19 AM
He's affectionate, yes. Lately. I guess I'm feeling insecure because he's so successful. He's got his life together for the most part. A nice house, a good job, hes absolutely gorgeous. I maybe feel like he's out of my league. I feel like eventually he'll realize that I'm a scatterbrain and irresponsible and his hardworking Capricorn ways won't like me anymore or something. IP: Logged |
noir
Newflake Posts: 20
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Registered: May 2011
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posted November 15, 2011 11:28 AM
Maybe I should stop overanalyzing everything and just enjoy my time with him. It's hard being a woman.  IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways
Knowflake Posts: 481
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posted November 15, 2011 11:37 AM
Stop being insecure! I know I like confidence in a woman. Capricorns work hard for what they have, and they usually have quite a lot. So, try to get used to it. Stop viewing it as his vs. mine, and what he has vs. what I have. Like him for who he is, and not what he has. He'll like you very much in return. I know personally that I can't stand women fawning over me because of what I have, and not who I am.IP: Logged |
noir
Newflake Posts: 20
From: New Orleans, LA, USA
Registered: May 2011
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posted November 15, 2011 01:57 PM
I don't fawn over him because of what he has, please don't think that! I had a crush on him before I knew what he had. I was bartending and he was a customer of mine and we'd spend hours talking and laughing. I just feel insecure about how my life isn't as together as his yet and I wonder if me not having my act quite together yet is going to bother him. I have to say, though- Capricorns are a great influence in regards to setting your life straight. When I'm with him I don't have a desire to do drugs, go out and party, spend money wrecklessly. He makes me appreciate simpler things. I'm usually really impulsive and wreckless and he tones that side of me down so much. I love it. He makes me want to be better. I've never experienced that before.. that's why I have this insane fear of losing him.IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways
Knowflake Posts: 481
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posted November 15, 2011 02:26 PM
There's an age difference. Obviously, his life would seem to be more "put together." I would hope so!Just be true to him. You won't lose him that way. Capricorns are devoted and loyal. He has already thought things through before even accepting you into his life. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
Moderator Posts: 21914
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted November 15, 2011 02:29 PM
I will look! Welcome to Personal readings Noir  ------------------
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noir
Newflake Posts: 20
From: New Orleans, LA, USA
Registered: May 2011
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posted November 15, 2011 02:35 PM
I guess you're right. He does have a 17 year head start. And I bet you're right about him thinking about it before he decided to have me in his life. I must really be special to have someone as amazing as him appreciate me. ;P*HUG* for you, yourstruly!! hahah IP: Logged |
noir
Newflake Posts: 20
From: New Orleans, LA, USA
Registered: May 2011
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posted November 15, 2011 02:36 PM
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
I will look! Welcome to Personal readings Noir
Thanks, Ami. I've been checking out your posts lately and I'm really excited that you said you're going to look!  IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways
Knowflake Posts: 481
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posted November 15, 2011 02:37 PM
Thank you. As a 20-something bachelor, I myself was lusting over the achievement of late 40-something men and wondering when I could get my act together. Now that I'm a 40-something married man, I lust after the achievement of 70-something retired grandfathers, complaining to myself about how untogether I am. Its natural. IP: Logged |
noir
Newflake Posts: 20
From: New Orleans, LA, USA
Registered: May 2011
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posted November 15, 2011 03:06 PM
It never ends.  IP: Logged |
anongrl10
Knowflake Posts: 1380
From: won't_disclose
Registered: Sep 2011
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posted November 15, 2011 03:17 PM
Could you put the synastry chart up please? From a quick look you have quite some synastry!
This is a typical Cappie and you are more Virgo than you realize (your Sun in Libra is ruled by Merc/Virgo). This makes you worry and overanalyze everything to death. But the relationship sounds solid to me. Will tell more when I see the synastry. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
Moderator Posts: 21914
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted November 15, 2011 03:28 PM
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Originally posted by noir:
Thanks, Ami. I've been checking out your posts lately and I'm really excited that you said you're going to look!
Thank you, Noir! ------------------
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Ami Anne
Moderator Posts: 21914
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
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posted November 15, 2011 03:38 PM
Yes, both natals are good, but the synastry, as well, is needed, to answer your question. I had a big age difference, once. I don't think they are a big deal. Love is love. Love is rare. So what about age? That is my feeling, any way!
If you could add the asteroids Nessus, Dejanaria,Psyche, Eros and Child, that would be great.------------------
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noir
Newflake Posts: 20
From: New Orleans, LA, USA
Registered: May 2011
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posted November 15, 2011 07:44 PM
Ami, I don't know where to get those ones you are referring to. Could you link me?IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
Moderator Posts: 21914
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted November 15, 2011 07:57 PM
Go to Astrodients---which is the site I use. CHOOSE the chart selection--synastry. It will do a chart with him on the outside.Please put him on the outside, if you can, and you on the inside. I don't know how to use the Photo bucket or I would do it  ------------------
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