posted November 27, 2011 05:54 AM            

One specific question per person please.
Offer a little background for my cards to pick up the energy of the situation, but pls do not bog me down with too much detail as I'd like to disengage my rational mind and let intuition speak.

I will have completed my readings by tonight (Sunday eve my time).

thanks,
Anongrl10

posted November 27, 2011 06:12 AM            

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Originally posted by heartstrings:
thank you anongrl for the kind offer my question is: is there any way that my parents would ever understand me? what should i do? can you use tarot to answer such question? cos i'm feeling so saaad right now, almost feeling suicidal!

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Heartstrings, sweetheart, yes, this is a good tarot question, do not worry about that.
In the meantime, please do me a favor and go get yourself a nice cup of hot chocolate or something else you really really really like to drink right now. Feel pleasure and joy in the moment. You are not alone although I know it feels this way just now... Trust me; you are not alone.

posted November 27, 2011 06:17 AM            

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Originally posted by anongrl10:
Heartstrings, sweetheart, yes, this is a good tarot question, do not worry about that.
In the meantime, please do me a favor and go get yourself a nice cup of hot chocolate or something else you really really really like to drink right now. Feel pleasure and joy in the moment. You are not alone although I know it feels this way just now... Trust me; you are not alone.

hugzzzzz,
Anongrl10

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posted November 27, 2011 06:28 AM            

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Originally posted by heartstrings:
thank you very much anon, i'm looking forward to your reading, and hopefully make things clearer for me. And thanks for the support

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posted November 27, 2011 06:59 AM            

*EDIT*
to be more specific, i'd like to ask whether he still think (or care, if he did) about me, i wonder if i ever cross his mind..I haven't talked to him in agees and i was just wondering if we just completely lost the connection or not. hehhe

posted November 27, 2011 07:07 AM            

My question is: what can I do to make my mother happier?

posted November 27, 2011 07:15 AM            

I was wondering what route I should take with my career, if I am heading in the right direction...

I have had many starts and stops so I was wondering what would looks good...

posted November 27, 2011 10:57 AM            

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Originally posted by heartstrings:
thank you anongrl for the kind offer my question is: is there any way that my parents would ever understand me? what should i do? can you use tarot to answer such question? cos i'm feeling so saaad right now, almost feeling suicidal!

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Dear heartstrings,

I want to preface this with saying that I feel your pain. Please know that you can only control your own reactions and feelings and never the other people's. Sometimes we have the best intentions and the other person is simply not capable for their own reason to see and accept us and validate us. It doesn't mean that you are worthless or there is something wrong with *you*! It simply means that *they* have issues they are unaware of.

Now for your reading:
The cards are telling me there is history starting from your childhood years (6 of cups)... I get a sense that you had to leave the family home without their approval (7 of swords)? Although you are physically removed from the oppressed environment, you are still emotionally attached to them (4 of pents) and this of course is due to a sense of insecurity and an effort to keep the good memories and refuse to acknowledge the bad ones. Perhaps the truth is not as you see it right now. I get the Judgement card in the immediate future; you will realize deeply in your heart the truth of the matter. Some kind of lesson in disillusionment. I got this card together with the Tower card of big changes that will bear all until only the Truth remains. It's almost like a rude awakening. Sometimes we want some people to love us so much... and we lose sight of the fact that they have their limitations. It doesn't mean we are not lovable if they are unable to love us as we want them to. Keep this in mind to lessen your pain.

I also asked the cards to tell you what you should do specifically. And they said: 8 of wands, and 3 of cups. Go ahead and fly as high as you wish, gather up all your strength and set off for the horizon, LIVE your life, let them eat your dust (8 of wands). AND surround yourself with good friends in merry times (3 of cups).

Sending you love and warm hugs and a little to see you through your journey.

posted November 27, 2011 11:03 AM            

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Originally posted by enchantress:

to be more specific, i'd like to ask whether he still think (or care, if he did) about me, i wonder if i ever cross his mind..I haven't talked to him in agees and i was just wondering if we just completely lost the connection or not. hehhe

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Hi there

I asked about your love life and I got a lot of positive cards to the point where I wonder why you ask me! LOL
I got Ace of Cups, which is The card for new love, I got The Fool, which is again indicative of a new adventure, and I finally got the Judgement card, which is a rebirth of your love life. So major changes have already started or are starting soon in your love life!
Then I asked the cards specifically: is he thinking about her? And I got the King of Swords. Darling, you're in his mind.

posted November 27, 2011 11:20 AM            

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Originally posted by Starish:

My question is: what can I do to make my mother happier?

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hi Starish

Does your mom feel abandoned by friends and loved ones? Is she divorced? I got a lot of friends (2 of cups) and pents (Queen of Pents, King of Pents) cards. I also saw her struggle with guilt and insecurity (5 of wands). Sometimes the outer circumstances simply reflect our inner (emotional) troubles. I think she really need to start asking for help - every she knows. With dignity and clarity, ask in earnest. She is surrounded by people who can help her. If only she asks! Her emotional condition doesn't let her forge ahead to solve her problems in a dynamic manner.

I asked the cards again: how can she help her? And they said: 2 of pents, 2 of wands 9 of cups. The cards tell me that it is not your responsibility to help your mother, you're already juggling so much in your life by tending to her emotional condition (2 of pents). You need to focus on your own business, your own dreams and your own goals (2 of wands) and trust that by becoming happy yourself you will be in better position to bring her happiness (9 of cups).

After all this is said, I need to add the disclaimer, that if your mother is depressed please call her doctor for help with meds. Sometimes people need a bit of help through hard times. If she feels a bit clearer in her head she might be in better position to help herself and find solution to her problems.

Hope this helps a bit, let me know. Wish you and your mother the best!

posted November 27, 2011 11:34 AM            

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Originally posted by downtomars:
Thank you for offering Anongrl...

I was wondering what route I should take with my career, if I am heading in the right direction...

I have had many starts and stops so I was wondering what would looks good...

Yay! Thanks in advance...

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Ok, downtomars, you're not saying specifically what options are there for you and I have no idea what you do in your current career.
So my cards responded in a vague way given the vague question. If you need a more specific answer, you are welcome to re-phrase your question.

So my current reading is this:

Past: Queen of Wands - this is you wanting everything and NOW and going after everything you want at once! LOL A lot of fire energy!

Present: The High Priestess - this is you again and this time around you know what you want but you just won't admit it out loud just yet. You need to keep in silence and let your inner self guide you. It is clear that you have the answer to your question but you need to silence all the external noise and listen to YOU. A surprise might be in order!

Future: The Star - need I say more? It seems you will figure it out.

posted November 27, 2011 11:45 AM            

I was wondering if you have time for another reading? Currently I have a job in a new city, but I don't make enough and I am not happy. I am looking for another job,but I can't find any.

Do you see which would be the best way for me to find a new fulfilling job?

Thank you,

posted November 27, 2011 11:47 AM            

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Originally posted by Hecate:
Hi anongrl10,

I was wondering if you have time for another reading? Currently I have a job in a new city, but I don't make enough and I am not happy. I am looking for another job,but I can't find any.

Do you see which would be the best way for me to find a new fulfilling job?

Thank you,

Hecate

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Hi Hecate (love your handle!)

I will do yours right after yuting's.
Stand by.

posted November 27, 2011 12:00 PM            

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Originally posted by anongrl10:
hi Starish

Does your mom feel abandoned by friends and loved ones? Is she divorced? I got a lot of friends (2 of cups) and pents (Queen of Pents, King of Pents) cards. I also saw her struggle with guilt and insecurity (5 of wands). Sometimes the outer circumstances simply reflect our inner (emotional) troubles. I think she really need to start asking for help - every she knows. With dignity and clarity, ask in earnest. She is surrounded by people who can help her. If only she asks! Her emotional condition doesn't let her forge ahead to solve her problems in a dynamic manner.

I asked the cards again: how can she help her? And they said: 2 of pents, 2 of wands 9 of cups. The cards tell me that it is not your responsibility to help your mother, you're already juggling so much in your life by tending to her emotional condition (2 of pents). You need to focus on your own business, your own dreams and your own goals (2 of wands) and trust that by becoming happy yourself you will be in better position to bring her happiness (9 of cups).

After all this is said, I need to add the disclaimer, that if your mother is depressed please call her doctor for help with meds. Sometimes people need a bit of help through hard times. If she feels a bit clearer in her head she might be in better position to help herself and find solution to her problems.

Hope this helps a bit, let me know. Wish you and your mother the best!

Anongrl10

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Anongrl10, I am really grateful for this.

The things my mother tells me also reflect that she feels all alone - my father doesn't help her at all on her situation. I think she feels guilty about my little sister too, who's all teenage drama.

She puts everything up like having more money would solve all her problems, and when I get really angry (cause she makes me so), I tell her "Maybe I should start transferring 50% of my salary to your account so that you could have a maid and all nice posessions, because that would truly solve your issues, wouldn't it!?"

These anger outbursts that she provokes in me really make me feel like a bad person, because I should of course be supportive, but it is draining me and blocking my own personal path ahead

posted November 27, 2011 12:02 PM            

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Originally posted by yuting:
I am friends with my ex-bf and his wife as well, but there was a time it was a love triangle which I am not sure his wife knows I was that 3rd person. I am no longer interested in my ex. I would like to ask for insight into our friendship. Just want to make sure it is ok for the friendships (ie no one is having any inappropriate or uncomfortable thoughts)

Many thanks if you could give me some insight into the friendships.

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OK, yuting, I am not 100% clear on the purpose of your question. Since there is no problem, why are you asking about the friendships? I get the feeling that it's not so OK deep down and that makes you wonder...

Your reading revealed the story of you (Knight of Swords) and your ex (King of Wands). I lot the energy; was there an age difference between you two? In any case, it looks like you left him first (if not physically, perhaps emotionally). He is happy right now (9 of cups) in his marriage. However, you are depicted as The Fool. Be aware of possible danger. Avoid irresponsibility. Perhaps it's prudent not to get too close to either of them. They want to be civil, it doesn't mean they want you really close. I also got the Hermit. This is you and your friends looking for the truth: is this friendship true? It's the question du jour... All three are wondering (perhaps in private) how strong these friendships are. I guess it's going to be like this for a while.

I asked the cards specifically if it's OK to go on with these friendships. And they said: Knight of Pents, Empress, 4 of Wands. In other words, tread lightly, be yourself and focus on your life. This is the recommended way to successfully navigate these friendships.

posted November 27, 2011 12:03 PM            

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Originally posted by anongrl10:
Hi Hecate (love your handle!)

I will do yours right after yuting's.
Stand by.

Anongrl10

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posted November 27, 2011 12:07 PM            

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Originally posted by Starish:

Anongrl10, I am really grateful for this.

The things my mother tells me also reflect that she feels all alone - my father doesn't help her at all on her situation. I think she feels guilty about my little sister too, who's all teenage drama.

She puts everything up like having more money would solve all her problems, and when I get really angry (cause she makes me so), I tell her "Maybe I should start transferring 50% of my salary to your account so that you could have a maid and all nice posessions, because that would truly solve your issues, wouldn't it!?"

These anger outbursts that she provokes in me really make me feel like a bad person, because I should of course be supportive, but it is draining me and blocking my own personal path ahead

I will take you and your cards' advice in to consideration I definitely need to talk to her about her mental situation, because it is not at all stable

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Starish,

You're welcome! Glad it resonated. The message about you and your path came across loud and clear. I'm glad you confirmed it.
I really wish you the best. You are such a loving soul to care so much for your mother.

posted November 27, 2011 12:16 PM            

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Originally posted by Hecate:
Currently I have a job in a new city, but I don't make enough and I am not happy. I am looking for another job,but I can't find any.
Do you see which would be the best way for me to find a new fulfilling job?

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Hi Hecate!

I am getting the story of your life here LOL.
The cards are very talkative about you. Would like some confirmation. I can see you burdened with huge responsibility (Ten of Wands). Is this new job very demanding, long hrs, etc.? Or, do you have some kind of debt you are paying off? This is a heavy load that binds you there. Is this a family business (Ten of pents)? I can see the project is underway (6 of pents), you have already started, and although you are doing well (page of swords) you are really exhausted emotionally and mentally (ten of swords). All these Ten's are trying to say that you are near the end of your wits here!! Which is a bit weird since you're telling me that this is a new job! You seem really burned out!

So I asked again: how will she find a new fulfilling job? The cards suggest that you hold on your savings (page of pents), move away from strife (6 of swords), and you will be helped by this wonderful guy the King of Pents, whose help will lead you to success (4 of wands).

And now I need to ask you: what do you do? What is the nature of your current work?

posted November 27, 2011 12:22 PM            

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Originally posted by anongrl10:

Your reading revealed the story of you (Knight of Swords) and your ex (King of Wands). I lot the energy; was there an age difference between you two? In any case, it looks like you left him first (if not physically, perhaps emotionally). He is happy right now (9 of cups) in his marriage.
Anongrl10

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We're just a year apart in age. I'd say he left me 1st. Got involved with him before I knew he already had long-time live-in gf (his wife now). Already in too deep emotionally to remove myself when found out, thus the triangle. He chose his long-term gf and finally decided to get married. Took me a while to let go. But I already met his wife before we really broke off, so civility. Now I'm not longer involved with him and we do have common friends now, so I am interested in maintaining friendship, but no, no intention to be close friends.

Why I asked my question is my ex loves women (he had a history which he told me when we were still involved) and not very clean cut in the relationships. I am just worried he's still got some unrealistic thoughts about my feelings for him or his feelings for me. Some gestures when we met seem too intimate for me (though I am not sure it is me bend overboard the other way to avoid misunderstanding or in fact my sense is correct)

If my sense is correct, I think I will avoid meeting him, though I know he likes joining my gatherings with the other common friends (worse is my friends expect me to be organizer and it might be weird if he's not invited). But if I am overreacting, I would let things be as is. I like his wife fine too, so if she doesnt feel uncomfortable, I can let things be as is. If not, again I will see what I can do to avoid discomfort.

With this context, what advice do you have from the reading for me?

posted November 27, 2011 12:33 PM            

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Originally posted by yuting:

With this context, what advice do you have from the reading for me?

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Between the two of you, your energy is more volatile. He's pretty clueless. Perhaps that's why I thought you left him first. Even if he's married now, it doesn't mean he has let u go in his head and/or heart, so don't be too quick to say that you left him first.

I'd say it's prudent to keep your distance. Be civil, be social but do not encourage 'weird' gestures especially from him (he sounds boundaries-challenged) and make sure you always address both of them when you talk to them. As you already said, close friendship is not in the cards, but you can be civil and social with them if you play it right. Look elsewhere for real friendship.

Good luck! I feel you're already in the right track just by asking this q (the Hermit ).

posted November 27, 2011 12:34 PM            

You response had me laughing,

So I guess I will keep looking......maybe I will find something interesting and that will pay my bills.