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Ami Anne
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posted January 12, 2012 04:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You know what? There is an interesting trend. You are SO there for him, but when you need to share your pain, it seems like he will say "Get over it" Is that true?

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posted January 12, 2012 04:41 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You may have a big power play with him, in time. However, it CAN be transformed, as it is a quincunx aspect so you can work it out with him.

You, yourself, can be explosive with anger. This will be directed to him, in power plays, as I said etc
How does this sound?

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posted January 12, 2012 04:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
He will kind of idealize you, but that can be good, not bad. Does he?

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posted January 12, 2012 04:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sun sq Uranus--This could make for lots of excitement but could make you want to run from each other. He would be the rebellious one, here, and you would be the more stable one. Does that sound true?

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posted January 12, 2012 04:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Saturn oppose Saturn
You may feel restricted by each other. Right now, I am just looking for traits and not doing a summary. If you could comment on each one, it will help me to get an overall picture, which is always the best.

Some of these "hard ones" don't mean the relationship won't work. Everyone has easy and hard ones. If it were all easy, it would be brother/sister.

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posted January 12, 2012 08:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for CookieMonster     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Ok His Ceres, which is the nurturer asteroid is conjunct your Neptune. Neptune fogs things. It makes things that touch it hard to grasp. How would this work? How do you feel when he tries to nurture you?


To be honest, I haven't really felt this one yet, because I haven't quite opened up to him like he's openeed up to me. At least about problems. So I could keep you updated on that, but it hasn't really surfaced yet.

And yes I am a Christian(Catholic)

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posted January 12, 2012 08:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for CookieMonster     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
You know what? There is an interesting trend. You are SO there for him, but when you need to share your pain, it seems like he will say "Get over it" Is that true?


Like I said, I haven't seen it yet, but I'll be sure to watch out for it as this relationship progresses and becomes more serious, so we can resolve it in one way or another before I start to resent him for it. That wouldn't be good.

Sorry about the lateness of my responses, by the way. I just got home from work!!

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posted January 12, 2012 08:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for CookieMonster     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
You may have a big power play with him, in time. However, it CAN be transformed, as it is a quincunx aspect so you can work it out with him.

You, yourself, can be explosive with anger. This will be directed to him, in power plays, as I said etc
How does this sound?

Do you mean that I will try to get the upperhand or manipulate him? Because, although not often, I have a slight tendency to do that with some people. However, it is rare, and usually not about something really serious. Or do you mean I'll try to get the upperhand in the relationship in general?


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posted January 12, 2012 08:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for CookieMonster     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Ami Anne:
You may have a big power play with him, in time. However, it CAN be transformed, as it is a quincunx aspect so you can work it out with him.

You, yourself, can be explosive with anger. This will be directed to him, in power plays, as I said etc
How does this sound?

Do you mean that I will try to get the upperhand or manipulate him? Because, although not often, I have a slight tendency to do that with some people. However, it is rare, and usually not about something really serious. Or do you mean I'll try to get the upperhand in the relationship in general?


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posted January 12, 2012 08:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for CookieMonster     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
He will kind of idealize you, but that can be good, not bad. Does he?


OHHHH YES. I can see it already. The way he talks about me, and anytime I'll say anything bad about myself he gets upset and tries to convince me it's not true.

It is strange for me to have a relationship with someone who idealizes me because it's usually the other way around. I tend to be the one in relationships that does that to my partner.

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posted January 12, 2012 08:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for CookieMonster     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Sun sq Uranus--This could make for lots of excitement but could make you want to run from each other. He would be the rebellious one, here, and you would be the more stable one. Does that sound true?


haha this one I haven't FULLY experienced yet, but yes, he is more "head in the clouds" "do what I want" "F*** everyone" and I have to bring him down to earth at times, as amusing as he can be!

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posted January 12, 2012 08:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for CookieMonster     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Sun sq Uranus--This could make for lots of excitement but could make you want to run from each other. He would be the rebellious one, here, and you would be the more stable one. Does that sound true?


haha how would this make us want to run from eachother? Is it a bad or good thing?

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posted January 12, 2012 08:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for CookieMonster     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Saturn oppose Saturn
You may feel restricted by each other. Right now, I am just looking for traits and not doing a summary. If you could comment on each one, it will help me to get an overall picture, which is always the best.

Some of these "hard ones" don't mean the relationship won't work. Everyone has easy and hard ones. If it were all easy, it would be brother/sister.


HA! Oh Ami, if only you knew the relationship between my brother and I. Anything BUT easy! :P

And restricted how? From expressing ourselves?

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posted January 13, 2012 10:08 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for CookieMonster     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Bump!

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posted January 13, 2012 12:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for CookieMonster     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Amiiiiiiii, are you still there?

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posted January 13, 2012 01:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi
I will look, as soon as I get back.

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posted January 13, 2012 01:41 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Well, you will butt heads with him, but you and he will be able to resolve it if you can talk and grow, together.

The other things I mentioned about him not allowing you to share your pain, will unfold as time goes on, imo

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posted January 13, 2012 01:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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haha how would this make us want to run from eachother? Is it a bad or good thing?



Well, Uranus makes people want to change as in "new, new, new"

So, this could make this dynamic but you do not have to run, but could give each other space, when needed.

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posted January 13, 2012 01:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think I answered everything, so far. Do you have any questions, before I go on?

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posted January 13, 2012 06:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for CookieMonster     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
No questions! Go on please

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