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RunAroundScreaming
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posted January 15, 2012 04:08 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for RunAroundScreaming     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
So, I made friends last semester with an aries guy...we've gotten closer as time went on. Our synastry and composite are awesome. He hugs me from the side sometimes when we see each other and stays there hugging me with his head on my shoulder while i talk to someone. He doesn't initiate contact with me, and neither do i, but he just asks me to give him singing lessons. He also gives me a kiss on the cheek (like a real kiss, not a side kiss) if we havent seen each other in a while. And the other day he blew me a kiss to say goodbye as we were making facial expressions to each other when i was sitting inside the bus and he was outside on the bus stop. To me it doesnt seem that he likes me, it just seems like he is a very affectionate person, even though i dont see him being affectionate with other girls. He had a girlfriend for a bit and i remember when she was there with him he spent almost all the time talking to me instead and she was talking to someone else, and he was even texting me very caring things because i felt really sick and he motivated me to come to the event, as she was sitting on his lap. I think that it is all very innocent but that he is slowly developing feelings as am i. His girlfriend and him broke up recently and that is when i noticed he has become even more enthusiastic when he sees me. In our voice lessons when we would sit at the piano i could feel that there was something strange developing because our shoulders were touching the entire time when we were sitting at the piano together. He tells me his deep personal opinions about things and we have deep talks every time we see each other. I would like to know what the horary says about how he feels. I admit i am not that into him. I think i am starting to crush on him but it is not like in my other crushes where i was crazy about them. I am very undecided about him and it's got me stressed out. I feel very affectionate towards him but am not sure if i like him enough to go out with him and i feel uneasy because if things start to get deeper between us..what if we end up going out and there's just something about him that just feels like it wouldnt be passionate enough to pursue. There's something about him that feels like he isnt right for me even tho i'm developing feelings.

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Lioness
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posted January 15, 2012 05:12 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lioness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ur Saturn he is moon

Saturn does not aspect moon...

Saturn is leaving its sign soon.. So something will change... Maybe your feelings...

Your moving into his 4th.. I remember hearing H4 in horay is about endings...


He is conjunct Mars.. Which is a younger male... IDK what to say. But he's seperating...

Im sorry been drinking... IDk what Im saying

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RunAroundScreaming
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posted January 15, 2012 01:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for RunAroundScreaming     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Oohh he is a younger male! 3 years younger than me.

Hmm so sun trine moon doesnt mean anything and what about sun being in my sign of capricorn ?

That makes me feel relieved though...lol! I am kind of hoping nothing happens between us since it feels so strange

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RunAroundScreaming
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posted January 15, 2012 08:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for RunAroundScreaming     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Anybody else wanna give this a shot?

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RunAroundScreaming
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posted January 16, 2012 05:27 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for RunAroundScreaming     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
bump...pretty please...it's kind of tormenting me. Now every time i see him it's going to be awkward, and i'll probably see him tomorrow

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RunAroundScreaming
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posted January 16, 2012 05:38 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for RunAroundScreaming     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
So i was looking at my synastry with him...and...well. It really isnt that great. We have some nice aspects, sure. Sun trine venus, sun trine mars, sun trine moon, moon trine pluto wide orb, ok ok...BUT then we have all these terrible terrible aspects....saturn and neptune squaring and opposing a bunch of our personal planets mutually! including mars. As well as mercury square mercury and square uranus. Yes, the composite is great! It reallly is....which is probably what prevents us from hating each other or something i guess.....but the reason why there is a resistance to the attraction the composite causes...is.....the bad synastry.

So yay! we wont get together..and it/'ll all be okay and i am still in control of my life...hooray bitches!


lol its funny how just seeing bad synastry and being convinced he is not the one because of it can make you feel so in control again when you had a strong intuition of something but just needed something to confirm it

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Ceridwen
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posted January 16, 2012 06:44 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ceridwen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Your saturn in Libra on the verge of changing into Scorpio.
You are also Venus, which has just recently changed into Pisces.

he is Moon in Virgo, soon changing into Libra.
he also is Sun in Capricorn.

There is a lot of changes in the air. Some have just happened. Some are going to happen.

Saturn in Libra is not very interested in Moon nor in Sun, actually it is in the fall of Sun, which explains why you are not crazy for him.
Saturn will change into Scorpio, where it is in the detriment of Moon, which is not good.

All in all I cannot see you being too interested as of now (though I would need to check for triplicities, terms and faces when I am home).

Moon in Virgo is in the fall of Venus - so not that positive either. BUT it is on the verge of moving into Libra, where it is ruled by Venus - YOU. He soon will become more interested in you, especially in you as a woman.

Sun is VERY interested in Saturn, actually he loves Saturn; since Sun is about his "maleness" and "animal nature", I can see him being strongly physically attracted to you.
Even when Sun changes signs, it will STILL be majorly attracted to Saturn, so do not expect that to change so soon!

All in all I say he is much more interested in you than the other way round.

Moon was with someone else, but is separating. Does he have an Aries Ex-girlfriend?


- Moon isn`t aspecting Saturn or Venus (semisextile does not count)

- Sun will aspect Saturn eentually within 5 degrees, so there might be contact.

It is a square though, which might be about conflict or simply delays and obstacles and frustrations. Sometimes a meeting made by a square will happen, but will not be what both parties want.
It does depend on the recpetions though, if they are positive, it might just be obstacles that can be overcome and everything is fine from then, because there is genuine affection underlying it all. But if not, it is usually not worth the effort.

Saturn is in the fall of Sun - not good.
Sun is ruled by Saturn though - very good.

To be honest this looks like me like a recipe for unrequited love, with him being in love, and you not.

though of course things may change over time, you could grow closer to him. But I do not know how likely that is.

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Randall
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posted January 16, 2012 07:00 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Moving to Personal Readings.

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Ami Anne
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posted January 16, 2012 08:42 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Welcome to PR RAS

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RunAroundScreaming
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posted January 16, 2012 09:48 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for RunAroundScreaming     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hey hey hey!
I like this section. The PR section is lookin more alive lately.

Ceridwen! You are a genius. Did you know that? How long have you been doing horary? I wish I could do that... Thanks so much! Ur amazing!

I really think you are onto something. Moon is in the triplicity of saturn right now, but soon in libra it will be in the >>exaltation<< of saturn(my personality)....plus the sign of venus(my sexuality). On top of that, the sun will rventually go into aqua, which still loves my personality and is still triplicity with my sexuality. Omg so he will fall in love soon. So interesting how i could totally sense this strong change coming. Last night i had this strong feeling that he was totally laying awake in bed not being able to stop thinking about me, and that soon he would fall even harder. I guess that was why i was so irrationally and inexplicably worried last night..like i knew something out of my hands was happening and it would make me feel uncomfortable (not returning the feelings as intensely myself). I am rather interested in him, though. For one i wouldnt mind kissing him. And i do love him. Soo much! There is just this strong aversion inside of me i cant explain, and i guess what i fear most is not being able to stop thinking about him and falling harder, but still having this strong aversion. I have been in this situation before with an ex, and i loved him soo much i really did, there was just this repulsion to him physically sometimes and i knew he wasnt the one in my heart but i still cared about him so much, and he ended up breaking my heart bc my verbally telling him about my insecurity made him withdraw from the relationship. And there was just this incredible stress inside of me bc i knew that i wanted to be with him bc i loved him, but i also knew he wasnt the one and that he was someone i could easily live without and move on from. So the push pull and guilt of feeling that way about him inside of me was grrr! Frustrating.

Well, i guess this doesnt cure my fears at all, and i was scared for a legit reason. I intuited that he was gonna fall hard, and i would be pulled in two directions like with my ex. Grr! So frustrating. I wouldnt want to lose him as a friend. I love him . I wonder why the chart doesnt show at all that i am actually somewhat into him? Wanting to kiss him is being enough into him for it to warrant there being some evidence in the horary chart, right? I dont like his sexuality yet, i like him for his personality as of now. And it's interesting that saturn is only in fall to his sexuality, but just makes no reception at all to his personality (moon), and neither does venus. So i guess no reception means i dobt reject it, but im not especially attracted to it either. At least i dont reject it tho! I dont. I feel that i strongly love him. So that is a good start. I guess my feelings will change later and i will not even like him at all in that way later.

Thanks so much Ceridwen! Uve given me such a peace of mind! Lol. Believe it or not this had me worried...At least now i know what is going to happen...

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posted January 16, 2012 09:51 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ceri is the best

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posted January 16, 2012 09:55 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for RunAroundScreaming     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hmm...no, i think the exgirlfriend seems more like a gemini.

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RunAroundScreaming
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posted January 16, 2012 10:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for RunAroundScreaming     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Omg...I had this urge to check my facebook for signs of how he may be feeling, and on my dashboard, first status update there was from him, and it said:

"Love is no--t a---n affe---ction--ate feeling, but a stea---dy
wish for the lo---ved person's ultim---ate g--ood as far
as it can be obtai--ned."
C.S. Lewis

lolsry panicked and edited it the quote in case he decides to do some research on google about what it means.

He never posts stuff like that. I think he is in the same boat as me right now, trying to figure out how he feels. We have this strong affectionate feeling, but my intuition says, at this point, we both feel we don't have the intensity of feelings which makes us sure we love each other that way. It's kind of creepy how much what that quote says describes how I feel about him at this point. Like, yes, we have all this affection....but it's not real love.

It could really be about anything, true. But I don't think so...There is something happening between us. It's a strange quote to post anyway, because...actually yes, strong affection is a sign of real love, and whether you realize it or not you care about that person's well being a lot, most likely. Yet, we have that strong affection, but I don't really care about his well-being that much. I don't even have the urge to contact him or hang out with him, or try to be his close friend. So it's interesting how we both seem to be on the same page. I think it's obviously about me because how many other people does he have a strong affection with at this point in his life, for who he's trying to decide whether what he feels is love or not? And like right NOW at this specific point where a turning point is happening between us? Doubtful.

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posted January 18, 2012 09:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for RunAroundScreaming     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Nope he doesn't like me.....I'm pretty convinced after today. Just doesnt seem like it. I guess horary can be wrong sometimes.

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RunAroundScreaming
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posted March 23, 2012 08:34 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for RunAroundScreaming     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ceridwen, so he is now finally pursuing me. He is asking me to text him and he invited me to the beach and wants to see me more often. He has already made small very subtle moves and has looked at me with stars in his eyes, but I have a feeling next week in our singing lesson he will make the big move. My feelings still havent changed much, only have gotten a bit stronger. I am now more physicially attracted to him than i was..but the strong indecision is still there. I think I am slowly falling, though.

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posted March 23, 2012 11:32 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ariesdragon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
Ceridwen, so he is now finally pursuing me. He is asking me to text him and he invited me to the beach and wants to see me more often. He has already made small very subtle moves and has looked at me with stars in his eyes, but I have a feeling next week in our singing lesson he will make the big move. My feelings still havent changed much, only have gotten a bit stronger. I am now more physicially attracted to him than i was..but the strong indecision is still there. I think I am slowly falling, though.

Congrats Ras I'm so happy for you

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posted March 23, 2012 12:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for RunAroundScreaming     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you hun! I'm a nervous wreck lol but it's a good kind of nervous

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posted March 23, 2012 01:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ariesdragon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
Thank you hun! I'm a nervous wreck lol but it's a good kind of nervous

LOL aww so cute don't be nervous he likes you too! xoxo

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RunAroundScreaming
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posted March 23, 2012 11:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for RunAroundScreaming     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
lol thanks! That's true. He doesn't seem as nervous, though.

I'm actually thinking about not even going along with it bc a guy deserves the full leo venus conjunct mars square pluto treatment LOL, and though I like him a lot, I'm not crazy crazy about him. Ahh.. that sounds horrible just typing it...but why get attached when I know I wouldn't want to marry him?

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posted March 24, 2012 12:25 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ariesdragon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
lol thanks! That's true. He doesn't seem as nervous, though.

I'm actually thinking about not even going along with it bc a guy deserves the full leo venus conjunct mars square pluto treatment LOL, and though I like him a lot, I'm not crazy crazy about him. Ahh.. that sounds horrible just typing it...but why get attached when I know I wouldn't want to marry him?


ya I can understand Ras, u have ur heart saved for me lmao jk

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RunAroundScreaming
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posted March 24, 2012 01:06 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for RunAroundScreaming     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
lololololol.....Yeah, I've been crushing on the wrong aries this whole time XD

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