posted February 01, 2012 01:05 AM            

It must be nice to not have hard aspects in synastry...perhaps saturn conjunct pluto in the 12th might be challenging.

posted February 01, 2012 04:46 AM            

I dont think this is good for romantic relations bc of moon conjunct saturn and an empty 5th, 7th, 8th.

There are indications for sexual attraction such as venus trine mars and venus square uranus so it can be a friends with benefits thing but based on the composite it doesn't seem like you two will connect much emotionally....The strength here is friendship above else, communication although sometimes it will lead to arguments (mercury square mars), and if it leads to sex which is possible bc of mars trine venus, venus square uranus and NN in the 5th I dont think it will be emotionally fulfilling or out of this world, but perhaps if light and fun is what you want right now this might work bc venus trine mars and venus square uranus is fun and exciting.

The ruler of the 8th in your composite is the moon and the moon doesn't have overall very nice aspects (moon conjunct saturn, moon opposite chiron), it has two nice aspects but they are very soft (semisextile) so the opposition and conjunction will be felt stronger than those two soft aspects. On top of it pluto is also weak and the 8th is empty.

The fifth house is empty and the 5th house ruler has bad aspects except for venus trine mars.

To be really honest I would keep him as an online friend if I was you bc actually meeting him in person I think would ruin it. The strength of this relationship I would say is communication although this will be filled with debates or fights or both. I bet when you talk to him is fun and exciting and not boring. But based on rest of the chart if it leads to anything romantic it will be short lived or light fun that doesn't get deep emotionally or rocks your world but maybe that is what you two need right now.

posted February 01, 2012 12:56 PM            

But you do need both times of birth to be accurate though.. enjoy.

Composites describe the relationship, not either one of you, but what you came together to learn or to do and how the 'pair of you' function when together....

you 'should' reduce the orbs ratio on astro.com down to 40% as max orb in synastry and comp is 3'. Also please add transits which is easily seen once you have the chart just above to right is option 'with transits'
http://books.google.com/books?id=dUulSwQoEC4C&pg=PR16&dq=robert+hand+composites&ei=r8HRSsXNEJvmygSIsP3eCQ#v=onepage&q=&f=false

The Book ---Planets in Composite: Analyzing Human Relationships By Robert Hand-- is greatly recommended

“The composite doesn't seem to describe what either person feels about the other. In this way it is very different from synastry, which describes the chemistry between two people in terms of how they affect each other. The composite chart is like a child, a third entity which carries the genetic imprints of both parents but combines these imprints in an entirely new way and exists independently of either of them” http://www.astro.com/astrology/in_composit_e.htm

“Composites have their own laws and energies, and these have nothing to do with whether we are "well matched" with someone. A composite in itself will not tell us about compatibility. That is what synastry is for. The composite won't reveal whether the relationship is "good" or "bad" in terms of the chemistry between two people. The composite says to us, "If you choose to enter this relationship, here is its meaning and pattern of destiny” http://www.astro.com/astrology/in_composit_e.htm
http://www.astrology-numerology.com/composite.html http://www.aquamoonlight.co.uk/composite.html

could you just confirm the orb ratio on the synastry bi wheel as it should be reduced to 40% as max orb between planets should be no more than 3'

Basic astrology forum, How to approach Synastry http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum12/private-jjLYZw161/HTML/000667.html

Basic astrology forum, Learn the basics + House systems. http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum12/private-jjLYZw161/HTML/000671.html

posted February 01, 2012 01:00 PM            

Sun square Neptune can show the ego,pride and values of this relationship are confused, hard to define, as it would be in a natal??

mars square mercury adds argumentativeness and too forceful speech patterns, on occasions...

Moon conj saturn in 12th shows the emotions are cool, hidden and behind the scenes and then being dissolved in the 12th, this could potentially lead to no one talking about emotions. Then moon is square to venus, showing differences in social areas and what fulfills you emotionally or what brings The relationship pleasure (venus)

Have just read over amelia delinations and concur..

posted February 01, 2012 01:32 PM            

we are planning on meeting each other this year to celebrate knowing each other 10 years, but i already know that it wouldn't work out long-term..we've discussed it. our interests are very different and we DO argue a lot, but we just want to have sex with each other and see how that goes..i'm the one who is insisting that it won't work out (he's convinced otherwise).