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appleberry
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posted February 06, 2012 02:18 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for appleberry     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm posting my progressed chart for the date that I decided to end an abusive relationship. It took almost 2 months to get physically away from him (happened in another country) and this is for basically the date that I made the decision and booked the flight. The date I actually left was almost 3 weeks later. The relationship was about 4 years long and we lived together.

Please let me know if anything jumps out at you as to what might have brought me to that point.

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posted February 06, 2012 02:24 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for amelia28     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
wilddddd guess here....

perhaps saturn at 0 degrees in cancer trine exact juno at 0 degrees in pisces. Perhaps saturn gave you the strength to start fresh and let go of this relationship to leave room for a healthy new one (trine juno 0 degrees in pisces).

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posted February 06, 2012 02:24 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for appleberry     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
This is my Natal Chart and Transits for that day as well:

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posted February 06, 2012 02:32 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for appleberry     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yes, so much is touching that Saturn-Mars-Moon stellium in Cancer, in the 9th as well, which I point out because I was in a foreign country and left it.

Can't help but notice Nessus there too... knowing that Nessus has something to do with power control, abuse pscyhological/physical/sexual, taking responsability, resolving situations, healing of abuse patterns...

I wonder if the Sedna conjunct the Sun and Mercury had something to do with it... I read that Sedna comes to play when a person doesn't allow victimization anymore when they have learned the lesson. This conjunction is in the 7th house of relationships...

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posted February 06, 2012 02:42 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for amelia28     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Perhaps Eris transiting your 7th conjunct moon gave you the emotional strength to leave him.

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posted February 06, 2012 02:45 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for amelia28     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Eris is best known as the goddess of strife. She was known to often follow her brother Aries into battle. She frequently helped him to cause quarrels and lawlessness. Authors say that she helped to cause the Trojan War by tossing her apple of discord into the guests at the wedding of Peleus and Thetis. Thress of these guests then competed to win the golden apple.
http://www.gods-heros-myth.com/godpages/eris.html

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posted February 06, 2012 02:51 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for anongrl10     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
^^ "eris" is Grk for conflict, quarrel, rivalry

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posted February 06, 2012 02:54 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for appleberry     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
But isn't Eris extremely slow? I don't think it has ever been out of my 7th...

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posted February 06, 2012 12:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ariesdragon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by appleberry:
But isn't Eris extremely slow? I don't think it has ever been out of my 7th...

lol good question...Eris is always in Aries. I think she stays there or like u said, it's extremely slow.

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posted February 06, 2012 01:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for mir     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think that the progressed Moon (very close appl. to progr. Mars) is the direct trigger here that gave you the power, courage and braveness to take that step finally.

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posted February 06, 2012 02:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for amelia28     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by mir:
I think that the progressed Moon (very close appl. to progr. Mars) is the direct trigger here that gave you the power, courage and braveness to take that step finally.


Good point she does have progressed moon/mars/saturn stellium at 0 degrees in cancer.

Cancer in 0 degrees is very significant....and this stellium trines her Juno at 0 degrees pisces.

0 degrees in cardinal are fresh starts and new beginnings.

Perhaps saturn and mars gave your moon the strength to carry forth this new beginning.

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posted February 06, 2012 08:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for appleberry     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Wow... you are probably right about that. I wasn't thinking about the Critical Degrees in Cardinal... thanks for pointing that out.

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posted February 12, 2012 12:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SaggiMC     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Progressed charts are not meant to be read as *stand alones* they should be read on the outside of natal chart..

progressed planets/charts are more 'internal' changes, evolvements rather than 'events or external' matters. I don't read prog charts as stand alones it's more important to see where these planets are moving in the natal chart

Your natal chart is like a photograph as unique as your fingerprint, BUT the 10planets in the sky have not stayed where they were in your natal chart, they have all moved. Predictive astrology is mostly maths where those 10planets are now and the mathematical aspects they make to your natal charts ie: 180'=opposition, 90'=square, 60'=sextile and 120'=trine.

So your personality, grows, develops, changes, matures as we get older, this is reflected by your sun sign changing from it's natal position to the next sign along, so does your Asc and MC sign change. In fact from sun to mars especially are important, as the outer planets really don't move much, using a 'day for a year' secondary progressions.

What's the difference between Transits and Progressions?
“Transits are the planets currently orbiting in the sky and the relationships they form to each other and additionally, to your chart. Transits happen for everyone. They're important and effect you personally when they contact a planet or point in your chart. Transits represent outside energy, things happening outside yourself. They describe external events and your responses to them. Progressions, however, move very slowly and are a natural progression of your original birth chart. The events and emotions they describe are part of you, deeply ingrained in your psyche, internal, and psychological. And as they form aspects, these inner feelings start to become more important and central to your life” http://www.artcharts.com/learn_astrology/progressed.html

If you want to research more into Secondary progressions try here http://cafeastrology.com/secondaryprogressions.html http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Astrological_progression http://www.aquamoonlight.co.uk/progressions.html http://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum/forumdisplay.php?f=67 http://www.khaldea.com/rudhyar/astroarticles/progressionsinastrology.php http://astrolmass.com/progressions.htm http://www.astro.com/astrology/in_transits_e.htm http://skywriter.wordpress.com/2011/01/27/the-progressed-moon-through-the-12-houses/

solar arcs & secondary progressions http://www.kepler.edu/videos/0902SolarArc/Stathis_SolarArc_Feb09.pdf

“2) The aspects formed by the progressed MC, ASC, Sun, and the planets (other than the Moon). These will indicate major trends for a year or more surrounding the date on which they become exact.” http://www.astrologymatch.com/progressed-chart.htm

The most important of progressed planets is of course, sun & moon and then upto mars, as the outer planets hardly move by progression. Now like with transits, solar arcs --- it's what these progressed planets are doing NOW by mathematical aspect to your natal planets and Angles that is ultimately important.

Basic astrology forum, Learn Transits http://www.linda-goodman.com/cgi-bin/ubb/forumdisplay.cgi?action=topics&forum=Basic+Astrology&number=12&DaysPrune=

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posted February 12, 2012 06:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for littlecloud     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hehe

Uranus going into the 6th house, change in every day living

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appleberry
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posted February 13, 2012 12:29 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for appleberry     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks everyone... So many different things popping out but they all make sense

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