posted February 08, 2012 05:51 PM            

What's the composite chart look like? If you have sun or venus in aspect to pluto in the composite you're pretty much set it's also great when in the composite sun is conjunct venus or jupiter and when there is at least one neptune trine or sextile to either the sun, moon, or venus in either synastry or composite.

posted February 09, 2012 12:40 PM            

Basic astrology forum, How to approach Synastry http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum12/private-jjLYZw161/HTML/000667.html
when you get this chart, please also post the *pdf file*, above left should be *view additional tables (PDF)* This will bring up the aspect grid –at a glance planet to planet. Post the whole PDF file, what we are looking for if scroll down to ‘partner comparison’ aspect grid

Please remember to reduce the orb ratio down to 40% as the max orb between planets is 3'

You can get a free composite reading from the link I have given, but these charts only work when IN a relationships... not sure if you knew this

posted February 10, 2012 03:48 AM            

So my first response is that he is someone who likes to take his own initiative when he is interested in sth/someone. In addition, he prefers freedom/growth and spontaneity in his romantic relationships. Thus with the Aries/Sag combo, I think he is likely to be on and off ardent and detached. He pursues like crazy when he feels like it, then just hops off when he is feeling like other adventures and new things (not necessary other relationships). These positions probably mean he will be like that even for someone he loves. No clingy stuff for him. For this type of guy, the partner needs to be able to take such kind of relationship. Probably works well if the partner also has her own interests/career to pursue, and able to take time apart as norm (and actually enjoy that time apart). You will have to ask yourself if that is the kind of relationship you will be comfortable with. Because what you are experiencing right now might not be because it is with you, but because of that is who he is.

Furthermore, your Sun and Mer are in Libra, so normally, that should be quite balanced and non-pushy (which I can see from above that is how you perceive yourself too). However, perceptions are often subjective to the person involved. His Mars/Venus being opp your Sun and Mer might make him feel certain competitiveness/pushiness.

So I think if you really are interested in having something deeper and more long term with him, I think you will just have to wait for him to take the initiative. Ie. dont sharing the chasing, let him do all the chasing

In the mean time, have an enjoyable life outside the relationship on your own. A person with strong Jupiter like this guy would be more interested in someone who can bring him new perspectives, new knowledge and experience outside his own than someone who he feels is within the same circle and living in a little world of 2 people only

posted February 10, 2012 03:56 AM            

Your moon in Aries trine Uranus, so emotionally, you can take some passion-detachment/independence too.

It is your Mars/Venus in Virgo 8H which might make you prefer a more down-to-earth and deeper love attachment.

posted February 10, 2012 01:50 PM            

Pisces, ahhh dreamy Pisces. All the world and its wife takes their problems to Pisces looking for a bit of tea and sympathy. Usually very caring, empathetic signs, but very restless and indecisive like Gemini and Libra. Mutable sign, so can be bit duplicitous. Sometimes feel misunderstood or wear rose tinted glasses, tend to be bit dreamy and over emotional on occasions. Find lots of Pisces again in nursing, care homes and dealing with less fortunate of this world. Leo wont understand why water types play on people feelings or read his mind. Pisces may resent all that bossiness and being so structured and organised – what happened with go with the flow? What about being creative, musical, artistic?

Libra is cardinal and air sign. ALL air signs want to talk and Librans can be very charming diplomatic people but extremely indecisive. Doesn’t want to have to deal with anything ugly or unpleasant or argumentative around them even though quite capable of starting an argument themselves.

the thing with quincunx are lack of understanding each other, bit like oil and water, chalk and cheese.

Lust conj Pluto shows this to be a sexual transformative experience. doesn't mean soul mates or happy ever after though..

what would be really helpful is you posting
when you get this chart, please also post the *pdf file*, above left should be *view additional tables (PDF)* This will bring up the aspect grid –at a glance planet to planet. Post the whole PDF file, what we are looking for if scroll down to ‘partner comparison’ aspect grid

posted February 10, 2012 01:54 PM            

so chart ruler mars is conj venus in 3rd houise of communications.

So, do you enjoy talking about religious, philosophical, higher educations??

There is a nice *kite* configuration going on here

Have you tried a free composite chart with explanations being 'interactive'
Composite charts
If you go to www.astro.com click on free horoscopes, go to Interactive horoscopes, go down to Astroclick partner, that will bring up a composite chart and when you put the mouse over a planet will bring up a pop up box with the interpretation......

But you do need both times of birth to be accurate though.. enjoy.

Composites describe the relationship, not either one of you, but what you came together to learn or to do and how the 'pair of you' function when together....

you 'should' reduce the orbs ratio on astro.com down to 40% as max orb in synastry and comp is 3'. Also please add transits which is easily seen once you have the chart just above to right is option 'with transits'
http://books.google.com/books?id=dUulSwQoEC4C&pg=PR16&dq=robert+hand+composites&ei=r8HRSsXNEJvmygSIsP3eCQ#v=onepage&q=&f=false

The Book ---Planets in Composite: Analyzing Human Relationships By Robert Hand-- is greatly recommended

“The composite doesn't seem to describe what either person feels about the other. In this way it is very different from synastry, which describes the chemistry between two people in terms of how they affect each other. The composite chart is like a child, a third entity which carries the genetic imprints of both parents but combines these imprints in an entirely new way and exists independently of either of them” http://www.astro.com/astrology/in_composit_e.htm

“Composites have their own laws and energies, and these have nothing to do with whether we are "well matched" with someone. A composite in itself will not tell us about compatibility. That is what synastry is for. The composite won't reveal whether the relationship is "good" or "bad" in terms of the chemistry between two people. The composite says to us, "If you choose to enter this relationship, here is its meaning and pattern of destiny” http://www.astro.com/astrology/in_composit_e.htm
http://www.astrology-numerology.com/composite.html http://www.aquamoonlight.co.uk/composite.html

“For example, the composite Ascendant can indicate the circumstances surrounding the first meeting or the beginning of the relationship. It can also point to how a couple initiates things together (such as projects). Similarly, the end of a relationship can be depicted by the composite twelfth house. Once a relationship kicks in (moves beyond the initial stages), the composite Sun becomes more apparent. If a commitment to each other happens, the seventh and eighth houses come more clearly into focus. As such, the conditions surrounding the planets and houses in the composite chart can show us different stages of development of the relationship over time.” http://www.cafeastrology.com/compositechart.html
click on link to read full article
http://www.astrology-numerology.com/composite.html http://www.aquamoonlight.co.uk/composite.html

“Composite charts that has ascendant and midheaven agree in element will most closely describe the type of the relationship your partnership has formed. For instance a relationship that has Taurus on the Ascendant and Capricorn on the Midheaven will closely describe a “traditional” relationship. Those charts that do not agree will keep the element of the ascendant as the primary relationship style while incorporating the element of the Midheaven into the relationship. An analysis of the individual’s chart against the composite chart will show how his or her chart meshes with the composite chart and the style of the relationship” http://starrynightastrology.com/2009/08/02/relationship-astrology-making-love-last-part-1-your-relationship-style/