posted February 13, 2012 02:48 AM            

So i need to know what all these placements might indicate in my synastry with this one guy. I added eros and psyche and nessus and vertex. I dont know what other asteroids would be helpful. Is there any like karmic or soul mate stuff? Fated to know each other? I'd also like to know why the pisces would be so attracted to me.

• Also our sun/moon midpoints: mine is sag 22'22 and his is sag 20'20
  
• We also have a yod thingy. Im not sure what that means though.
  
• I'm the capricorn he's the pisces.
  

I used to be delusionally in unrequited love with this one guy way back in 8th grade. He was all wrong for me for lots of reasons (a gemini sheesh) but mainly cos he turned out to be gay. I didnt find out for sure that he was till couple years ago in 2010 and i was totally over him. I laugh at how crazy i was for him. We go to the same school now, me and this gay guy, but i found out he was gay because he had a boyfriend. Later on in the fall of 2010 i saw his, ex boyfriend (the pisces)by then, and i kept running into him and id say tell gemini that i said hey. Finally pisces finds me on FB and we starting talking and he turns out to like girls too and that was the problem gemini had with him.... so he's supposedly bi. So we talked alll over break in winter 2010 and have talked on FB ever since. And he's really into me and i dont understand why! We don't hang out or anything just chit chat. Im his dream girl i guess. I think he's the delusional one now. I'm not into him but at the same time it feels so nice because he really listens to me and we had weird similar experiences and problems as kids. I see myself in him sometimes and i HATE that. I wanna get away from the side i see in him thats like the weird me. I wanna be normal and socialise and i dunno not live some boring blah life anymore. I feel like he drags me down or would if I let myself be with him. He said he loved me but how can yu love someone yu dont hang out with and only chat on the web with? It may sound stupid but, I can't explain how we have some weird connection even if its mostly from internet contact (we hung out a couple times at school thats it. Every time we saw each other I was so uneasy and nervous like i couldnt even look at him. He's the one with social problems yet he said I made him feel at ease. I felt so uncomfortable near him like i wanted to run). I want to block him from FB and get rid of him but I just CAN'T. He can annoy me so much sometimes too but i get over it. And i lose the anger to delete him. Maybe its like im too weak to just get rid of him. Anyway thats the summarised story of us.

Here's our charts:

posted February 13, 2012 07:29 AM            

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I became insane, with long
intervals of horrible
sanity.-Poe

posted February 14, 2012 09:09 AM            

Please remember to reduce the orb ratio down to 40% as the max orb between planets is 3'

well done for posting the aspect grid. Off this you can SEE orb under 3' and most noticebly sun trine moon is going both ways, which is very nice, these are prob the best.

the worst is venus square uranus which suggests someone will need lots of freedom and independence. it can suggest much excitement (initally) but over a period of time this could be very waring...

venus square neptune could be very spiritual, romantic, over idealised but also unpractical, non grounded, worst scenario deception of delusions.

mercury conj uranus creates lots of excitemen with communications but could cause bit mental stress and worst case arguements..

I also notice the absent of Juno on your chart. Pls consider adding, in the meantime here are some research links...

Juno and asteriods http://www.terrynazon.com/Asteroids.html http://www.bobmarksastrologer.com/Juno21.3.html http://www.astrologycom.com/aster.html http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Asteroids_in_astrology http://astrologyexpressed.wordpress.com/2009/06/08/juno-in-synastry/ http://www.astrologymatch.com/asteroids.htm http://www.aquamoonlight.co.uk/juno.html

posted February 14, 2012 09:22 AM            

so mars in gemini and moon in scorpio.

Gemini is air and mutable sign. All air signs want to talk and Gemini is real chatterbox, tends to know a little about a lot but not in great depth. Gemini like Libra can really procrastinate and be indecisive and are usually attracted to strong partners who want to make the decisions for the relationship, like Leo or Scorpio. Likes variety, witty and quick and clever with their minds and tongues, but unreliable and very restless.

ALL mutuable signs, Gemini, Sagittarius, Pisces and Virgo are restless and I have found the reason. They are all somehow looking for the divine answers to the meaning of life and somehow just think its always around the next corner or out of reach. Some are perpetual students thinking that if they have enough information, they will have all the answers that everyone else wants to know about.

Scorpio, there is nothing restless here but grimly determined and wanting the control and power in any relationship and wont understand their restlessness and need for variety and stimulus and why they don’t like or want to make any decisions. Gemini wont understand for Scorpio need to control everything and possible use sex and method of controlling. You find an awful lot of Gemini in service industry, shops, stores where they don’t have to deal with anyone on a deep and meaningful level (scorpio always wants deep and meaningful but wont get it with Gemini) just superficial. Gemini will probably find the digging and delving rather draining.

So mars in gemini is about taking action, usually has lot of fingers/interests in lots of pies. Air needs communications.

Moon in scorpio is water and emotional, wants control, deep and meaningful. And geminni hates deep and meaningful. So here can you identify with what I'm trying to get at??? scorpio wants to feel and talks about emtions, may even expect a partner to read their minds/emotions and may become bit moody if this doesn't happen??

I'll go bit deeper if you can identify with this?

posted February 14, 2012 02:38 PM            

the worst is venus square uranus which suggests someone will need lots of freedom and independence. it can suggest much excitement (initally) but over a period of time this could be very waring...

venus square neptune could be very spiritual, romantic, over idealised but also unpractical, non grounded, worst scenario deception of delusions.

mercury conj uranus creates lots of excitemen with communications but could cause bit mental stress and worst case arguements..

^i think a lot of this is true.