posted March 05, 2012 05:05 AM            

I focused on the future of your relationship:

Past: King of Cups

Lots of emotional involvement and that also intense. There has been compassion, affection and lots of emotions in this relationship.

Present: Eight of Cups : separation

There is something missing in the relationship. Its not perfect and you want to make it perfect. You want to search for the missing element. Basically there is distance coming in between you two.

Future: Moon
Illusion. Things are different under the light of moon, we see that moon takes its light from the sun, therefore, the borrowed light does not make it beautiful, its just our illusion that its beautiful. In future, there might be something or some aspects of the relationship coming up that might frustrate you, disorientate you or take you completely off-guard. Just remember the fact that not everything we see is true or real.

Answer: Three of Wands
A new path a new Quest. You have to think it through. Is this relationship the way you want it to be? Are you able to make it the way you want it? Is it worth it. You need to step back and look at the bigger picture. 10yrs down the lane, what is happening with this relationship? What do you see is your long-term future together.

You have lots of Blue (water=emotions) in the spread. There is Water and Cups in every card. You are being overly-emotional and that is whats causing all the problems in you knowing the answers to your questions
The missing suits are Swords which bring mental and logical clarity and the Suit of Pentacles, which are about practical matters. You need to have a clear head, think wisely, using your head, not only your heart. Think about the practical aspects of life. Do you see a home, kids , a joint bank account with him? Is this relationship capable of handling long-term aspects of a relationship?

Step back and act wise.

Here are the pictures for your spread. Take a look and tell me what you see or what the cards mean to you.
http://tarotscrapbuk.blogspot.com/2012/03/pictures.html

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Pity from an Aries is worse than their contempt \m/

posted March 05, 2012 09:32 AM            

You are right I am very emotionally attached to this man and him to me.

Something missing, yes. We just do not know what. I keep asking if this relationship is for real or is it too good to be true. I think in that aspect the questioning is pushing us apart.

He's not perfect, but by moon:illusion does that mean that I have been lied to or something that will happen soon? Lately eveything has been catching me off guard with him. Maybe cause I'm looking at all of the things that could go wrong.

I've been thinking and trying to figure out us for the past month. I don't know if I'm able to make the relationship what I want cause we have to do that together. Worthy, maybe. I'm a little uncertian at the moment.

I can see it being long term. We are such opposites that it will take work from the both of us. He's a good person, but we all do dumb things.

I am always following my head first and not my heart. My heart comes second, cause I've been hurt in the past.

When I think about it all, I'm afraid of my past repeating itself.