posted March 14, 2012 08:09 PM            

Thank you so much for your earlier response to my other post (http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum24/HTML/212506.html). As you have suggested I have in that previous post, I have reduced the orb to 40%, and I am now posting my charts afresh, in this area.

I would really appreciate any help that you provide, as I still have not made up my mind on this guy. Desire is to take a further step, but I want to be cautious at the same time. I haven't had luck with relationships so far. Hoping at least this will work out.

Here are the charts:

Our Synastry Charts: (Mine inside)

Our Syanstry Aspects

Our Composite Chart

posted March 15, 2012 01:57 PM            

apologies for delay in responding, unfortunately this forum doesn't send email alerts when you make posts, only to you IF you start one. This means that I have to go back manually to find threads where I made a post/comment....
http://cafeastrology.com/synastry/interchartaspects.html

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Sun square Uranus in synastry:

There is nothing predictable--or stable--about your interactions. Your relationship likely began in a sudden or surprising manner, but it might also end just as suddenly. You have come together to explore new and perhaps unconventional ways of relating--not for a predictable, stable, and traditional partnership. Uranus is a bringer of change into the Sun person's life, and challenges the Sun person to accept his/her desire for freedom and individuality. The Sun person may find the Uranus person extremely attractive and exciting, but might eventually grow tired of the seemingly constant upsets, rebellious moments, and impersonal attitude. In some cases, the circumstances surrounding the partnership are such that you are separated at key moments (long-distance and other non-traditional relationships), which can undermine the relationship over time. http://cafeastrology.com/synastry/sun_uranus_aspects.html

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Venus in hard aspect (square, opposition, semi-square, or sesquiquadrate) to other person's Saturn

Although this relationship may begin with a strong feeling of comfort and compatibility, over time, some very challenging dynamics are likely to surface. The Saturn person, fearing the Venus person's withdrawal of affection, loyalty, or respect, can easily become critical or demanding of the Venus person. In response to Saturn's critical demeanor, Venus may withhold affection. A vicious circle can quickly occur. The Venus person could begin to view the Saturn person as unsympathetic, and the Saturn person could come to view the Venus person as childish and undisciplined. Care should be taken to avoid getting into this negative cycle. It will be important for you to maintain an adequate social life, as the tendency with this interchart aspect is to appease one another's jealous nature by cutting oneself off from hobbies, social activities, and pleasures outside of the relationship. You may be critical of one another's tastes and hobbies, but at the root of this is some form of jealousy over the attention that you give to outside interests. Commitment and loyalty to one another will be vital, but also the source of some friction.
http://cafeastrology.com/synastry/venus_saturn_aspects.html

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only one nodal contact - square mercury
two vertex aspects, one square jupiter, one sextile uranus

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posted March 15, 2012 01:59 PM            

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When Mercury in your chart forms an aspect to another person's Mars

When Mercury in your chart forms an aspect to your partner's Mars, exchanges of ideas are stimulating and vigorous. You are inclined to challenge each other's ideas. Whether this inspires you to think more sharply or degrades into mental sparring and one-upmanship depends on the aspect Mercury and Mars form and how you handle the energy.

The conjunction of Mercury and Mars between charts is a powerful one, as is any conjunction. Some of the traits from both challenging and flowing aspects are experienced, and how it plays out really depends on the individuals involved, the condition of Mercury and Mars in the individual natal charts, as well as other aspects of planets. http://cafeastrology.com/synastry/mercury_mars_aspects.html

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posted March 20, 2012 10:40 AM            

Thank you so much for your response. I made the same mistake of thinking that I would get an email notification. Only now I realized that you had already responded to my request. It is too late here (1.40 AM), so I'll extend my response, in more detail, tomorrow of my time.

posted March 22, 2012 06:20 PM            

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Originally posted by lindaGreg:
OMG, Saggi!

Thank you so much for your response. I made the same mistake of thinking that I would get an email notification. Only now I realized that you had already responded to my request. It is too late here (1.40 AM), so I'll extend my response, in more detail, tomorrow of my time.

Thanks again :-)

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I know it's frustrating, every other forum I've been on sends emails notifications. Here I have to go back manually and look for threads....