posted March 19, 2012 02:36 PM            

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good easy flowing aspects
Node conj MC
mercury conj Asc if TOB is correct
moon trine saturn
moon trine pluto & venus
moon sextile neptune
mercury trine venus
venus trine saturn
mars trine saturn
jupiter opp jupiter
jupiter conj pluto

challenges
Saturn square mercury
uranus square mercury
venus square neptune
venus opp neptune
mars square MC
moon square MC

how long have you been together. Pls give some background info.

posted March 19, 2012 02:38 PM            

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Juno in aspect to Uranus

(Demetra George and Douglas Bloch)
The relatedness principle combines with individuality and intuition. This combination shows the potential to revolutionise tradtional relationship role models by universalising the relating urge to include any and all types of relationships.

Harmonious aspects can symbolize the ability to bring new cisions and formulations to relationship roles and functions. These partners have the capacity to create changes and excitement, and tncourage individual feedom in their interactions. Their relationships may be seen as innovative, unusual, or radical.

Stressful aspects point to potential conflicts between one's need for personal freedom and the demands of the relationship. Fears of confinement and restriction can lead to erratic and unreliable commitments that produce frequent separations. These individuals may experience discomfort in participating in 'traditional' role expectations, and thus have a difficult time confoming to social norms of how a relationship should be.

Juno-Uranus individuals may be attracted to unconventional, original, or rebellious types. If the projection is overdone, the partner may be erratic, irresponsible, or just plain weird.

The resolution of these challenges lies in integrating one's individuality and independence into a committed partnership. This can occur when each partner acknowledges and supports the other's need for freedom while maintaining a loving bond.

(Martha Lang-Westcott)
Harmonious and inharmonious aspects: Sudden leave-taking, ruptures and disruptions in a marriage; unexpected outbursts and changes; to act indifferent to the fate fo the marriage; experiments with 'open' marriage or breaking of marriage rules / roles; unusual marriage; relationship must allow for much individual freedom... along with the freedom to have outside friends and interests.

Juno in aspect to Saturn

(Demetra George and Douglas Bloch)
The relatedness principle combines with the urge to create form and structure. This combination can signify a solid, grounded, and realistic approach toward relationships.

Harmonious aspects represent the capacity for loyalty, longevity, and commitment in one's relationships. These individuals can work to build structures of lasting value for themselves and others. They also have the ability to work with others in business partnerships and other financial concerns.

Stressful aspects denote that one's limiting belief systems, personal insecurities, or fears of commitment may become obstacles to forming meaningful relationships. These individuals may remain with a partner out of social pressure, a sense of duty, or the desire for material security. This in turn can lead to feelings of oppression, frustration, and dependency. In some instances, fears of closeness and intimacy may block the formation of lasting unions.

Juno-Saturn individuals can be attracted to serious, older, responsible, parental types who can provide safety and security; or, they may also attract people who expect them to fill this role. If this projection is overdone, the partner may be authoritarian, or colr, or may function exclusively as a parent or child.

The resolution of these challenges lies in building realistic steps to create a secure relationships which supports each partner's development. It may be necessary to transform one's limiting belief systems about partnerships in order to release past fears and insecurities.

(Martha Lang-Westcott)
The conjunction: To feel that the partner's career, ambitions or responsibilities place limitations, delays or sceudles on the relationship; incidents of irresponsibility in partnership; to have the relationship be more of a work partnership; to have increased fears of abandonment or infidelity; to be dependent on the partner for stability and structure; to be overly strategic, fearful, cautious or cold in dealing wiht others.

Inharmonious aspects: To view the partner as a responsibility; to have trouble being spontaneous with the partner; to feel hampered or restrcted by a relationship; to have difficulty adjusting to the responsibilities and roles of a marriage. http://astrotribe.tribe.net/thread/ca4a7493-dab1-4d06-98b0-7e94873d7a01

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more info on Juno in my thread in basic forum http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum12/private-jjLYZw161/HTML/000708.html

posted March 19, 2012 02:42 PM            

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When Mercury in your chart forms an aspect to your partner's Saturn, form, logic, and reality are important elements in your communications. This is not a combination that encourages flowing or superfluous conversations between you. Validity of what you communicate, concentration on syntax, and realism are emphasized.

When your Mercury forms a challenging aspect (square, opposition, or quincunx) to your partner's Saturn, there may be strong elements of teaching and learning in your relationship, as well as deep respect for each other's intelligence. However, over time, there can be a subtle competitiveness between you on a mental level that can actually be quite destructive if not attended to. The Mercury person can feel intimidated by the Saturn person's practicality. Mercury might feel childish or not "bright enough". Saturn could be silent often. There can be a serious tone to your conversations that impedes a natural flow of communication. Negativity or criticism may dominate your communications from time to time. Try to avoid focusing on problems or negative stories/expressions of ideas. Mercury may feel belittled or perhaps immature/illogical in Saturn's presence, feeling as if Saturn is watching him/her too closely or is overly critical and fault-finding. http://www.cafeastrology.com/synastry/mercury_saturn_aspects.html

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When Mercury in your chart forms an aspect to your partner's Uranus, highly energetic communications figure strongly in your relationship. Whether this leads to open-minded and growth-oriented communications or stressful interactions depends on the aspect that joins Mercury and Uranus, as well as the individuals involved.

When your Mercury forms a challenging aspect (square, opposition, or quincunx) to your partner's Uranus, your partner is stimulating and intriguing but can also often throw you off course with his/her surprises. Your Uranus partner might find that your opinions are too superficial or traditional, while you might find his/her opinions too off the wall. You can be very impatient with one another. You might find it hard to truly depend on your Uranus partner. Appointments/dates may be cancelled without warning, for example. Communication between you could often be stressful. http://www.cafeastrology.com/synastry/mercury_uranus_aspects.html

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posted March 19, 2012 02:46 PM            

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The square, quincunx, and opposition aspects of Venus and Neptune in synastry generally emphasize the vacillating and withdrawing theme of Venus-Neptune described above. Venus needs to be aware that if he or she falls in love with a romantic ideal instead of his or her real partner, Neptune will most likely retreat. Venus may go through periods of excessive trusting of the partner and swing to excessive fear that the partner cannot be trusted. The emotional rollercoaster can be unbearable if Venus rides on it for too long. Neptune must be extra careful not to promise more than he or she can deliver, in an attempt to make Venus feel better, remembering that "errors of omission" count as misleading. Neptune might have a hard time dealing with Venus directly, especially because it doesn't seem that Venus will listen to reason or even wants to see reality. http://www.cafeastrology.com/synastry/venus_neptune_aspects.html

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posted March 21, 2012 06:34 PM            

apologies for delay in responding, unfortunately this forum doesn't send email alerts when you make posts, only to you IF you start one. This means that I have to go back manually to find threads where I made a post/comment....

every synastry I've seen has a mixture of easy and challenging aspects. there is no perfect synastry..

You could have the best synastry in the world, but unless you have good communications, are honest with each other about your needs, wishes and desires and 'both' of you want the same things...........then nothing will happen. It cannot make anyone change, or love you more. Some challenging squares, oppositions in synastry can be healthy, and may require one or both of you to grow in some way. Astrological natal charts cannot explain environmental factors, financial handicaps/ restraints and what position you hold in society, neither can it tell you if you are of ‘Royalty’ or beggar.

I am of the belief that people come in and out of our lives for a reason, either we have to teach them something or we have to learn something from them. There is Always an exchange, good or bad.