posted March 22, 2012 04:54 PM              

There is more information here delineating Pluto, if not interested in research or learning astrology, please feel free to ignore and move on. I’m only here to help ---

posted March 22, 2012 04:59 PM              

moon square mars, do you have a very bossy mother.

Moon Quincunx Mars
“Learning to be emotionally consistent is harder for you than for most people because your feelings and desires cover such a wide range of possible expression. Your manner of self expression can inadvertently add weight and encouragement to components of your personality that you actually wish to minimize or even transform. It takes much experimentation with relationships in order to have emotions that serve your higher needs rather than just running amuck on their own mission of blind, disconnected expression. Either artistic or idealistic goals are necessary to achieve satisfaction” http://www.cafeastrology.com/natal/quincunxinterpretations.html

“shows that you lack self control in expressing your feelings. You tend to misjudge people and to form binding alliances with individuals who take advantage of your indulgence. Even when others abuse and misuse you, you never raise a hand to defend yourself. You feel powerless to oppose the oppressive demands that people make of your talents, and when they exploit you, you are bitter and disappointed. Your greatest problem is to resolve the conflict between your desire to be useful to people and their expectations that you will make up for their deficiencies.”

From the book ‘Aspects and Personality’ by Karen Hamaker-Zondag

Sun Quincunx Saturn
“shows you are somewhat careless about your health and you tend to take abuse from others. You seem determined to allow others to take advantage of your inability to say NO when they ask favours. Perhaps in your early years you did more household tasks than other members of your family, because you felt it was your duty. You have a subtle fear of others and the power they seem to have over you. Psychologically, this may be referred to as latent ¬masochism, which means you are seeking ways to be punished for what you consider to be past mistakes”
From the book ‘Aspects and Personality’ by Karen Hamaker-Zondag

“Sun Quincunx Saturn
It is easy for you to take on responsibilities that aren't yours while ignoring ones that are. Because you work hard and aren't always recognized or compensated for it, you often "run out of steam" before your work is done. Your life works best when you learn to take care of your most important responsibilities first” http://www.cafeastrology.com/natal/quincunxinterpretations.html

Sometimes these quincunxs (aka Inconjuncts 150’) are obvious and recognised in personality, other times it can take a lot of self examination to identify with the planets energies and of course they (like all aspects) don't operate 100% of the time, they are simply a facet of your personality. Some say they cause health issues that are unresolved, underlying, dormant waiting to be triggered.... some say you stay at one end, to the detriment of the other, OR end up see-sawing between the two until you learn balance, integration of two unlikely pairings.

Next look at the signs, then houses and then aspects. Now the *others aspects* from these quincunxs/Yods as they can act like escape routes, that can help or hinder the expressions. A chart with lots of Yods (Finger of God) will always be *searching* for the divine answers to the meaning of life, to find synthesis
What tends to happen with quincunxs is that with progessions and transits will create temporary Yods aka 'Finger of god' configurations. Like with common TSquares, they create a temp Grand Square...

posted March 22, 2012 05:03 PM            

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Originally posted by SaggiMC:
have you researched your pluto singleeton?

There is more information here delineating Pluto, if not interested in research or learning astrology, please feel free to ignore and move on. I’m only here to help ---

Basic astrology forum discussing Pluto in houses http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum12/private-jjLYZw161/HTML/000663.html
To enter this forum you need an extra password – astrology….

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posted March 30, 2012 07:03 AM            

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posted March 30, 2012 07:09 AM            

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posted March 30, 2012 11:57 AM            

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Thanks Ems

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posted March 30, 2012 12:10 PM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
You have a strong presence and you need to make use of that.Pluto in the 1st has an authority about him. I think your deepest emotions and your drive can come together into a super part of you but you must work to make them function together and not be separate. Do you struggle with having a lot of casual sex but wish you could be intimate--emotionally and sexually with one person?

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Love is my biggest wish.
I don't really mind the sex but I do wish I had someone next to me all the time. There's just this thing though, I tend to push people away when they start getting close to me. It's odd, I think I'm just terrified of people getting to know me at my deepest. It's a shame. It's happened a lot, they usually just get the hint and take off even if I was really being unintentional. I do it unconsciously.

posted March 30, 2012 01:47 PM            

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Love is my biggest wish.
I don't really mind the sex but I do wish I had someone next to me all the time. There's just this thing though, I tend to push people away when they start getting close to me. It's odd, I think I'm just terrified of people getting to know me at my deepest. It's a shame. It's happened a lot, they usually just get the hint and take off even if I was really being unintentional. I do it unconsciously.

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I TOTALLY TOTALLY get that, Ems. I feel the same way, too.

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posted March 30, 2012 02:10 PM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
I TOTALLY TOTALLY get that, Ems. I feel the same way, too.

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What do you think is the cause of this? A placement, aspect? Or something that has nothing to do with astrology?

posted March 30, 2012 04:03 PM            

The former says that it may be hard for you to show your love/affection for someone openly, and you may be very idealistic when it comes to romance, and this can often lead to disillusions and deceptions. You also fear being trapped and losing your independence, and while you may not recognise this in yourself, it's still a part of you - the need for independence - so that may be why you "unconsciously" push people away.

Moon in Capricorn is a very reserved, cautious placement and you really don't want to get hurt by others so you can appear cold or distant, but this is probably just a facade. Your Sun and Mercury being in Virgo don't really help in making you more open, *especially* since you have a fire void and a Scorpio ASC.

Mars in the 8th probably gives you intensity and secretiveness, and perhaps some "issues" surrounding your sexuality; or just obsessive tendencies.

With Venus in Libra you pretty much crave closeness and someone you can call your lover and friend, and with Saturn trining it, you can be pretty good at it, you'd probably make a stable, faithful, devoted partner.

All you need to do is loosen up, open up yourself more to the world and people, let go of your fears and try your best to be more assertive and undertake things on your own.
This actually may come easily to you since you have Sun, Mercury and Jupiter in the 11th, you are probably pleasant to be around in social settings and people like you, because you can be quite agreeable.

I think you need to work on that 12th house Venus, especially since it's your DSC ruler and it squares Neptune (and Uranus), which makes it an overidealized placement. Look carefully at the people you tend to be attracted to, and try your best to see them for who they really are; but at the same time, don't guard yourself so much that people find it hard to approach you and trust you. It's all about finding balance (Libra needs that).

Does that help at all?
Hopefully this wasn't too off.

posted March 30, 2012 08:57 PM            

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What do you think is the cause of this? A placement, aspect? Or something that has nothing to do with astrology?

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I think it is shame which is that we are "bad". It is this awful feeling of bad,bad, bad. Do you have it too?

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posted March 30, 2012 09:47 PM            

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Does that help at all?
Hopefully this wasn't too off.

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posted March 30, 2012 09:53 PM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
I am not saying Doux is not right but astrology aside, I have been dealing with the same thing Ems and struggling.

I think it is shame which is that we are "bad". It is this awful feeling of bad,bad, bad. Do you have it too?

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posted March 31, 2012 01:47 PM            

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posted March 31, 2012 01:54 PM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Aww I am here but my emotions are tired from my website so my tuner is not working at the moment. How about I ask you to give me some insights. Would you be willing and we could exchange charts

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posted March 31, 2012 02:35 PM            

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posted April 01, 2012 12:36 AM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Can you do basic beginner things or not even? lol If not, it is kewl and I am happy to do yours but my mind is tired now so I will come back when it is rested, SWeetie

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I can sure as hell try! ^_^

posted April 01, 2012 02:29 AM            

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