posted March 23, 2012 08:21 AM            

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Pity from an Aries is worse than their contempt \m/

posted March 23, 2012 09:04 AM              

on the more negative side, they play their cards close to their chests, extremely analytical, sulky, moody, plays mind games, vendictive....

Thing is you are NOT the sum total of your sun sign. remember planets are modified by signs, where they express are houses and how they express are *aspects*

There are 10planets in a natal chart and they can be in any one of 12houses,so that's 144 combinations for each planets.

the triology, sun, moon and Asc tells you the most important things in a natal chart..

posted March 23, 2012 09:35 AM            

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Originally posted by Junethird:
Any tips on Whats the key/secret to a scorpio man?

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Scorpio men want to possess their beloved completely, therefore to possess him, you must surrender completely and yet keep a part of yourself away. This will drive him insane.

He will think, "Why is there no resistance from this creature? Why do I claim her body so wholly, and yet I feel there is a part of her I have not conquered yet?"

Since Scorpios always feel things in an extreme way, this can draw him to you like a magnet.

Once he is interested (an understatement), make him feel a little more alive...by being nice to other men. Not sexual, not flirty, only nice and agreeable. It is important that this step does not seem too contrived, or else he WILL know. In order for it to not look contrived, you must look a little naive or stupid.

When he is yours (which means, he thinks you are his), give into his whims -- his demandingness is his way to test your devotion to him. However, when he is asking for too much, pretend to act a bit hurt and be a little bit distant -- he knows he is asking too much, and is again just trying to test you if you are faking.

Look innocent. He is naturally suspicious. Once he is convinced that you are not capable of manipulating him, you have already won the war.

posted March 23, 2012 12:45 PM            

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Originally posted by Junethird:
Thank you for your suggestions.

@charlotte_E what are some other signs that a scorpio trusts you/is falling in love? Some extra examples pls

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Good question, I like the way that you separate the events of a Scorpio falling in love, and same person beginning to trust you.

Most of the time, they do not happen at the same time. The falling in love process may come ahead, a lot of the time way ahead of the trusting process.

Scorpio falling in love:
He becomes possessive on a negative note, and protective on a positive note. When you are doing something wrong and he sees it, he tries his best to convince you to do it his way. He can be quite controlling, so if you're not into that, be warned.

If he starts calling you every now and then or messaging you, just to check up on what you're doing, no matter how friendly it seems, he is getting interested. In other words, if he is mostly always around and checking up on your status, he is interested. Even if it seems as if it's coincidence to see him all the time, do not be fooled -- this man is the master of strategy. He could have called up your friend's friend's friend to have the tiniest inkling of where you could be hanging out on that particular day.

If he starts getting irritable of the men around you, watch out. You will begin to feel his claws subtly, slowly, but surely wander around you. If he is more of the suave player type, he will even make a plot of pretending to be interested in another woman to catch your attention. He is full of plotting and scheming, this man. Sometimes it's hard to tell where the test ends, and the love begins.

He is full of tests -- get used to being tested for all you are worth. Don't be afraid to make a few mistakes every now and then -- the trick is to play it naturally, to stay human. That will lower his suspicions. The only way to break his barriers is to be open and sincere -- the more truly you can do this, the better. All the same it will always take time before he really trusts you.

Sometimes it takes years.

Scorpio trusting you:
He will tell you things that you can use against him -- this is perhaps the ultimate sign. This can be another ploy to attract you, but this one is a nuclear weapon in his standards, so he won't be using it if he's not serious at all.

All others can be faked, like opening up his emotions to you -- a Scorpio has used that on me before as a plot to gain my sympathy. But if he tells you things that you can use against him to blackmail him or ruin him, etc. -- no matter how calmly he tells you, he probably now thinks of you as a soul mate. Guard yourself, guard your boyfriend if you have one (not even a boyfriend can be enough obstacle for a man with a drive like this).

Anyway, I asked one, if it can add more credibility... he said the eyes will give it away.

Source:

I have a number of experiences with Scorpio men:
1. Scorpio Sun, Mars, and Pluto man - fell in love with me while I was in a relationship. He tried everything, used sexual charms to attract me (their sexual attractiveness knows no bounds), but I resisted. He even offered to send me to flying school, which required a substantial amount of money, in exchange for my hand in marriage. Being a pilot has always been my childhood dream, but I refused him all the same. It made him fall even harder. Up to this day he is wooing me. He has obtained a girlfriend that obviously bores him (I believe, as a ploy to attract me), and yet, even so, still woos me.

2. Venus in Scorpio man - I was friends with this Sagittarian then he started falling for me. He would be the stereotypical stalker -- would send me messages every hour or so asking me what I was doing, etc. He would even force decisions on me and things. All this while I was in a relationship, again. In the end I blew up on him and never heard from him again up to this day.

3. My lover (Sun 28 Libra, with Mercury, Mars, and Pluto in Scorpio) - chased me vehemently within a month of meeting me, confessed his love within three months, would not give up. I was young and naive. He made a plot to woo another woman. At first I didn't care, until he started contriving stories of how the girl was using him, milking him for his money, etc. Being Aries, I could not stomach this, and wanted to "save" him from this woman. That was the beginning of my attraction to him. Silly, but I was 16 that time. We have been together up to now.

posted March 23, 2012 02:15 PM            

Yes he loves me, he has told me so.

He tried the " woe me card" my ex asked for money to pay rent, she likes money...etc. This is why i love being a gemini, lol, i simple asked him what was wrong with her wanting a sugar daddy lol, it made him laugh and think at the same time. It wasnt what he wanted... ie: be a sugar daddy lol and he has not mentioned it again.

I am playing it cool. Letting him come to me first... He is a bit slow/stubborn and i am getting a bit restless *shakes fist at my gemini sun and venus in aries*

When i first learned my asc, moon, and juno. I will forever be attracted to a man with a heavy scorpio influence.

Some general astrological background:

Asc scorpio
Sun virgo (almost cusp w/libra)
Moon gemini
Mercury gemini
Venus scorpio
Mars leo
Juno scorpio
Eros taurus
Psyche leo
North node leo

Me:

Asc taurus
Sun gemini (almost cusp w/taurus)
Moon in cancer
Mercury in gemini
Venus aries
Mars libra
Juno capricorn
Eros virgo
Psyche virgo
North node cancer

Mentally we click. Passionately we click. I like how he handles me lol ok man handles lol

He has seen me cry and he has always, i guess from day one wiped my tears with his fingers and held me in his arms... Sigh.

I have taken care of him while he had food posining lol. It made my cancer moon so happy to be able...ok allowed, he had mo choice really, to fuss over him.

In a way we have stood the test of time, we met by chance when i was 23/ on the brink of turning 24 and he was already 24.... Now in 2012 i am 29/ on the brink of turning 30 in may and he is already 30, turning 31 in sept.

Altho, our connection is still as strong as way back when we first met, he is not as mistified by it anymore. Its not so foreign per se, so alien lol he is more open to it now, more like he now understands or maybe feels like the final missing piece of the puzzle. Our connection is familiar and something that cannot be simply replaced or forgotten.

I on the other hand have evolved to be more calmer? Less restless and more sure that he is the one and only... I am still impatient... Darn that venus in aries lol i kinda still want it now lol but i am learning to bring about more taurus and capricorn qualities into my heart and soul.

I guess what iam trying to figure out if he is in love with me or on the brink? I dont know how to tell with him... He is responsible and it is important for him to be a man of his word. We still struggle with trust. Him with me.

Other than being myself... Its hard to crack his trust isuues. I always tell him. I trust you. I choose to trust you and take you at face value. I expect the same. He says he does trust me... I see very little proof of that, but i should know him, he says to me you are in my bed, i let you stay in my house all by yourself... I dont do that. I like to reply... I cant help it lol.. You dont keep much of anything here. There is nothing to take.... Nothing to snoop around lol he then says that its hard for him to open up and let someone in. To trust.

What more can i do?

posted March 23, 2012 03:54 PM            

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Originally posted by Junethird:
Oh wow! Thank you!

Yes he loves me, he has told me so.

He tried the " woe me card" my ex asked for money to pay rent, she likes money...etc. This is why i love being a gemini, lol, i simple asked him what was wrong with her wanting a sugar daddy lol, it made him laugh and think at the same time. It wasnt what he wanted... ie: be a sugar daddy lol and he has not mentioned it again.

I am playing it cool. Letting him come to me first... He is a bit slow/stubborn and i am getting a bit restless *shakes fist at my gemini sun and venus in aries*

When i first learned my asc, moon, and juno. I will forever be attracted to a man with a heavy scorpio influence.

Some general astrological background:

Asc scorpio
Sun virgo (almost cusp w/libra)
Moon gemini
Mercury gemini
Venus scorpio
Mars leo
Juno scorpio
Eros taurus
Psyche leo
North node leo

Me:

Asc taurus
Sun gemini (almost cusp w/taurus)
Moon in cancer
Mercury in gemini
Venus aries
Mars libra
Juno capricorn
Eros virgo
Psyche virgo
North node cancer

Mentally we click. Passionately we click. I like how he handles me lol ok man handles lol

He has seen me cry and he has always, i guess from day one wiped my tears with his fingers and held me in his arms... Sigh.

I have taken care of him while he had food posining lol. It made my cancer moon so happy to be able...ok allowed, he had mo choice really, to fuss over him.

In a way we have stood the test of time, we met by chance when i was 23/ on the brink of turning 24 and he was already 24.... Now in 2012 i am 29/ on the brink of turning 30 in may and he is already 30, turning 31 in sept.

Altho, our connection is still as strong as way back when we first met, he is not as mistified by it anymore. Its not so foreign per se, so alien lol he is more open to it now, more like he now understands or maybe feels like the final missing piece of the puzzle. Our connection is familiar and something that cannot be simply replaced or forgotten.

I on the other hand have evolved to be more calmer? Less restless and more sure that he is the one and only... I am still impatient... Darn that venus in aries lol i kinda still want it now lol but i am learning to bring about more taurus and capricorn qualities into my heart and soul.

I guess what iam trying to figure out if he is in love with me or on the brink? I dont know how to tell with him... He is responsible and it is important for him to be a man of his word. We still struggle with trust. Him with me.

Other than being myself... Its hard to crack his trust isuues. I always tell him. I trust you. I choose to trust you and take you at face value. I expect the same. He says he does trust me... I see very little proof of that, but i should know him, he says to me you are in my bed, i let you stay in my house all by yourself... I dont do that. I like to reply... I cant help it lol.. You dont keep much of anything here. There is nothing to take.... Nothing to snoop around lol he then says that its hard for him to open up and let someone in. To trust.

What more can i do?

I want a baby and marriage with the next 2-3 years.

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Don't forget about Pluto. Pluto can also make or break a person's relationship. More specifically, the nightmare aspect -- Venus square Pluto in a natal chart. No offense to those who have this aspect, but based on my observations, these natives simply CANNOT be happy in love.

They can't help but desire someone they cannot have (i.e., someone married, someone unreachable, etc) and when they obtain that person, if the going goes too smoothly, they get bored and want out. One of my closest friends has this aspect, he is exactly like that.

Venus-Pluto contacts can also mark soul-mate-like relationships.

He has Mars in Leo. That is good -- you have Venus in Aries. I am guessing the sex is great.

Your sun and moon conjunction is also a major plus to your relationship. Based on personal experience, the cliche is definitely true -- it is simply almost impossible to part ways with someone who you have shared this aspect with. I have this with my lover as well -- we have been together for so long. We fight everyday and even destructively, but this glue holds us together, and our own Venus trine Mars as well. LOL

He has a Sun-moon square which can be frustrating for you as it can make him difficult to fathom. He does not understand himself, even probably hate himself -- hopefully he does not pour this out on you.

Food poisoning! Haha. Common with Virgo-Scorpios I have noticed. Good he has someone to take care of him for that. Cancer goes well with Scorpio for that reason. However, he could always be enigmatic to you. Don't fret...he loves you all the same.

With Scorpios, words are not enough. They want to see proof. They need convincing. A lot of it. They're also quite good at sensing, almost in a psychic way. So you may think you are ready for him but he sees that you are not. It's possible.

Your familiarity with each other's energies may be owing to your Venus-Moon contact, one side a sextile, the other a trine. That can make you feel very comfy in each other's company. Harmonious, as Libras put it.

Scorpios are afraid that when they show all of themselves to you, you will be traumatized. That is probably the root of all the testing.

I have a lot of 8th house energy (House of Scorpio) and that is my problem. I play around at first, but when I start getting serious, men start to choke. For that reason, I do not take their attraction seriously at first. I'm thinking it could be the same for most Scorpios. They need to know first if you can handle it before they "give it to ya"

posted March 23, 2012 04:57 PM            

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Originally posted by Charlotte_E:
Don't forget about Pluto. Pluto can also make or break a person's relationship. More specifically, the nightmare aspect -- Venus square Pluto in a natal chart. No offense to those who have this aspect, but based on my observations, these natives simply CANNOT be happy in love.

They can't help but desire someone they cannot have (i.e., someone married, someone unreachable, etc) and when they obtain that person, if the going goes too smoothly, they get bored and want out. One of my closest friends has this aspect, he is exactly like that.

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Keyword to handle Scorpios is PATIENCE. They need time to trust you, time to open up and so on.

And, I seem to have the "nightmare aspect". Nice. And yes, it's quite accurate so far. Dah

posted March 23, 2012 06:18 PM            

His pluto/libra in 11th
My pluto/libra in 6th

I made a mistake earlier his mercury is in libra. Mine is still in gem...

posted March 23, 2012 06:35 PM            

His:libra
Mine:gemini

Moon is emotion.... Personality/type of woman an is attracted to/ comfortable with... Woman he is likely to marry

His: gemini
Mine: cancer

Venus is values/pref... Physical/body type man is attracted to... Ideal woman

posted March 23, 2012 07:27 PM            

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Originally posted by Charlotte_E:

He has Mars in Leo. That is good -- you have Venus in Aries. I am guessing the sex is great.

THE SEX IS BETTER NOW THAN WHEN WE FIRST MET, BECUASE NOW HE IS MORE EMOTIONALLY OPEN. HE LISTENED THE SECOND TIME AROUND LOL I CANNOT BE SEXUALLY FREE IF I CANT FEEL YOU. WHEN WE WERE YOUNGER MY INTENSITY OR NEED OF DEEP PASSION, MADE HIM UNOMFORTABLE. NOW HE, FOR THE MOST PART, EMBRACES IT.

Your sun and moon conjunction is also a major plus to your relationship. Based on personal experience, the cliche is definitely true -- it is simply almost impossible to part ways with someone who you have shared this aspect with. I have this with my lover as well -- we have been together for so long. We fight everyday and even destructively, but this glue holds us together, and our own Venus trine Mars as well. LOL

WE DONT FIGHT DESTRUCTIVELY. WE HAVE ARGUMENTS BUT NEVER IN ALL THE YEARS HAVE THEY ESCALATED TO THE POINT WHERE WE YELL OR INSULT ONE ANOTHER. WE TALK EVERYTHING OUT. YES I CRY, OR HE TAKES A MOMENT AND WALKS AWAY, BUT WE TALK IT OUT. I THINK THE KEY IS THAT WE ARE USUALLY TOUCHING EACH OTHER, WE MAY BE UPSET IN THE MOMENT, BUT NOT ENOUGH TO PULL AWAY FROM PHYSICAL/EMOTINAL ASSURANCE. I CAN ONLY RECALL ONE MOMENT MANY YEARS AGO WHEN HE CALLED ME A ***** , AND I LOOKED HIM STRAIGHT IN THE EYE AND VERY SERIOUSLY TOLD HIM NEVER TO CALL ME THAT EVER AGAIN. MY IS ****** AND THATS ALL HE IS ALLOWED TO CALL ME. HE LISTENED. I WALKED AWAY HE FOLLOWED AND APLOGIZED.

He has a Sun-moon square which can be frustrating for you as it can make him difficult to fathom. He does not understand himself, even probably hate himself -- hopefully he does not pour this out on you.

YES HE CAN BE HARD ON HIMSELF. I LISTEN TO HIM VENT AND ENCOURAGE HIM AND REMIND HIM OF HIS GOALS/ACCOMPLISHMENTS/GOOD QUALITIES THAT I LOVE IN HIM.

Food poisoning! Haha. Common with Virgo-Scorpios I have noticed. Good he has someone to take care of him for that. Cancer goes well with Scorpio for that reason. However, he could always be enigmatic to you. Don't fret...he loves you all the same.

HE IS NOT NECESSARILY ENIGMATIC TO ME... A MAGMENT MORE LIkE IT. I JUST NATURALLY GRAVITATE TOWARDS HIM. AND OVER THE YEARS HE HAS FOUGHT IT LESS AND HAS ALLOWED HIMSELF/HAS GIVEN PERMISSION TO INDULGE HIS ATTRACTION TO ME MORE.

HE WAS HAPPY THAT I WAS HIS NURSE lol HE COMFIRMED TO ME THAT NOW HE KNOWS THAT I CAN TAKE CARE OF HIM AND HIS HOUSE lol

With Scorpios, words are not enough. They want to see proof. They need convincing. A lot of it. They're also quite good at sensing, almost in a psychic way. So you may think you are ready for him but he sees that you are not. It's possible.

I DUNNO ABOUT THAT ONE... HE WAS PRETTY WILD AND DIDNT SCARE ME AWAY WHEN WE WERE YOUNGER. I THINK OUR PAST IS THE MOST TRAUMATIZING EVENT OF OUR LOVE... IF WE HELD ON DESPITE THAT... I DUNNO WHAT ELSE IS LEFT.

I HAVE MY OWN MONEY AND HE HAS HIS. WE BOTH WORK SUPER HARD LONG HOURS. FINANCIAL CONCERN HAS NEVER BEEN ON MY MIND. FOR MYSELF OR BOTH OF US COMBINED. FOR HIM FINANCIAL SECURITY IS MORE IMPORTANT BUT ITS ALSO HIS MALE DRIVE LOL I RESPECT IT AND WELCOME IT

Your familiarity with each other's energies may be owing to your Venus-Moon contact, one side a sextile, the other a trine. That can make you feel very comfy in each other's company. Harmonious, as Libras put it.

YES WE ARE COMFORTABLE WITH EACH OTHER. OUR YEARS COMBINED, WE HAVE SEEN THE GROWTH AND CHANGE IN EACH OTHER. THAT HELPS ALOT.

Scorpios are afraid that when they show all of themselves to you, you will be traumatized. That is probably the root of all the testing.

LIKE I SAID PREVIOUSLY. OUR EARLY YEARS WERE THE MOST TRAUMATIZING. WE HELD ON DESPITE IT... IT DIDNT BREAK OUR CONNECTION. IF ANYTHING IT HELPED US EVOLVE INTO WHO WE ARE TODAY. IT HELPED US LEARN. WHAT ELSE COULD IT BE?

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Where he is at i know, His life i know. He is on the verge of wanting more stability, wanting something more solid. His friends are already married, or getting married, having babies lol

Where he is at emotionally i feel it. He is less caveman, more refined lol

Financially he is getting there. It takes time to build someones fortune lol he is very ambitious. He wants to have a good life.

Its the trust. I am stuck on trust. Why cant he trust me... After all these years... What more can i do to help the process or show him.

I told him a few weeks ago, that if he cant trust me fully then iam done. It wasnt fair, that i trust him, and he expects it and wants me to trust him, but he cannot return that to me. I cannot and will not continue with a charade.

Fear crossed his face/eyes... Thats when he again started with its hard for him. He doesnt trust/open up easily. I guess he doesnt want to be dissapointed. But i also have my limits.

He did mention that in the past, our younger, earlier years together i was the only good thing in his life. His escape from the craziness of his wild ways.

He drives my little gemini brain crazy >

posted March 24, 2012 01:07 AM            

Am planning replies to all your great advice you've given & shared on my question threads... I think after reading through this I can offer a little assistance back.

Men love the words rational, reasonable, & factual. Point out how long you've been together. Tell him that you've heard and been understanding of his admissions that he doesn't trust easily, then remind him of the fact that trust, although it must be earned, is also a choice. You can't choose who you love, those feelings happen, but trust is not as much a feeling as a decision a person makes based on their feelings/intuition/evidence based on the actions of another person.

He says he loves you. He's demonstrated that he loves you through protecting you, taking care of you and doing things (like fixing problems for you whether w/tools or gifts or making things happen to improve your life &/or needs), right? Then ask him how long it takes for him to choose to trust someone he loves? Does he expect you to just hang on & have this hanging out there as an easy out in your relationship?
When a person says 'I don't trust you', through word or action, they are CHOOSING to leave open a door for them to make an easy excuse to exit. It's also an easy way for them to excuse other indiscretions, such as saying hurtful things or engaging in hurtful actions. If you have demonstrated through your actions that you are trustworthy, he has little or zero evidence to doubt you other than making an excuse.

The best you can do is speak strong for yourself and let him respect and accept you for what you want and need. If he does not or will not, then he never will. If you have been together for awhile, I'm talking a year's time, then you have a strong argument to make. If it is less than a year or he has suffered some serious abuses or family issues in his childhood that give him good reasons to be slow to trust (not just because he's a water sign), then there is leeway for those as you feel is reasonable & fair.

The only person who's feelings and actions you can control are your own. Be true to what's in your heart & speak with compassion and calm clarity whenever you explain what you need and want to a man. Your soulmate will not only be willing to satisfy all of them, he will jump as high as it takes to do it.

Hugs girl,

posted March 24, 2012 09:14 AM            

Thank you! Yes, i never looked at trust as a choice. I just naturally trusted him and within reason of course, ( in general, just believe what he says, due in part bcuz 1, i love him, he is important to me and 2 because he tries to be a man of his word. He is a serious person. I like that about him...) until something gave me a reason not too... I dunno thats just how i am wired lol.

I will bide my time for now. I will have to think about more on this trust issue and how to best approach the subject again... But i do like your suggestion about bringing the past/actions/years to light... I dont like talking about the past too much, i am a believer that the past belongs in the past. You can only talk about it so long... Before you have to move on. But maybe the answer lies there.

The thing with him, and me too, but more him is that i only have to say something once or twice and it gets done per se.

posted March 24, 2012 10:52 AM            

Anyway, enough with that. Onto Scorpio SUN males. They are some of the sweetest friends you could ask for. Very loyal and consistent. Sensitive? Yes. They also see challenging their ideals as "trying to get a rise out of them," so I would advise NOT to ever play devil's advocate with these men. They don't understand friendly debate really ... well not until they get to know you REALLY well (like years.) I find that in a relationship they tend to be very feminine and doting, and less severe than Scorpio mooners. They like sweetness but not stupidity. They'll manipulate the hell out of stupidity.

I currently have two Scorpio mooners interested in me (I think.) One is a sweetie pie baby faced 18-year-old (go figure!) whom I'm not interested in. I also never knew of his interest until he made a snarky comment one day about the guy I like (and he knows I like him.)

Another Scorpio rising liked me but would not admit it because I think he knew I didn't return his feelings, and that we were better friends than a couple. He had advised one of his friends to apply at our work and I told him the story of how I knew said friend awhile back and would be embarrassed to work with him. Customers interrupted us so I went to go help and when I came back, my mind wasn't even on the mutual friend anymore but my Scorpio ASC friend said "He has a girlfriend!" in a way I can only describe as anxious and hurried.

posted March 24, 2012 11:50 AM              

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Originally posted by Junethird:
We both have pluto in libra.

His pluto/libra in 11th
My pluto/libra in 6th

I made a mistake earlier his mercury is in libra. Mine is still in gem...

I would post a chart but my computer is fried. Ipad doesnt support uploads to photobucket also the reason behind all my typos lol. All thumbs on touch screen lol

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this means nothing as pluto is generational planet...

How to post your chart… http://www.linda-goodman.com/cgi-bin/ubb/ubbmisc.cgi?action=getannounce&ForumNumber=11&Start=2455736.99&End=2459389&Session=

posted March 24, 2012 11:56 AM              

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Originally posted by Junethird:
If mercury is what keeps him interested.... Key to his heart?

His:libra
Mine:gemini

Moon is emotion.... Personality/type of woman an is attracted to/ comfortable with... Woman he is likely to marry

His: gemini
Mine: cancer

Venus is values/pref... Physical/body type man is attracted to... Ideal woman

His: scorpio
Mine: aries

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all moons in mutable signs ie: pisces,gemini saggi, pisces are all (capaable) of loving to people at the same time..

His: scorpio
Mine: aries

this ain't great as these are quincunxed signs, ie: 150' away by signs.

Aries is very straightforward, what you see is what you get, calls a spade a shovel and is very direct and to the point, rather impatient and impulsive, soon to flare up soon to flare doesn’t hold grudges. Very good at starting things, motivating people and starting projects but not good at finishing them, not very good with money either except spending it. Aries belongs to a group of 3signs which values it freedom and independence very highly. Sagittarius and Aquarius other two.
Now Scorpio, definitely what you see is not what you get, very secretive, private and plays its cards close to its chest. Extremely analytical, great for research and ferreting things out but 100% wants control and will use any tactic to get it including psychological mind games and emotional manipulation. Scorpio will never understand why if you are in a committed relationship, would you want freedom and independence! Definitely won’t appreciate you blurting things out and telling everyone their business.

So scorpio can be jealous possessive and stubborn and aries needs a LOT of freedom and indpendence within relationships. Now scorpio response to this statement will be something along the lines of, "well if you are ina deep and loving committed relationship, what the B*** hell do you want freedom and independence for."

you should really try to post the syn bi wheel...

How to approach Synastry

Please remember to reduce the orb ratio down to 40% (ONLY for synastry bi wheel) as the max orb between planets is 3'. Composite should be 85% orbs. Please also include, vertex, juno and POF (part of fortune).

when you get this SYNASTRY chart, please also post the *pdf file*, above left of chart look for *view additional tables (PDF)* This will bring up 2pages. Scroll down to last page for the *ASPECT GRID* THIS IS VERY IMPORTANT AS IT SEEMS TO SHOW MORE ASPECTS THAN IS VISIBLE ON THE BI WHEEL…

problem is uploading to photobucket (or imageshack) you have to change this from Abode format into a picture/jpeg format. This is done by getting the relevant page/grid in front of you on screen then, the press ‘prtsc sysrq’ - top row inbetween pause break and F12. This has been copied to clipboard.

Paste into Paint or some other photo software. Crop the picture and save to hard drive, then upload to photobucket, select chart, press IMG and past link into thread.... all done

posted March 24, 2012 01:08 PM            

I wish he had moon in scorpio. Would make my cancer moon swooon

I have only dated one sun cusp with gem/cancer moon in scorpio.

And while he was very much like your experience... I loved it. Made me happy. I didnt care for his supicious nature or blaming me for his uncomfortable feelings... Feelings made him nervous... Deer in headlights lol but i still fussed over him and loved him deeply.

If anything his moon brought out my venus full force.

Alas, he had too much baggage from his past, refused to let go or atleast allow me to help him unpack it and sort it out therefore i was frustrated beyond the point of no return that it fizzled.

Thank you for your sharing your experiences. I have lots to go over and keep me pre occupied.

posted March 24, 2012 10:37 PM            

Thank you For your insights. I welcome your advice

I think the need of space is balanced. With his gemini moon/ virgo sun and my venus in aries/ gem sun.

I need a few hrs or a day to re charge indulge/focus on just me and he needs dayssss!

He is the king of hot and cold behaviour... Where as when iam impatient and short with you i need a day to myself and then BOOM iam back to my cheery sunny self

I understand that most venus in aries blab alot, but i think ours is ok. If anything i am self centered lol i talk about how i feel never about private/emotional wounds/scars...etc in public.

Iam impulsive, impatient, bull headed and stubborn. I react emotionally. Typical aries in venus moon in cancer and asc in taurus. Traits i am trying to put a leash on

Money wise, iam much better at handling it now in my late 20's than in my early 20's. Iam better at saving

As for venus in scorpio.... I thought they liked

"... He is attracted to women who are dynamic and powerful, rather than passive or weak-willed. The man who has Venus in Scorpio finds it difficult to respect a woman who lacks willpower and wants a woman who has a strong, forceful personality.

Sexuality is extremely important to this man and he is likely to be attracted to a woman who exudes an animal magnetism or who has an overtly sexual appearance. A woman who refuses to be controlled or possessed by the Venus in Scorpio male is also particularly appealing."

http://www.lifescript.com/life/relationships/love-101/the_influence_of_ venus_in_love_relationships.aspx

Doesnt aries fit nicely??

I figured that my v/aries straightforwardness would work to my advantage... Keeps his scorpio suspicious nature at bay since there is nothing behind the veil so to speak... My "what you see is what you get" should reinforce that there is no hiden meaning or agenda... He is making a puzzle out of nothing and so it fuels the fact that he cant figure it out bcuz he thinks i am just trying to trick him?!...

posted October 03, 2015 06:20 AM            

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
They'll manipulate the hell out of stupidity.

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