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hannaramaa
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posted March 27, 2012 09:39 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for hannaramaa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Are there aspects in our synastry chart that would explain why I get so flustered and shy around this guy? Usually I can pull myself together if I like someone but with this man in particular it's a little difficult.

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posted March 27, 2012 10:13 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ariesdragon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Saturn conjunct Pluto probably

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posted March 27, 2012 10:38 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Faith     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My amateur opinion?

His Venus is close to your Neptune, and your moons are close. So you are both feeling the magic of that Venus-Neptune at the same time. Must feel pretty big, and the fact that you both feel it just magnifies the situation.

Also your Pluto on his Mars:

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ogether you can be such a willful couple, intensely and possessively sexual. The drive generated between the two of you is so powerful that it can blot out every other meaningful aspect of your lives if you let it. If your romantic partner's Pluto is in conjunction with your Mars, you add energy, primal urges, assertiveness and a fiercely completive sprit to your romantic partner's willingness to go to extremes to penetrate to the essence of things. Expect fireworks of all kinds.

http://www.skyviewzone.com/lovematch/plutosynastryaspects.htm

WOW

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posted March 27, 2012 12:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ariesdragon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Faith:
My amateur opinion?

His Venus is close to your Neptune, and your moons are close. So you are both feeling the magic of that Venus-Neptune at the same time. Must feel pretty big, and the fact that you both feel it just magnifies the situation.

Also your Pluto on his Mars:

[QUOTE]ogether you can be such a willful couple, intensely and possessively sexual. The drive generated between the two of you is so powerful that it can blot out every other meaningful aspect of your lives if you let it. If your romantic partner's Pluto is in conjunction with your Mars, you add energy, primal urges, assertiveness and a fiercely completive sprit to your romantic partner's willingness to go to extremes to penetrate to the essence of things. [b]Expect fireworks of all kinds.



http://www.skyviewzone.com/lovematch/plutosynastryaspects.htm

WOW [/B][/QUOTE]

Yup pluto mars also hot hot hot!

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hannaramaa
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posted March 27, 2012 12:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hannaramaa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I wondered if it had something to do with Neptune (although I was expecting Uranus. I picture Neptune as more dreamy than nervewracking, whereas Uranus would be a logical guess for that kind of thing.)

In the composite, we have Moon trine Neptune. Does this mean we "feel" each other, consciously/sub-consciously?

Also, who's if my Pluto is on his Mars then does that mean I have the upper-hand with him per-se?

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posted March 27, 2012 01:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ariesdragon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
I wondered if it had something to do with Neptune (although I was expecting Uranus. I picture Neptune as more dreamy than nervewracking, whereas Uranus would be a logical guess for that kind of thing.)

In the composite, we have Moon trine Neptune. Does this mean we "feel" each other, consciously/sub-consciously?

Also, who's if my Pluto is on his Mars then does that mean I have the upper-hand with him per-se?


lol as a woman ask yourself if you really want the upper hand

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posted March 27, 2012 07:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hannaramaa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by ariesdragon:
lol as a woman ask yourself if you really want the upper hand

What do you mean? And so does that mean I do or don't? When I say upper-hand I mean who is chasing who harder

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posted March 27, 2012 08:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ariesdragon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
What do you mean? And so does that mean I do or don't? When I say upper-hand I mean who is chasing who harder

It depends on a lot of things though hanna...you know relationships, he could chase you at 1st then 6 months later you're chasing him, or the other way around right?
It's the dance of love lol

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hannaramaa
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posted March 27, 2012 09:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hannaramaa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by ariesdragon:
It depends on a lot of things though hanna...you know relationships, he could chase you at 1st then 6 months later you're chasing him, or the other way around right?
It's the dance of love lol

Lol right.

But back to the Mars/Pluto... which one?

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posted March 27, 2012 09:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ariesdragon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
Lol right.

But back to the Mars/Pluto... which one?


LOL ok my opinion is.... Pluto (you) the lovely woman you

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posted March 27, 2012 10:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Diana     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It could be because his venus is activating your yod. That's pretty powerful. You'll get to the bottom of what your yod means with him.

I agree that mars/pluto is super hot.

It could also be his uranus opposite your mars. That can shake you up and make you feel awkward around him, but it's also another hot mars aspect. The one caveat is that it can make for really explosive fights, same with mars/pluto, so keep an eye out for that.

Finally, your planets in his 12th house can be doing it. You may feel shy and inhibited because of that. Wait, is his TOB accurate?

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hannaramaa
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posted March 27, 2012 11:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hannaramaa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Diana:
It could be because his venus is activating your yod. That's pretty powerful. You'll get to the bottom of what your yod means with him.

I agree that mars/pluto is super hot.

It could also be his uranus opposite your mars. That can shake you up and make you feel awkward around him, but it's also another hot mars aspect. The one caveat is that it can make for really explosive fights, same with mars/pluto, so keep an eye out for that.

Finally, your planets in his 12th house can be doing it. You may feel shy and inhibited because of that. Wait, is his TOB accurate?


No it isn't unfortunately, HOWEVER I've found the aspects stay the same in the composite regardless of birth time... it's just that it changes the houses around. Not sure if it applies to Synastry but I would assume as much.

And YES I definitely get shy and awkward around him which frustrates the hell out of me. I'm an ARIES damnit! With Gem rising no less, I'm the queen of playing it cool and with him my "coolness" is reduced to looking down the whole time and pretending he's not there.

What's a Yod and why is it powerful?

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