posted April 13, 2012 03:55 AM            

I have recently been to an astrologer and had my daughter's chart interpreted. She said pretty worrying things about her childhood. She is currently 2.5 years old and is a very warm, happy and social child who gets along with everyone. However according to her chart (Pluto and Saturn effects mainly as I've been told) she is supposed to be a very emotionally-reserved child, feeling constantly criticized, going through a really hard-time starting from school age and these will be all because of her father who will make her feel that way. My husband is a caring and involved father, also affectionate meaning does not have problems showing his love. He does have minor issues like everyone else but nothing described as being cold and unloving. I really do not understand.

I have been losing sleep over this and on top of this today I found out that my other child which is due this October (i am pregnant) also has this Sun Square Pluto aspect!

Are these aspects a doom on my children ?

I would really appreciate if you could take a look at the chart and give some insights. It will really be very appreciated.

One quick note: We are currently (and will probably be for another while) living abroad, could these hard aspects be related that, them not feeling fit in to the society they live in?

Here is her chart:
http://www.astro.com/cgi/showgif.cgi?lang=e&gif=astro_w2at_02_lale_kayra_hp.28459.31776.gif&res=63&va=&cid=xehfilengEaRi-u1239016747

Thanks in advance for your time.

posted April 13, 2012 08:54 AM            

Your daughter's Venus is the fourth house adds to her affection for her father!

Saturn on your daughter's sun and Mercury will make her serious, as will her Capricorn north node. Chiron near the midheaven may make her feel like she isn't allowed to complain. You might want to be extra careful to listen to her grievances. She is born in the Ox year so she is strong and actually may not want to complain. Writing may be her outlet.

posted May 03, 2012 12:39 PM            

Parents who know astrological data about their children are in a better position to help their kids. Parents can use the data like constructive criticism and train their kids on how to take counter moves against negative potentials.

Harsh and stressful aspects are strong indicators that suggest that these individuals have a strong potential to defend themselves, just make sure as a parent, that they learn how to do this action within the guidelines of the rules and laws governing good behavior. Instill in them to always use common since.

It has been my observation that most aspect energy, surrounding kids, does not kick in until they are around 18 or 19 years old. This is when they have full control of their independent thoughts. Up until this time, most parents have the ability to mold their children into the people they would like their kids to be.

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