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Topic: Marriage Synastry
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bopbop Knowflake Posts: 303 From: USA Registered: Jun 2009
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posted May 03, 2012 09:07 PM
Hi guys, I wondered if I could get any opinions about this synastry chart between my boyfriend and I. We've been together for two years in a long distance relationship while I finish up my bachelors degree. Someday I want to be married and have children, but I don't know if he wants that with me. I'm 14 years younger than him, and he says that he never attempted to have a family because he didn't want to be accountable for others if he decided to take a risk in his professional life. He also doesn't trust marriage or "promises" about love. At the same time he appears to be making a nest for us back at his place, saying he wants to have the means to always take care of me and that he hopes I'll always want to be with him. I love him and he's the only person outside of family that I feel like I can be myself around. I can't imagine life without him now. Does it seem like this synastry indicates a possibility for a long and happy future together? Does marriage seem like a bad idea here?This is the chart (I am on the outside). Thank you! http://dl.dropbox.com/u/7373371/horoscope.gif IP: Logged |
Rosalind Knowflake Posts: 4207 From: Registered: Mar 2011
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posted May 04, 2012 01:08 PM
To give you an answer I need the synastry chart with you outside and him inside. This chart shows only how he influences you, not how you influence him. Also post the composite chart.IP: Logged |
bopbop Knowflake Posts: 303 From: USA Registered: Jun 2009
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posted May 05, 2012 03:02 AM
Okay, I didn't know that was important!Synastry http://dl.dropbox.com/u/7373371/synastrychart.gif Composite http://dl.dropbox.com/u/7373371/composite.gif The oppositions in the composite looks unfriendly, but I'm not very good at interpreting composite charts. Thank you!
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Rosalind Knowflake Posts: 4207 From: Registered: Mar 2011
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posted May 05, 2012 03:11 AM
Composite does NOT show any marriage. The first synastry chart posted seems to be the good one but there's one thing I don't understand. You have two planets in his 7th house. This should influence him and make him want marry you. Also your Moon in his first house shows that he has feelings for you. In such situation I tend to believe that composite aspects are accurate. There wont be any marriage.IP: Logged |
littlecloud Moderator Posts: 3692 From: Registered: Nov 2010
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posted May 07, 2012 01:53 AM
Out of curiosity, why do you say composite says no marriage?IP: Logged |
bopbop Knowflake Posts: 303 From: USA Registered: Jun 2009
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posted May 08, 2012 03:05 AM
Would you mind elaborating, Rosalind? I'm wondering what you saw that is definite enough to override any positive indicators in the synastry.IP: Logged |
Rosalind Knowflake Posts: 4207 From: Registered: Mar 2011
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posted May 08, 2012 03:10 AM
Its a KARMIC relationship with no indicators of marriage. Planets are not placed well to indicate such thing. Example: Venus in 3rd, shows love to talk to each other but nothing else. Venus should have been in 1st or 7th house, to talk about attraction or marriage. Pluto Rx in 7th house Compsite, shows clearly karmic relationship thatr wont last. Composite is the actual state of relationship. Synastry shows the how they influence each other. IP: Logged |
Thefish Knowflake Posts: 216 From: Registered: Apr 2012
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posted May 08, 2012 01:42 PM
To add to Rosalind's point. Looking at the composite I tend to look at the angular houses to see how the planets interact. It's only one step in many but the 4th house signifies home and having no planets there doesn't mean there's no marriage but looking at the 7th, 10th and 1st houses we only see pluto rx in the 7th and mars in the 10th. We don't see the sun/moon/venus in angular houses. IP: Logged |
ShyVirgo1979 Knowflake Posts: 1694 From: Registered: May 2011
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posted May 08, 2012 08:08 PM
Interesting. I never knew that u look to those houses in composite to look for marriage. What does venus and pluto in the 4th house composite show just out of curiousity?IP: Logged |
bopbop Knowflake Posts: 303 From: USA Registered: Jun 2009
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posted May 09, 2012 02:01 AM
I see. Thanks for the explanations! (as disheartening as they were).IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus Knowflake Posts: 2844 From: Customer Service Rep. Registered: Apr 2015
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posted August 19, 2018 06:48 PM
So what if the ruler of one of the persons 7th house makes aspects to the other persons planets? IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 99879 From: From a galaxy, far, far away... Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 24, 2018 11:47 AM
Moving to Interpersonal Astrology.IP: Logged |