posted May 11, 2012 02:47 PM            

Disclaimer:
Astrology is nothing more than statistics. It is a tool that suggest the potential in human dynamics. It is a method of putting into words, the possible potentials that a person may have as an individual or, on how two or more individuals may interact with each other - with the operative word being "may". The results for any given person or persons will never be one hundred percent good and whatever results are given, do not represent an absolute given.

Parents who know astrological data about their children are in a better position to help their kids. Parents can use the data as constructive criticism and train their kids on how to take counter moves against negative potentials.

Harsh and stressful aspects are strong indicators that suggest that these individuals have a strong potential to defend themselves, just make sure as a parent, that they learn how to do this action within the guidelines of the rules and laws governing good behavior. Instill in them to always use common since.

The twelth house can also mean a behind the scene business power player. His MY trine P suggest that your son may have this capasicity. This aspect can help him keep his actions in check from the forces surrounding the aspects to his MR. Teach him to think before he acts and he may make you, even more proud of him.

It has been my observation that most aspect energy, surrounding kids, does not kick in until they are around 18 or 19 years old. This is when they have full control of their independent thoughts. Up until this time, most parents have the ability to mold their children into the people they would like their kids to be.

posted May 12, 2012 11:00 AM            

He has H2 Moon, which could lead him to be sometimes indulgent and overspend. This could be for creature-comforts, since Moon is sextile Venus. But if he is more conscious of money and security, he will remain that way for his entire life. This position also indicates that one or both parents were focused on maintaining security for the child and providing them with a stable life.

Moon is trine Neptune which leads one to have a very compassionate emotional nature. It leads to an emotional self which is affected by tragedies, sadness and suffering of other human beings and in moderation this is a positive thing. Your son will be able to be empathetic since the trine is the dynamic positive connection versus the sextile which can be summoned in the self but is more passive.

H3 Jupiter in Scorpio is kinda cool because this allows one to have a probing, deep mentality which can result in personal gains and even an increase in luck as a result. H3 Jupiter trine H7 Uranus could maybe give him more insights on his partners, and give less of a chance of him getting duped or harmed from them since H7 Uranus is not ideal in terms of relationships with the opposite/same sex.

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H6 Neptune could make his sicknesses difficult to diagnose. There could be a degree of mystery and/or anxiety concerning the health and day-to-day Virgoan functions, like keeping organized and taking care of meticulous details in the home and at the work place. I think a famous example of how H6 Neptune once manifested is Kurt Cobain. He had a weird dyspepsia his entire life and no doctor knew what the heck was wrong with him. Other things in his chart showed why he was dealing with a stomach issue, since Cancer Moon can lead to stomach issues. I'm not trying to freak you out either, just giving you a real life example to support this common belief about H6 Neptune. It could seriously be as simple as a weird reaction to medications or certain foods in his life or something and that's it.

H3 Jupiter square Neptune could lead to an overly day-dreamy personality that is not concrete enough to deal with the earthy facts of the real world. I'm saying this also because Neptune in the 6th can lead to this in itself. And H3 is of the mind.

H7 Uranus can be difficult as aforementioned because it can make the person who has it very into 'strange' partners, or just an unconventional partnership. To others this can seem weird; other people might call the H7 Uranus person's ideal type of man or woman weird, and they might not understand anything about their love nature. Having this could lead him to be more attracted to Venus in Aquarius types. But remember, H3 Jupiter trine Uranus will not let him be duped over or suffer easily from lack of logic and thought in such unconventional partnerships. He has laser insight into them and will not get the wool pulled over his eyes even if the partner or partnership it outside the norm. This placement of Uranus could lead to sudden erratic break-ups and a need for independence out of the blue.

Uranus is quincunx the Moon. This is leading me to believe that MAYBE - not definitely - something will happen in the childhood to make the child feel that his uniqueness was repressed, and therefore later in life he will drag all of it into areas of love and relating to other people. Or in general the emotional nature could suffer due to negative erratic and eccentric Uranian tendencies.

Venus conjunct Saturn can make one feel very lonely. Having Venus in hard aspect to Saturn can give wisdom and stability concerning love, but one might feel like they don't have enough companions in the early half of life.

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Sun conjunct ASC can make one extremely noticeable. People are going to notice and listen to him for better or for worse. It can go either way. He can command attention respectfully and nobly or through shocking acts and shame. I say the latter because Sun and Uranus are in aspect through opposition, so he might have impulsive, outspoken tendencies that get him noticed. This isn't all bad though, since Sun sextile Pluto can give him a cool, appealing charisma and dark magic to the core identity. In other words, despite these erratic tendencies people could be very attracted and intrigued by him due to Pluto's influence. They won't cast him out for it, not always.

Mercury is in the mystic 29th degree in the 12th house. This can be a strange interpretation but I'll go ahead and give it a shot. The 29th degree can lead to a greater amount of wisdom but also weariness concerning the sign. Mercury in Leo can be detrimental but maybe in the 29th degree the determent of this can be lessened. Maybe his mentality will be slightly less Leonine in a bad way. Leo Mercury can make one too flamboyant and fiery in their mental expression, leading to self-defensiveness and arrogance at times. I know someone with this placement and it can definitely make them this way.

Your son having Leo Mercury in the 29th could mean he has already mastered the lessons of Leo Mercury and could have slightly more mental self-restraint. With these lessons mastered so easily from such a young age, the question is: how will he learn to USE and APPLY them effectively throughout his life? Sometimes it's better to master a planet's energy like a steady climb from the bottom of the stairs to the top. Throughout our young lives we begin closer to the bottom or maybe near the middle if we are luckier and more mature, and then by adulthood and middle age we are able to contently reach the top of the stairs, therefore mastering the energy of the climb. BUT, when we are already AT the top when we are so young, we have a massive amount of experience that we might feel isn't even ours. It can be anxiety-inducing and overwhelming. And at a young age, it's easier to lose our balance and fall down those stairs.

I hope this offered some insights.

My final word on this chart? It is NOT the worst birth chart ever. For many negatives there is a positive to balance it out. Even the worst things can bring wisdom and power, like the Venus-Saturn in the 12th. Although this might be a big challenge to him, through life's trials he will overcome and rise above it and grow stronger as a result. I would also like to comment that even positive birth charts do NOT always immediately belie the difficulties and suffering of one's life. At a first glance my birth chart is seen as more positive than negative; but upon closer inspection you will see it really isn't, despite only have 4 hard aspects and no quincunxes. I was abused, and had a terrible time with my identity. This isn't shown immediately based off of a first glance at what would seem like a "good" chart. Also, as others have mentioned, you can't always rely so heavily on astrology to predict if someone will have a bad life.

posted May 12, 2012 11:40 AM            

I respect ppl who overcome adversities much more than ppl who has everything effortlessly.

posted May 13, 2012 05:47 AM            

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posted May 13, 2012 05:53 AM            

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Empress, even if he has the most terrible chart ever like you say, you cannot do anything. This is HIS destiny, not yours. You cannot interfere.

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I understand your worry, you are a mother, and as every mother you hate to see your son suffering but it is in his destiny to face suffering and to learn something from it.

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Yes. It also feels that something will happen to me that will affect him greatly. Seeing Pluto in the 4th house and The Moon in 2nd which is usually the mother and the 2nd house not only being about money, but also about hoarding or holding onto something dearly makes me feel like I will be missing at a point in his life where he will need me the most. Just a feeling I get...

posted May 13, 2012 05:59 AM            

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Originally posted by slowpoke:
I am guessing the DOB is around Aug. 27, 2006

Disclaimer:
Astrology is nothing more than statistics. It is a tool that suggest the potential in human dynamics. It is a method of putting into words, the possible potentials that a person may have as an individual or, on how two or more individuals may interact with each other - with the operative word being "may". The results for any given person or persons will never be one hundred percent good and whatever results are given, do not represent an absolute given.

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Thank you just like Tarot

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Parents who know astrological data about their children are in a better position to help their kids. Parents can use the data as constructive criticism and train their kids on how to take counter moves against negative potentials.

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That is exactly what I am aiming for

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Harsh and stressful aspects are strong indicators that suggest that these individuals have a strong potential to defend themselves, just make sure as a parent, that they learn how to do this action within the guidelines of the rules and laws governing good behavior. Instill in them to always use common since.

The twelth house can also mean a behind the scene business power player. His MY trine P suggest that your son may have this capasicity. This aspect can help him keep his actions in check from the forces surrounding the aspects to his MR. Teach him to think before he acts and he may make you, even more proud of him.

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That will be a challenge so far he likes doing his own thing and stands out greatly among his peers. Very popular and social everyone in the school know his name..even the parents. At times he asks me "mom how does that girl know my name?" heheh..
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It has been my observation that most aspect energy, surrounding kids, does not kick in until they are around 18 or 19 years old. This is when they have full control of their independent thoughts. Up until this time, most parents have the ability to mold their children into the people they would like their kids to be.

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And I truly hope his father and I can achieve that so he doesn't have to suffer as much as he *has* to.

posted May 13, 2012 06:04 AM            

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Originally posted by Wild-flower:
His Sun is conjunct the ascendant, so I wouldn't really count it as in the twelfth. Does he demand far too much attention? This is a tricky one because you need to give him recognition and reassurance without spoiling him in the process. He'll be needing a hell of a lot of stability. My son has saturn in the 12th and he wont take no for an answer! He has a knack of making me feel very guilty sometimes but I know I have to be consistent with him.
Your son is lucky to have a parent like you who will come on here and voice your concerns, I have 12th house planets and to this day I don't think my parents acknowledge any of my problems.

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Yes his sun is in the 1st house that's what I originally thought but he does have 3 other planets in the 12th and the rest of the chart doesn't seem too positive. Yes he does demand a lot of attention and in school he gets a lot of it. He is constantly in trouble and he is just a big clown always has attention everyone in the school know who he is, the parents, the teachers, the kids..a lot of these people he doesn't know himself..

Aw thank you! I try because like you my parents were not really there for me as a kid they were pretty much strangers to me. My grandmother took care of me during my childhood. I remember when my mother insisted on finally moving me in with my father and her when I was around 2 or 3 and I couldn't deal with that so I had to be returned to my grandmother until the age of 7 where she decided I just had to be with my grandmother so she decided to move in with us. I remember feeling very awkward with my parents growing up. So this is why I want my children to have the type of parental love that I wasn't able to have. I want them to be happy and just have a happy and unified family with a normal mother and father .

posted May 13, 2012 06:30 AM            

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He has H2 Moon, which could lead him to be sometimes indulgent and overspend. This could be for creature-comforts, since Moon is sextile Venus. But if he is more conscious of money and security, he will remain that way for his entire life. This position also indicates that one or both parents were focused on maintaining security for the child and providing them with a stable life.

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I hope this offered some insights.

My final word on this chart? It is NOT the worst birth chart ever. For many negatives there is a positive to balance it out. Even the worst things can bring wisdom and power, like the Venus-Saturn in the 12th. Although this might be a big challenge to him, through life's trials he will overcome and rise above it and grow stronger as a result. I would also like to comment that even positive birth charts do NOT always immediately belie the difficulties and suffering of one's life. At a first glance my birth chart is seen as more positive than negative; but upon closer inspection you will see it really isn't, despite only have 4 hard aspects and no quincunxes. I was abused, and had a terrible time with my identity. This isn't shown immediately based off of a first glance at what would seem like a "good" chart. Also, as others have mentioned, you can't always rely so heavily on astrology to predict if someone will have a bad life.

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posted May 13, 2012 06:32 AM            

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Originally posted by lilithpluto:
I read before that charts with easy aspects such as tribes n grand trine etc. means harmonious flow of energy n perhaphs an easy life. But it also means that the person will not achieve much in life cos everything is easy n the native has lack of motivations to dynamic action needed for great achievements. Some difficult combinations like T square or Grand square provides strong motivations n ambition n the path they have laid before them as in their charts makes them wiser n stronger over time.

I respect ppl who overcome adversities much more than ppl who has everything effortlessly.

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