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Topic: Passive Aggresive "Helpless" People who **Need** rescuing
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Virgo-AriesArtist
Knowflake Posts: 509
From: Michigan :)
Registered: Jun 2009
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posted June 12, 2012 08:21 AM
  
I'm just done with dealing with my mother...I'm tired of volunteering to "save" her after she gets in another one of her messes and pulls the "poor me, they are all out to get me" card. I've yet again offered to help her work on finishing some professional CEU classes, but all it does is backfire when she is not willing to put as much effort in, and then it becomes **all MY fault**. Seriously? Grown UP! I am an only child and she gets my help by whining, and crying, and playing the martyr card too, and I fall for it, Virgo-ness and all and want to save the day. The song by Papa Roach, "Scars", totally describes how we were before I moved out of the house, and I swore never again, but here I am, helping her out on a bigger scale than before and being guilted into doing more than I should. And I ALLOW it.  Our relationship is soooo messed up, and here I thought I'd fixed it by removing myself from the situation...of course, for the last few months, she has been staying at the house my husband and I just bought (paying rent to us) after another one of her decisions ended badly, as she waits for the new house she paid cash for to be renovated. So I can't avoid dealing with the fallout from this, and I feel stupid for letting myself get used. Here is her chart (I suppose I will post mine too at some point...)  IP: Logged |
lalalinda
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From: nevada
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 12, 2012 09:30 PM
moving to Personal Readings  IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
Moderator Posts: 33055
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted June 12, 2012 09:35 PM
I am having so much pain with my mother. I want to say that I can relate.------------------
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mercuranian
Knowflake Posts: 509
From: the 12th house
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 12, 2012 09:38 PM
this "condition" seems to be going around.  IP: Logged |
Lonake
Moderator Posts: 7909
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Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 12, 2012 09:56 PM
Gawd she's manipulative. And with an aggressive intellect to boot. Yuck.
Aries ASC, Merc in Sadge conj Mars in H8.Controlling with the kids.
Saturn conj Pluto in H5.
And it doesn't end there.
Leo on cusp of H5 with Sun in H7 sq Pluto in H5. Double Yuck. Thinks she can lord over anyone to get what she wants.
Sun conj Jupiter in Scorp in H7. PLEASE don't give into her. Don't worry, with all that neg emphasis on H7/H8 she'll find another person to ensnare since she can't do things without someone else's help. Sad Scorp on your hands, sorry her H5 is so messed up IP: Logged |
prettywords
Knowflake Posts: 46
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Registered: Oct 2011
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posted June 12, 2012 11:24 PM
I knew shed be a Scorpio. If a Scorpio is showing their shadow side they act this way. This is the mo for wounded water signs that don't use those depths to rise above.IP: Logged |
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