posted June 15, 2012 06:40 PM            

I'm interested too

posted June 15, 2012 09:25 PM            

I was just interested in knowing your story, such as, are you a card reader, psychic, etc? You seem to have a good "read" on things?

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
Stemming from Butterfly's thread in 2.0, I was wondering how sensitive this guy would be based on his aspects. Don't know the birth time.

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posted June 15, 2012 11:58 PM            

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Originally posted by cherful24:
Hana...

I was just interested in knowing your story, such as, are you a card reader, psychic, etc? You seem to have a good "read" on things?

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posted June 16, 2012 12:30 AM            

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Originally posted by birdy:
I would say he's very sensitive but less likely to show it. He's good at self control especially his emotions. He can have a temper that will shock people at times. When his temper explodes you dont want to be in the same room. The highlight is there's more sensitivity there than people realize at first glance. He carries a lot of pain and wounds.

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posted June 16, 2012 01:22 AM            

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Originally posted by birdy:
Ah, I thought it was with birthtime. With that said, I think most of what I said still holds truth. This is not the type of guy you can get involved with lightly. I think theres a lot of possession/insecurity. Is there anyway you can get his birthtime?
Sun/Mars Mars/Saturn Moon/Pluto and combo of things.

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Unfortunately no, not at the moment. He is more sensitive than he appears though, so you're right about that. Merc and Venus in Cap, so that alone leads me to believe he's not one to get involved with lightly. It's not a romantic prospect, just a person I'm observing lol.

How do you befriend someone like this, or is there a way to tell how he makes friends, the key to befriending him/him trust you?

posted June 16, 2012 02:14 AM            

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Originally posted by birdy:
I've noticed guys with Venus in Capricorn, tend to gravitate towards more Aries like traits the most where they dont know what to expect next from you. I think just being open, friendly, talkative will get his attention to be honest. Don't be afraid to strike a convo with this guy, he will be relieved.

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posted June 16, 2012 10:49 AM            

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Originally posted by Phoenix:
I have that moon/pluto/mercury combo natally.. just be true and honest with him.. dont put much criticism on him or other people, and dont talk behind other people's back lol

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The criticism part... I do sense that bothers him somehow! I have Virgo IC. I'm quite critical... :/ but surprisingly I do have a lot of compassion for people. I observe things and I think my observations are taken as criticism. Whatever, I just need to learn to be quiet anyways.

posted June 16, 2012 12:43 PM            

I'm very shy.. I can lose the opportunity to be with the love of my life because of that. I think I had done that in the past, still I stayed some years crying over it. And I'm insecure, I feel I'm not worth and that anyone around can be better. I feel that anyone could hurt me. But I have Venus square Saturn. And I’m getting out from a painful relationship. My feelings are strong and intense, and I don’t usually approach people in romantic terms. I'm 33 next week and had 2 boyfriends only, the first one was from another city so there was always the distance between, we were never together but it was very rewarding to me.

The last one lasted for 9 years (until 9 months ago) and I can’t describe the mess. People say I'll find someone new but I can't tell you how it will be difficult, there will always be lots of obstacles, I know because I've already been there (engaged people, far away people, etc., people that only got to love me when I didn't love them anymore and the reverse too).

I'm not comfortable with people approaching me in romantic terms either, or even friends hugging me, especially people I don’t know, but you see, I tend to have people hugging me lol people think I’m nice.

So I want to be with somebody because I feel that I was born to be with somebody, even though I can be alone (I feel I was alone the biggest part of my life) but I really think that it will be difficult to let someone come close. But right now maybe I'm letting all my pain pass through my words.

This boyfriend approaching me did really a miracle and I was really in this relationship. I’m Gemini, asc and moon Aries and it should be different but it isn't. But you see my moon is at my 1st house and Pluto at 7th house. That’s why I keep study all this, because my sun/moon/asc doesn’t explain who I am. Even though I feel my sun sign starts revealing himself since my SR.
More.. once in love, and had the approach been done, and I'm with someone, I'm totally faithful to that person, and I'm something that I'm trying to learn to be different: I really get stuck, and can be obsessed and put myself in second place. By obsessed I mean that I keep letting things go and keep forgiving things for the sake of the relationship. I don’t take dishonesty lightly. Why do I put my rose glasses and forgive it?

Having mercury/Uranus contact natally and Uranus at 8th house I'm quite eccentric tough, I'm not jealously, I don't feel I could have a traditional relationship with anyone, but I consider that is a big difference between not being jealously and being taken by a fool. I don't accept that.

I see that he's got his moon at Taurus, he can be quite possessive.

When I fall in love its for real, I've never felt so complete as being with this last boyfriend. I'm torn. I'm devastated. HE's a Libra, all I ever wanted. But tr Venus rx is conjuncting my natal Venus, so I need to be devastated to move ahead after.

I don't know if you have ever heard about the moon/pluto contact nattally as something regarding with problems with the mother since being a child. And there is something else: in emotional terms I get exhausted and need to regenerate myself lots of times and I'm always feeling that I have to start over again, always new beginnings.

And I enjoy a lot writing. Since mercury is at this combo I don’t know if it has anything to do with that.

posted June 16, 2012 04:24 PM            

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Originally posted by Phoenix:
Hanna I'll speak by myself.

I'm very shy.. I can lose the opportunity to be with the love of my life because of that. I think I had done that in the past, still I stayed some years crying over it. And I'm insecure, I feel I'm not worth and that anyone around can be better. I feel that anyone could hurt me. But I have Venus square Saturn. And I’m getting out from a painful relationship. My feelings are strong and intense, and I don’t usually approach people in romantic terms. I'm 33 next week and had 2 boyfriends only, the first one was from another city so there was always the distance between, we were never together but it was very rewarding to me.

The last one lasted for 9 years (until 9 months ago) and I can’t describe the mess. People say I'll find someone new but I can't tell you how it will be difficult, there will always be lots of obstacles, I know because I've already been there (engaged people, far away people, etc., people that only got to love me when I didn't love them anymore and the reverse too).

I'm not comfortable with people approaching me in romantic terms either, or even friends hugging me, especially people I don’t know, but you see, I tend to have people hugging me lol people think I’m nice.

So I want to be with somebody because I feel that I was born to be with somebody, even though I can be alone (I feel I was alone the biggest part of my life) but I really think that it will be difficult to let someone come close. But right now maybe I'm letting all my pain pass through my words.

This boyfriend approaching me did really a miracle and I was really in this relationship. I’m Gemini, asc and moon Aries and it should be different but it isn't. But you see my moon is at my 1st house and Pluto at 7th house. That’s why I keep study all this, because my sun/moon/asc doesn’t explain who I am. Even though I feel my sun sign starts revealing himself since my SR.
More.. once in love, and had the approach been done, and I'm with someone, I'm totally faithful to that person, and I'm something that I'm trying to learn to be different: I really get stuck, and can be obsessed and put myself in second place. By obsessed I mean that I keep letting things go and keep forgiving things for the sake of the relationship. I don’t take dishonesty lightly. Why do I put my rose glasses and forgive it?

Having mercury/Uranus contact natally and Uranus at 8th house I'm quite eccentric tough, I'm not jealously, I don't feel I could have a traditional relationship with anyone, but I consider that is a big difference between not being jealously and being taken by a fool. I don't accept that.

I see that he's got his moon at Taurus, he can be quite possessive.

When I fall in love its for real, I've never felt so complete as being with this last boyfriend. I'm torn. I'm devastated. HE's a Libra, all I ever wanted. But tr Venus rx is conjuncting my natal Venus, so I need to be devastated to move ahead after.

I don't know if you have ever heard about the moon/pluto contact nattally as something regarding with problems with the mother since being a child. And there is something else: in emotional terms I get exhausted and need to regenerate myself lots of times and I'm always feeling that I have to start over again, always new beginnings.

And I enjoy a lot writing. Since mercury is at this combo I don’t know if it has anything to do with that.

Sorry for the mistakes but English isn’t my usual language.

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I actually have Moon opp. Pluto, Moon in Taurus, and Uranus in my 7th as well as his natal chart does. So I understand a bit. He actually gets along great with his mother though. LOVES his mother to death. Perhaps he has the opposite reaction of a Moon opp. Pluto because he's a guy? His ex-wife was crazy. She did everything a person can do to ruin a marriage, but they were high school sweethearts. He hadn't been on a date with anyone else in 13 years.

And wow! My friend describes him similar to what you wrote. That he puts everyone ahead of himself, and even with people trying to run his life for him and not let him go on dates, he still forgives it. I was kind of put off by that, but it's interesting to hear the astrological reason for it.

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posted June 22, 2012 08:02 PM            

I've read something about moon at aries in the natal chart as an indicator of somehow abusive mother or at least a bad relationship with the mother.

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posted June 23, 2012 11:32 AM            

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Originally posted by Phoenix:
I've read that moon-pluto opposition has to do with issues with women in general, but you're not the first person telling me that the opposite can happen too. I know someone else who lovesssssssssssss his mother and I saw things here that were not so healthy.. he's grown up already, he should live his life with his girlfriends without having his mother in the middle.

I've read something about moon at aries in the natal chart as an indicator of somehow abusive mother or at least a bad relationship with the mother.

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Why do you say his ex-wife was crazy?

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