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From: Pluto
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posted June 18, 2012 04:03 PM            

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I really don't know what to say, but I'm hoping someone will understand, hear me out and provide some kind of answer. I'm wondering about 'guy'. I just want to know, what is the end result supposed to be?

I greatly appreciate any time and effort!

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posted June 19, 2012 12:09 AM            

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I got the devil card for you. So maybe this guy presents too much of a temptation...the card is a warning about balance and obsession. Seems like this is what your intuition is telling you.. Maybe he is not the type to stick around. What do you think?

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posted June 19, 2012 01:37 AM            

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***Elixir, thank you soo much for replying to my post...it means a deal to me!***

Damn. lol...he tends to get ghost when things get too "heavy". It's like on one end he's this amazing guy (flaws and all), but he has a hard time with anything heavy. He doesn't want to deal with anything that isn't surfaced...I miss him like crazy. I'm wondering if I should keep a light of hope going for us. So I guess that means I need to let go huh?

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posted June 19, 2012 01:42 AM            

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ah, another interpretation of that could be sexual temptation? We've never been intimate but we have the wildest chemistry...he's admitted to me that he's never had that kind of chemistry with a woman before. I feel the same. But its like we both fear what will happen if we became intimate. We know it would change the relationship, but how?

what do you think Elixir?

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posted June 20, 2012 06:33 AM            

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Yeah I think the guy in the card exudes sexuality so the card is definitely about that attraction in your case. If you don't think its the right time now, doesn't mean it won't ever happen. I think your caution is a good thing..

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posted June 20, 2012 07:07 AM            

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Understanding/The Challenger/Protection

He would give you a good run for your money but there is also security in this as long as you remain understanding that he is a .... man . Two out of three of these cards say yes, but he isnt a guy that likes or is ready to be tied down by anyone. You would have to play it quite cool here

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posted June 24, 2012 03:53 AM            

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Originally posted by redshoes:
Understanding/The Challenger/Protection

He would give you a good run for your money but there is also security in this as long as you remain understanding that he is a .... man . Two out of three of these cards say yes, but he isnt a guy that likes or is ready to be tied down by anyone. You would have to play it quite cool here

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I get that...It makes alot of sense. I feel that life is telling me to stop trying to control how and when it happens...I've FINALLY accepted that. So I will ocntinue living and IF the opportunity presents itself and I'm still interested...I'll go from there....Sidenote: It doesn't shock me about the intimacy...he is quite appetizing! lol...hmmmm...I will rest on those thoughts...lol

THANKS for your time and reading!!!

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