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Topic: For Rosalind or anyone else who wants to look!
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FireMoon
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From: Minnesota
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted July 13, 2012 12:03 PM
  
Hi Rosalind, I posted a long time ago on your original readings thread with a synastry and composite chart I have with someone, but I didn't know his tob and you said to post again if I could find out. Anyway, he finally found out a time and I didn't want to bump your thread since you stopped doing readings but I would love to hear your opinions if you have time! You're very generous and doing readings for people all the time so if you're not able to no worries I completely understand!!  He's on the inside in the synastry. His birth time could be give or take by half an hour but I think he's definitely a Scorpio asc... This has been on my mind a lot lately so if anyone else has opinions feel free to share, I would appreciate any insight!    Probably not important, but I'm just including links to the synastry and composite with a few asteroids that seem relevant lol
http://i1174.photobucket.com/albums/r604/Addie009/ASsnyastryasteroids.gif
http://i1174.photobucket.com/albums/r604/Addie009/AScompositeasteroids.gif Thank you  IP: Logged |
Rosalind
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posted July 13, 2012 01:27 PM
The Synastry looks pretty OK. Your Vertex and Moon are over his ASC. This relationship is fated and he love you. He has feelings for you. Your Pluto over his 12 house shows karmic ties. I don't like the position of Sun, NN and Saturn over your 2nd house. Looks like your relationship karma is related to money. Venus over his 3rd house shows that he loves having conversation with you. I don't see any energies over his 7th or 5th house. Its seems that even he likes you you don't make him feel to commit with you in a marriage relationship.
However, the Composite looks better. Venus and Vertex are in 7th house. You two you will share at least a romance relationship but if you two go into marriage, your domestic life will be pretty unsual and surreal. I don't like that Saturn in 5th. Reserved feelings? That Moon shows a will to commit and to build something stable. Pluto in 3rd shows that your conversations have always a deeper meaning of understanding. Maybe you two share conversation subjects who have in composition mysticism and stuff that goes beyond this world. Mars in 8th is great for sex. But because its in Taurus, the intimacy might not be very passionate, yet caring. Again Sun is in 2nd. You two have common feelings related to money. A pretty good Composite overall. IP: Logged |
FireMoon
Knowflake Posts: 336
From: Minnesota
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted July 13, 2012 02:21 PM
Thank you Rosalind everything you said is really accurate! It definitely feels like a fated relationship so when I found out his tob I wasn't that surprised to find out we have DW vertex conjunct asc. We do have great conversations, we lose track of time talking for hours. Very true about composite Pluto in 3rd I think the topics our conversations naturally gravitate towards and the level of understanding between us contributes to our being together feeling unusual and surreal. Also true about mars, the sex is always good lol. I think we have a very passionate attraction to each other, but you're right it tends to be more sweet and caring most of the time. Also my Mars conjuncts his descendant which I've read is good for attraction. As far as all the 2nd house placements, I'm not sure what to make of that either. We've never been involved with each other's finances, so maybe this would play out more if it did turn into something long-term later on. But we do tend to have the same views on things and spend our money in similar ways. But anyway thanks again I appreciate it  IP: Logged |
Sorcha
Knowflake Posts: 296
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Registered: Mar 2012
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posted July 14, 2012 03:48 PM
I don't mean to butt in but I wanted to mention that I would keep an awareness about Neptune square Venus in the composite, especially since Neptune is the 7th house ruler and both planets are in angular houses. There can be a tendency to project fantasies with that aspect and so I think it would be important to make sure that you are both being very honest about who each of you is in the relationship Edited to add: Your Venus conjunct NN in the synastry is a really strong aspect. Lots of learning but I think of the lovely kind IP: Logged |
FireMoon
Knowflake Posts: 336
From: Minnesota
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted July 15, 2012 09:08 PM
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Originally posted by Sorcha:
I don't mean to butt in but I wanted to mention that I would keep an awareness about Neptune square Venus in the composite, especially since Neptune is the 7th house ruler and both planets are in angular houses. There can be a tendency to project fantasies with that aspect and so I think it would be important to make sure that you are both being very honest about who each of you is in the relationship Edited to add: Your Venus conjunct NN in the synastry is a really strong aspect. Lots of learning but I think of the lovely kind
No problem Sorcha thanks for your input I hadn't noticed about Neptune being 7th house ruler! But that is very true, the whole thing is very idealistic at this point, it definitely has the whole walking on air feeling but has never actually been firmly established on the ground lol. I also forgot to add about Rosalind saying that composite Saturn in 5th house could indicate restricted feelings; this is true. Not that the feelings aren't there, but we are both afraid on some level to express them sometimes or to actually act on them. It's easier to talk about how things could be some day (which is always very sweet and idealistic) and then go back to our separate lives at a distance from how we want things to be *some day* and how things actually are. But now reality is setting in that the whole prospect of us actually being together as a couple could end up to be one huge fantasy that never actually manifests. (As could be suggested in the composite) I'm moving away, and he's trying to make things work with an ex, and I've just been thinking a lot about what would have happened if I would have just tried to pursue this more directly and been more up-front about how I felt from the beginning. But, I have to just leave it for fate to decide at this point. Anyway thanks again for your response IP: Logged |
Sorcha
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posted July 15, 2012 10:12 PM
Well, Just remember that we generally regret the things we don't do, as opposed to the things that we do and feel are mistakes or wrong for us. So say whatever you feel now because the worst that can happen is that it is not mutual. Wondering about it later is probably more painful (in my experience at least).All the best! IP: Logged |
FireMoon
Knowflake Posts: 336
From: Minnesota
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted July 15, 2012 10:45 PM
Very true. I'm regretting it now lol. We've been involved for years on and off but he's also had an on and off situation with this ex, (and I've dated other people on and off too) and because of that I've been scared of pursuing anything. I guess looking at the big picture he's put himself out there more than I have to make his feelings clear. But it's always been in an evasive or ambiguous way... I guess I just got freaked out and needed him to just be straightforward about it, but I'm sure he was waiting for the same thing. And the last time we had a conversation like that it was pretty straightforward and ended with him telling me that he has feelings for me- which I said I also have feelings for him but just don't know really where things stand, and him telling me I should "have faith" about our relationship. But then... I tell him I'm moving for up to a year for school (which I'd been saying and he knew but it wasn't for sure at that point) and he gets back together with his ex. And of course I don't expect him to wait around for me, and I can't exactly regret my decision to move for a lot of other reasons, but I do regret not having that conversation sooner or taking the initiative to say I think our relationship is worth committing to and making adjustments for. Which I do, I think what we have is rare and it's worth fighting for which is what I maybe should have done. Sooo I'm thinking of sending him an email, because it will be easier to say and I'll be able to get out what I actually want to express instead of getting nervous and leaving things out or dancing around it. And I can't have any expectations, but at least I will have said it. Anyway sorry for writing a novel lol but thanks!! IP: Logged |
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