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naughtyvenus Knowflake Posts: 70 From: Oak Ridge, Tn. USA Registered: Jul 2012	posted July 21, 2012 08:35 PM should i pursue lover " c " or lover " m " ? both are libras, i'm a libra too, which loves me more? which should i invest my time and effort in ? can i get a tarot reading ? one card, 3 card, 10 card, it don't matter. i will do a reading for you in exchange if you request one. thanks IP: Logged
Junethird Knowflake Posts: 1636 From: Registered: Nov 2011	posted July 21, 2012 10:52 PM Hi, 8 of pentacles flipped over on its own. You have some work to do... I dont think either men is the right long term fit for you. Should she choose lover "c" moon rx I think on a more instinctual level you feel a closer affinity to "c" But either you or him are not being completely honest. Illusions, daydreams and alot of miscommunications will come about. Be clear with what you expect from a relationship with him. Do not be wishy washy. Should she choose lover "m" 4 of cups One of you takes the other for granted. One of you is more generous and giving. This card doesnt bring about a solid confident long term energy for relationships... Its more about mememe and less about us. Emotional distance, hot and cold behaviour will be present. And become all too familiar soon enough. IP: Logged
naughtyvenus Knowflake Posts: 70 From: Oak Ridge, Tn. USA Registered: Jul 2012	posted July 21, 2012 10:58 PM thanks junethird, wow, so far as your reading goes, i think it's pretty accurate, lover " c " seems to pay more attention to me and seems to love me more, even has asked me to marry him .... but lover "m" is more distant, actually, the only problem with lover "C" is financial, he refuses to find steady work, which is a big obstacle, because i need alot of stability in my life, while lover "C" is more of a gypsy who does not place as much importance on money as i do. during my love reading for you, i drew the 4 of swords, so here ya go http://www.psymon.com/tarot/swords-4.html by the way, any chance lover " c " will change his mind and pursue a steady income on a permanent basis? what the cards say about that ? IP: Logged
Junethird Knowflake Posts: 1636 From: Registered: Nov 2011	posted July 21, 2012 11:15 PM Queen of wands rx King of cups rx 9 of swords rx No. Not anytime soon. Its all going to go down the crap shoot. Altho the 9 of swords rx is not a bad card... Next to the king and queen rx means that the burden will be too much and you will end up hedging your bets and cutting your loses. Shame really, the passion and sweetness match up nicely. Cups rx mean feelings of loss, he will dissapoint you and you in turn will withdraw gradually from him. The water pouring out of the cups will kill the flames of the wands. The passion will burn out. Thank you for pulling a card... But i didnt ask a question... But i will take the advice of the 4 of swords anyway. I need a vacay lol. IP: Logged
naughtyvenus Knowflake Posts: 70 From: Oak Ridge, Tn. USA Registered: Jul 2012	posted July 21, 2012 11:22 PM wow thanks junethird, i was hoping he would change his mind and pursue steady work, but the cards seem to say no, since work is the issue, it may be why you got the 8 of coins, lover C really loves me though, i know that, and i really love him, but sometimes love just ain't enough...sad, so sad, sniff sniff, i was really hopin' he would step up to the plate IP: Logged
Junethird Knowflake Posts: 1636 From: Registered: Nov 2011	posted July 21, 2012 11:36 PM Its all in the moment babe... Maybe it might take him to loose you in order to snap out this phase. I know from experience that if a man is not ready or does not want to take the adult responsability of a mature relationship it sucks big time. Sharing an exceptional love of a lifetime is magical and wonderful but passion and sweet nothings dont pay the bills Yes the 8 of pentacles is about work. I always say that, Pents are physical. You have to work to earn coin. The moon rx to me is not a bad card. Over the years and specially last few months ive come to understand this card alot better. Its more of a message that you guys are not on the same page and to be clear about your expectations. The rest is free will. Oh and i must add. Withthe moon rx, Pregnancy, motherhood, mothering him will not give you the wanted results. IP: Logged
EmpressMendez Knowflake Posts: 507 From: Registered: May 2012	posted July 21, 2012 11:51 PM Hey, I'll do two readings and pull out 3 cards for each. I remember I owe you a reading from my old thread (sorry about that). So, I'll see how both feel about you. C is attracted to you and there is an interest. There's something that you're offering that he somewhat feels isn't enough. Maybe you're not giving him the attention he's craving right now, so in a way he feels like he can't get too involved with you because you will hurt him. The King of Cups though shows that he is very attracted to you and his feelings for you are serious. He wants more from you! Now as far as M goes, he does think you're very attractive and beautiful, but I don't think he's looking for a relationship with anyone at all. He's attracted, but his feelings aren't as deep as C. Omg and sorry to say, but M thinks you're high maintenance LOL! Nothing bad about that though :P C is the one for you. He's way more into you and sees you more in a romantic way. It's just that he feels that you don't pay too much attention to him. Is it so? He feels like you're not as interested in him as he is in you. I will give you another reading asking what's coming up with you two later on tonight. EDIT: Just read the replies and glad that we agree that C is more interested!! So I read everything and maybe it's YOU that isn't satisfied with what C has to offer! LOL. YOU want more from HIM..you know I just feel like you both want MORE from one another . He wants more attention and you want more stability . When I practice a lot, I get the moon card when something isn't clear or doesn't make sense. Me and my bf were playing this game where I would see if the answer was yes or no. I would notice The Moon popping up when the answer was confusing..he would ask fake questions such as: Did I eat __ today? and I would ask him...did you even go there today?! Then he would laugh because he just made that up. Then I would yell at him because he wasn't taking my "research" seriously, lol. But that's only my personal experience with The Moon card :P. It's all diff. for everyone and depending on the surrounding cards. IP: Logged
naughtyvenus Knowflake Posts: 70 From: Oak Ridge, Tn. USA Registered: Jul 2012	posted July 22, 2012 08:31 AM wow, thanks empressmendez and junethird, your readings are very perceptive, so empressmendez what card tells you that M thinks i'm very high maintenance? just curious, it's ok if you don't remember, i'm thinking the empress - cause to me, she's high maintenance, lol. IP: Logged
EmpressMendez Knowflake Posts: 507 From: Registered: May 2012	posted July 22, 2012 08:42 AM Lol naughtyvenus I got 9 of Pentacles and 10 of Pentacles in the deck I use they're dressed very flashy and pretty . They have make up on and fancy hairstyles . The woman in the 10 of Pentacles is standing outside in front of a mansion with an expensive dress on. Her hair is neatly tied up and she's wearing fancy make up . The Hermit was the first card, he wants to be single no strings attached. The Hermit was facing away from the 9 and 10 of Pentacles. I'm glad I could be of help . IP: Logged
naughtyvenus Knowflake Posts: 70 From: Oak Ridge, Tn. USA Registered: Jul 2012	posted July 22, 2012 09:18 AM thanks, that's cool, ha ha, that does describe me, i was even a hairdresser for about 10 years, so i'm " that prissy type " so far as no strings attached, that may be the way he feels about me, but he has atleast 2 other girlfriends, one of them i think he's more serious about than the other one, atleast he was more serious about her at one time, i know about them, but they don't know about each other, and they don't know about me, it's kinda funny really IP: Logged
EmpressMendez Knowflake Posts: 507 From: Registered: May 2012	posted July 22, 2012 09:19 AM Naugtyvenus he still thinks you're beautiful though, so that is a plus. He just doesn't feel ready to provide you with all that you desire . But all in all, he just wants to be a 'bachelor' and remain 'single' or he doesn't want anything serious yet . IP: Logged
naughtyvenus Knowflake Posts: 70 From: Oak Ridge, Tn. USA Registered: Jul 2012	posted July 22, 2012 09:22 AM got cha, i assume you were still talking about M cause C says he wants to marry me. the high maintenance thing makes sense with M for another reason, my sex drive is really high, which probly wears M out, so that may be where that high maintenance feeling comes from as well. i was more interested in M until C came along out of the blue, now when it comes to M, i could take him or leave him, it really don't matter much now, i'm hoping C will find steady work and become more stable, i'd really like to be with C IP: Logged
naughtyvenus Knowflake Posts: 70 From: Oak Ridge, Tn. USA Registered: Jul 2012	posted July 22, 2012 09:28 AM empress mendez, i did a love reading for you and got the high priestess, i hate to try to interpret the high priestess, it's a card i really can't relate to for some reason, i have an aversion to it, but i hope this helps - http://www.bukisa.com/articles/357635_meaning-of-the-high-priestess-tarot-card-in-love-and-relationships http://www.psymon.com/tarot/02-highpriestess.html IP: Logged
EmpressMendez Knowflake Posts: 507 From: Registered: May 2012	posted July 22, 2012 09:30 AM C has very intense feelings for you. He truly does care about you. I guess the sex makes sense with M!! Pentacles are physical, practical, etc He could feel you're high maintenance and possible not tell you. The cards are also saying that he's not looking for anything long term. But I'm glad it helped. C is definitely the one and I hope you two can work things out . IP: Logged
EmpressMendez Knowflake Posts: 507 From: Registered: May 2012	posted July 22, 2012 09:30 AM Thanks naughtyvenus!! I appreciate that. I love the High Priestess, lol. What did you ask? Thanks again IP: Logged
naughtyvenus Knowflake Posts: 70 From: Oak Ridge, Tn. USA Registered: Jul 2012	posted July 22, 2012 09:34 AM hi empressmendez, my question was "what can i tell empressmendez about her love life?" that's typically my question for love readings! and you're welcome! IP: Logged
naughtyvenus Knowflake Posts: 70 From: Oak Ridge, Tn. USA Registered: Jul 2012	posted July 22, 2012 09:38 AM i really do love C so i'm glad he has the same feelings for me, if we could just get things worked out financially, i would leave the situation i'm in and go off with him, but he just does not seem interested in making the required changes he needs to make before he can pursue steady work, that is a big obstacle for me since i need alot of stabilty, if he took the job i am wanting him to take, i could travel with him while he's working, which is what i want the most - maybe he will change over time, i dunno IP: Logged
naughtyvenus Knowflake Posts: 70 From: Oak Ridge, Tn. USA Registered: Jul 2012	posted July 22, 2012 09:45 AM oh, hey, just for fun, i'm curious about another fella, i will call him " J " - just wondering how he feels about me, i used to be really crazy about him, but now, not so much IP: Logged
EmpressMendez Knowflake Posts: 507 From: Registered: May 2012	posted July 22, 2012 11:04 AM Thanks naughtyvenus. High Priestess is telling me to listen and trust my intuition, which is what I'm doing so it makes real sense . Okay, let's see how J feels about you. Are you two talking still? He thinks about you a lot. He's attracted to you and there is chemistry (sexual) chemistry between you two. He wants to approach you, start talking to you, or send you a message. He wants to pursue you and he does have feelings for you. He wants to start something with you and be with you . Yes, he has feelings for you <3. IP: Logged
naughtyvenus Knowflake Posts: 70 From: Oak Ridge, Tn. USA Registered: Jul 2012	posted July 22, 2012 06:25 PM yes, we do talk but it's not that much, i dropped my interest in him thinking he really only wanted one thing from me, so wow, i really did not think J had any feelings for me at all, i thought he was just using me for sex all these years, wow, this really surprises me, i'm sure he's not marriage minded though, he's been single for nearly 30 years, ,he was married when he was younger, but divorced now ,i'd be curious about the cards you drew on J IP: Logged
EmpressMendez Knowflake Posts: 507 From: Registered: May 2012	posted July 22, 2012 06:29 PM Yes, sexual feelings there are also mild romantic feelings as well (Knight of Cups), but I forgot the rest, sorry. By the way, can you pull one more card for me and ask this, please: Is the sunshine song RJ listens to about me? Thanks!!!! IP: Logged
naughtyvenus Knowflake Posts: 70 From: Oak Ridge, Tn. USA Registered: Jul 2012	posted July 22, 2012 06:49 PM about the sunshine song empressmendez, i drew the lovers, so i think probably the answer is yes, and i can't get over J having any kind of feelings for me at all, that's such a surprise, i didn't think he had a romantic bone in his body, lol, whatta hoot IP: Logged
EmpressMendez Knowflake Posts: 507 From: Registered: May 2012	posted July 22, 2012 06:55 PM Wow! Thanks naughtyvenus. I had a feeling because the soundtrack is similar to a movie he knows I love. The movies are also similar . Ha! yes all I remember is the Knight of Cups . In my deck he looks like a messenger. He's holding a pink letter in his hand with a heart on it . I drew 2 other cards, but sadly I forgot which ones . IP: Logged
naughtyvenus Knowflake Posts: 70 From: Oak Ridge, Tn. USA Registered: Jul 2012	posted July 22, 2012 07:00 PM oh, hey, i gave a song to M and i was wondering how he felt about it - he may not have even listened to it - i really don't know - also, i gave him a mix-tape CD with a bunch of songs on it and 2 movies, one a drama, the other a raunchy comedy, wondering if he watched either of them but i'm really curious about how he felt about the drama if he watched it, there's something about the characters that is very similar to my relationship with him - he's a very busy guy, so i don't think he has much time to watch movies and stuff, so i really don't know if he'd actually bother- i'd be curious about the cards you draw on this one IP: Logged
EmpressMendez Knowflake Posts: 507 From: Registered: May 2012	posted July 22, 2012 07:10 PM Ok. I'll be back w/ your reading after I rest a little bit. I don't want to do it while I'm tired. I want to be accurate . IP: Logged

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