posted July 31, 2012 02:03 PM            

I asked "what does he need from me?"
Chariot
Lovers
5 of Discs

I took this to be very positive, a lover who will be with you through all the highs and lows.

I asked "What would be his response if I were to tell him I wanted a relationship with him?"
Magician
6 of Rods
7 of Swords

Since the 7 of swords seems to confuse the heck out of me, I pulled a card to clarify it and got 7 of cups, which confused me even more.

posted July 31, 2012 07:03 PM            

The guy, is pi**ed off. He doesn't want anything from you but to drop you on your ar*se, because he thinks you play games and are up yourself, but he has a nasty side because really he feels thwarted by you and hasn't made headway with his usual tactics.

The second reading shows that you would actually be surprising and confusing him if you suddenly told him that you wanted a relationship with him, and ultimately he would be suspicious after the initial flattery, as you haven't displayed any real compliance or aquiescence to a relationship before - so he would be racking his brain for your motivation - and exactly what kind of relationship - he would have thoughts like, are you just desperate for a hook up, or are you one of those classic relationship gals, or are you just wanting him to spend money on you.

Basically, he does not know you very well at all, and plays a large scale game like many internetters, that tries to aim for a balance between defense and not being had, to getting the best that he can get out of what is available to him. Underneath it all he is an ok guy, in the scheme of things, I guess, but he would not be averse to deception and cheating and this is mainly due to the reason that he has no idea what he wants and what he is prepared to give - as a result he gets down, becomes frustrated, and his morals are suffering with the choices he is making. He feels the days going by and that he is ageing by the hour, and genuinely feels he is somehow missing the true hub of sensation fun that he feels he gets a hint of on the net but can't truly find where it's all at.

Ultimately, there is no giving/sharing in any of his bargains - he is out to 'get', except for token shows of giving/sharing.

posted July 31, 2012 07:43 PM            

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Originally posted by littlecloud:
I did two small readings for myself, both about the same guy, about a week or two apart.

I asked "what does he need from me?"
Chariot
Lovers
5 of Discs

I took this to be very positive, a lover who will be with you through all the highs and lows.

I asked "What would be his response if I were to tell him I wanted a relationship with him?"
Magician
6 of Rods
7 of Swords

Since the 7 of swords seems to confuse the heck out of me, I pulled a card to clarify it and got 7 of cups, which confused me even more.

Sooooo....if anyone would like to tell me what it is these cards are saying to me, I would truly appreciate it. If you don't want to read the 7 of cups into it, it's fine as it was a reflection on the swords card anyway...

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I get the feeling by the cards for your first question was that he likes a challenge. He wants to conquer you before everything.
For the second question, I have less a straight feeling but I'm more with the other interpretation. Don't tell him for the moment you want a relationship. I feel like, if you do that there is a risk he takes that as a victory.
But I could be wrong, I'm a newbie

Courage.

posted July 31, 2012 09:26 PM            

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Originally posted by Chryseis:
I agree with Athenegoddess she has definitely got a perspective on this.

The guy, is pi**ed off. He doesn't want anything from you but to drop you on your ar*se, because he thinks you play games and are up yourself, but he has a nasty side because really he feels thwarted by you and hasn't made headway with his usual tactics.

The second reading shows that you would actually be surprising and confusing him if you suddenly told him that you wanted a relationship with him, and ultimately he would be suspicious after the initial flattery, as you haven't displayed any real compliance or aquiescence to a relationship before - so he would be racking his brain for your motivation - and exactly what kind of relationship - he would have thoughts like, are you just desperate for a hook up, or are you one of those classic relationship gals, or are you just wanting him to spend money on you.

Basically, he does not know you very well at all, and plays a large scale game like many internetters, that tries to aim for a balance between defense and not being had, to getting the best that he can get out of what is available to him. Underneath it all he is an ok guy, in the scheme of things, I guess, but he would not be averse to deception and cheating and this is mainly due to the reason that he has no idea what he wants and what he is prepared to give - as a result he gets down, becomes frustrated, and his morals are suffering with the choices he is making. He feels the days going by and that he is ageing by the hour, and genuinely feels he is somehow missing the true hub of sensation fun that he feels he gets a hint of on the net but can't truly find where it's all at.

Ultimately, there is no giving/sharing in any of his bargains - he is out to 'get', except for token shows of giving/sharing.

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I don't see what you do about the first one. The feeling thwarted I can semi-understand. We are on speaking terms...