posted August 13, 2012 10:40 AM            

Thank you for your offer.

Here is my synastry with my ex who broke up with me because "i deserve someone who will be totally there for me". He was married (his synastry with his wife will be under). But he came back so we could be friends and as soon as we began to trust each other again, he pull back etc...

Thank you very much.

posted August 13, 2012 10:46 AM            

here is the following synastry chart between F & his wife. The time of birth of his wife is off.

Thank you again for any input you had on this situation.

PS: I refuse to become F mistress, so it was only sentimental.

posted August 13, 2012 12:31 PM            

Here it is the synastry chart

posted August 13, 2012 06:29 PM            

-His Moon (4th house ruler), Uranus (11th house ruler) & Pluto (7th house ruler) in your 7th house
Your 7th house is very strong, some of your rulers come back to the 7th house. It is here where his Moon lies. Moon on the 7th house is good for a connection where you empathize or sympathize with the person and even can show knowledge of what might be on their minds. You may finish each other's sentences, or they may pick up on his emotions often. This is also where he feels belonging with you, he sees you as someone he can be around. However, Uranus as the ruler of it's own house, he can easily see you as a platonic friend or bring erraticism( is that a word?) to the relation. He may bring you something new and inventive. He may be very different from you in a physical or on a more mental level, having different ideas than you. Pluto as his 7th house ruler lies on your 7th house cusp. I think this is just as potent as if the DSC's where conjunct. I think you are drawn to each other as partners, but Pluto can also mean a domineering partner who will treat you more like a possession than a person.

-Your Venus-Saturn conjunction square his Venus-Saturn conjunction, his on your 1st house and yours in his 2nd house
In each of your water houses, there is Venus conjunct Saturn. Your self-image issues and worth stem from the home and your instincts, he may be completely unaware or too suffocated by his 12th house with his Venus-Saturn. But this is powerful, because you both have the same fears and sense this in each other. It can cause you to activate them, too as they are in square aspect. With these two planets in your first house, you may feel there is something stable and beautiful about him (but heavy), and with his in your second house, he notices your values and worth. Or you take notice of his. There can be a financial aspect.

-His NN on your 3rd house, your NN possibly trine each other
NN on the 3rd house...3rd house represents communication, speech, energy of the mind, voice and perhaps memory. His NN is the spiritual goal or link, and he leaves an imprint on your mind. You may remember certain things he's said to you. NN trine is very positive, you two are reaching similar life goals.

-Your Chiron on his 12th house
Chiron is a wounded spot in our charts and what we possibly use to heal others where we cannot heal ourselves. The 12th house is subconscious and secretive. You may secretly help him through his troubles, and if I had to guess I'd say he has many personal troubles. But they might remain submerged.

-Your Moon trine his Mercury
A classic aspect for if one person needs a special friend to hear them out, listen to them rant, yell or cry and the receiver is empathetic. In that case, that would be you. He finds that he is able to blow off steam with you, and emotional and mental energies are in sync.

posted August 13, 2012 07:16 PM            

Thanks for your kind offer. I'd like to add my name to your growing list (you'll get a lot of valuable practice!). I have some family/friends I'd like to chart, but right now this is the only person I have birth time for...here is our synastry chart & our composite. Great couple or great friends...or both? (Honestly, I'm pulling for both.) Thank you!

posted August 14, 2012 11:50 AM            

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Hey everyone. It's been a little bit of a rough day so I am still doing these charts and you can still post away, just know that it will take me a tad longer.

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posted August 14, 2012 02:30 PM            

This is my last one. It's about a guy I had a very hard time forgetting about. We never dated..I was obsessed with him for many years. We hardly spoke because when we were in the process of getting to know each other I started dating his best friend, but I didn't like him. It was only because I was afraid of dating him...so, after that me and this guy never spoke again and we ended up things in bad terms..

When we attempted to connect years after the fact I ended up running away from him again (online and more than twice). He gets upset and now he truly doesn't want anything to do with me at all.

I'm starting to get over him now (finally!). I don't think about him much at all anymore. My bf and him have almost the same birthday, just different years. It's a very bad coincidence for me because I fall for them so hard :x. It all feels fated to me. It's like I was meant to get deeply involved with a Pisces one way or the other. Augh..

Usually I forget rather quickly about a guy..no other guy has made me feel like this one. Why do (or did) I have a hard time forgetting about him and why can't we just be friends/get along?? I have tried, but he resents me..

Thanks!

posted August 14, 2012 08:52 PM            

-His Mars conjunct your Jupiter
I have a little bit of a hard time interpreting Mars-Jupiter aspect so feel free to correct me. I just think of energy levels that are high between you two, he energizes you physically but also on a mental plane. You bring to him a view of the world and you might explore new ideas together or travel. You enjoy physical activities together and impart energy and adventure in each other. I still feel like there can be a sexual element to the aspect too. You have the ability to manifest each other's big plans or friendly competition.

- Your Sun-Juno conjunct his Chiron
I will try to interpret the Juno asteroid, although normally I avoid doing so. Juno is Hera, the wife of Zeus/Jupiter, and she represents marriage and love but on the other hand affairs and such in Magi astrology, which I know little of. Here I will interpret it as a love connection. Because your Juno is conjunct your Sun, you strongly identify with a partner who is radiant, confident, and maybe a LITTLE full of himself (okay maybe a lot) and with these two planets on his Chiron, you maybe bring these qualities to him with the purpose of healing him. By loving him, you are doing just this. Juno conjunct Chiron is considered a good omen for marriage between two people in Magi astrology if I remember correctly, something to research and thing about eh? Sun conjunct Chiron is a warm aspect. With it being so close, once again, there is a possibility that he accepts your expression totally and this helps his self-esteem. You could have a totally non-verbal way of "feeling" each other.

-Your Venus opposite his Neptune, Your Neptune square his Mercury & Venus conjunction
Venus and Neptune combine to create the stuff dreams are made of: Poetry, imagination, romance and sometimes longing, delusion, and the rose-tinted glasses everyone associates with the aspect. Your brand of beauty may be idealized by him, you may spark creativity in how he approaches you or in your relationship. You two can also possibly get carried away, or maybe he can get addicted to you sometimes. It can be reversed too, depending on the signs in the planet. Be sure not to lead him on in situations and tell him what you mean. And he must do vice versa, because this is a double whammy aspect we are dealing with in the synastry.

-His Sun and Venus in your 7th house, his Sun on your Vertex
The Vertex is a point of the chart that is said to be the secondary DSC and others consider it karmic. By his Sun on your Vertex, this could mean that your relationship has some powerful feelings within it, and a lot of history behind it. Otherwise, Sun and Venus in the 7th house are classic aspects for someone who you desire as a partner. You see him as the ideal man to be with, and he sees you as someone who could give him what he lacks and vice versa. I don't mean this in an opportunistic way, I totally mean it in the romantic sense of, you complete him. Venus of relationships and Sun of personality here in this house of partnerships leads to good, natural feelings of wanting to be together.

-Part of Fortune conjunct
I looked for inspiration for the aspect on some articles but nothing came up. Part of Fortune is our innate talents, a lesser version of Jupiter, and what brings us our "luck" in life. With your POF's conjunct, maybe you are in fact, each other's good luck charm? By knowing each other and being with each other, you attract much fortune? Or maybe, the love you share simply makes both of you happy. I look forward to your take on this.

-Your Moon conjunct his Juno
Juno shows us our ideal marriage partner or what we desire in a partner. The Moon is our emotions and supposedly in the chart of a heterosexual man, what he needs in a woman for her to be his partner and in a heterosexual woman, how she is nurturing and even on a lesser level, her "feminine" personality or ego (like the Sun in our natal). I think with these two conjunct, you are nurturing to him, and as a result he pretty much sees you as an awesome partner. You fit in with what he likes in a woman.

-Your 7th house ruler Mars trine his Pluto and sextile Neptune
Mars and Pluto are considered a highly energetic, powerful, and sexual combination because Pluto is Mars on a more submerged, concentrated level while Mars is more out in the open and in your face. There is a sexual element that is involved in your attraction to him and to the partnership. Mars and Neptune together is an imaginative aspect, not like the hero-savior square or opposition, but imaginative and more fantasy with the sextile or trine. Physical energy flows well between you and can be imparted to the imagination and how he courts you and vice versa. There is romance.

-His 7th house ruler Venus conjunct your DSC, Also the ruler of his 8th and 11th house (Mercury) is conjunct your DSC
Yes, yes, yes. These are all wonderful for a partnership because there is romance, friendship and sexuality and not imblalanced because it is all coming back to your house of relationships. The ruler of Venus conjunct DSC is just as potent as your DSC's being on top of each other or even Venus itself conjunct DSC, although his Venus is literally conjunct your DSC lol. Maybe it would change significantly if it were a planet like Saturn or Pluto, but Venus is a benefic and creates beauty, good feelings and love. 11th house is friends, groups and anything social, so this area is benefited by you two being together, and the 8th house of sex is self-explanatory.

posted August 14, 2012 08:56 PM            

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posted August 14, 2012 09:40 PM            

-His Moon in Virgo opposite your Moon in Pisces opposite your Pluto, His Sun or Neptune possible opposing your Moon-Pluto midpoint
The Moon opposition plays a huge part in your attraction. You are so different in emotional temperament and in needs that you may consider trying to fulfill each other with what each of you have to help with what you guys lack, or seem to lack. His Moon in Virgo may lend to someone who is observant, critical and down to earth, communicative. Your Moon in Pisces may be dreamy, seemingly spacey, and imaginative. You may admire these qualities in each other. You may drive each other mad at times. And with his Moon on your Pluto, the attraction runs even deeper and can be more magnetic, as if there is an obsessive need to understand this person. Your 8th house just makes this even more Plutonic, lol. Moon in the 8th house can create a serious emotional bonding process where one person is uncovering the depths of the other, and it can be a mutual thing and you can spend much time doing this in the relationship. Moon-Pluto Midpoint represents deeper, primal, lustful and strong emotions. With his Sun or Neptune activating this point, he may shine light on these areas or either confuse you even more under Neptune's influence.

-Your Saturn conjunct his Chiron, trine his Sun & Mars conjunction
Saturn and Chiron in Magi astrology lends to heartbreak, but they are also seen as very extreme in their observations. I'd say there is a strong, glued bond that is hard to break, but can seem like a downer sometimes as there is weight on his "wounded area" with Saturn. With your Saturn trine his Sun and Mars, you maybe reign him in or there is work to do win the relationship and this is where the energy is directed. I see stability between you two, but a little push from Jupiter might make it easier on both of you so you don't get stuck in ruts or too focused on the practical things.

-Your Mars opposite his Jupiter
Here's a decent aspect from Jupiter, despite the opposition. Mars and Jupiter, two extroverted planets, one chock full of energy and the other expansion and knowledge. You two are capable of competing with each other and generating lots of energy and heat between the both of you. This can simply be playing games together or in the bedroom if it is that kind of relationship. But just make sure it is within good fun, and things are not taken overboard. It can also mean that one person would rather stay in and read books and the other person wants to go out for a walk or party, literally separating the two planets' energies. They work best together.

-His Mars in Capricorn, Your Mars in Aquarius, His Mars conjunct your 12th house cusp, sextile your Scorpio Venus and square your Uranus
His Mars is in an earthy, but powerful sign and not to say yours is less powerful, but it is more airy and idealistic than it is overtly sensual. Not to mention it is in the 3rd house, so your energy may go to communication and expressing yourself through verbal speech than other areas. His is in the earthy 2nd house so his is probably acquiring property and maybe other pursuits than your own. You will have to work together to understand each other's energy levels and preferences. With the 12th house involved, this should not be too difficult or on the other hand, it could be if you make it such. If he makes you upset, it would be best to let him know than to hold it inside. Mars sextile Venus is a great combination for you two to match up in. It shows that he is appreciative of your beauty and values, and you are fond of his physical nature. Mars square Uranus can lead to rebellion and arguments, so just watch out for this area. Stimulation can be both good and bad.

-His Moon trine your Sun, Mercury, Neptune conjunction, which falls in his 1st house
His Moon is in a great aspect to your 3 inner planets. I bet you have a very unique personality and way of expression. I think this complements his emotional nature to where he admires you, your communication, and the emotional link you share. And with these in his first house, you are a great influence on him. I'd like to think you two can create wonderul ideas together.

-Your Venus nearly conjuct his ASC and his 7th house ruler Venus
I think you are very attractive to him, as a basic interpretation of these aspects. You both "love" in a very similar way, and appreciate beauty in almost the same way and you share values with each other. It is easy to share these views with each other, and he may even see you as an ideal partner or woman.

-Your Pluto square his Sun
Sometimes, but not always there are power plays. You much watch to make sure that you are not overbearing to his expression, but if you aren't there is nothing to worry about. He may feel your "Pluto" energy even when you are not trying to give off that air, or he may be drawn to you or vice versa.

-Your Venus square his Jupiter
This aspect is one of levity and graciousness with each other. You may appreciate what you two experience together, you may inspire one another's creativity. You might enjoy the company and get too carried away with your leisure time in extreme cases, but you two might be generous with helping one another or expressing loving feelings or opinions.

-Your Moon trine his Uranus, squaring his Neptune
These can be unusually perceptive in that one partner may percieve the other partner to be erratic, or maybe they pick up on their moods easily. In worst cases, one partner is moody or impractical and then the other partner may be clueless as to how to deal with them. I don't think that would be a huge problem if you two were up front about what is bothering you, and having space to chill out from time to time.

posted August 14, 2012 10:50 PM            

I am curious why it was so intense between us, so beautiful, spiritualised and magical and why we cannot forget each other. and why i am still feeling so broken

OH CRAP. I read you as the Aries and him as the Capricorn, please please please forgive me, and if you can read the genders switched around >_< I am so sorry! I didn't realize until I was at the end of the reading!!!

-Aries on his 12th, ruler Mars in Pisces, planet's sign is in mutual reception with house ruler, Mars is conjunct your Moon, 7th house ruler
Okay...most of this will possibly be inaccurate but I will still give it a go. If I had to guess, there may be some issues on his part where his anger may be directed inwardly. He may not always show what bothers him, if at all because with a forceful and direct sign like Aries in a subdued, subconscious house like the 12th, there can be some tendency towards misdirected anger or a discomfort with showing it until something triggers it. But with your Moon on his Mars, you will see this in him and ultimately nurture his assertiveness. But this can lead to passion and I see LOADS of it just looking at the chart. Lots of triggers for emotional intensity that can sometimes even crash and burn. This may lead to a kind of physical chemistry unique to both of you, or romantic sign the signs are in Pisces and that is more of a ethereal, spiritual sign than the sensual earthy or the hot, blazing fire signs or even the breezy air signs. Maybe with his Mars on yor 7th, you allowed him to lead you and he was energetic in pursuing you or in the relationship.

-Also, there is your Mars trine his Moon
This means a double whammy of passion and sexuality. I believe you each bring out a nurturing or passionate side out in each other, and that the love you shared left an imprint on your memory from being so emotionally involved with each other. It is often hard to find another partner who matches up to the strong feelings and physical intensity.

-His Mars square your Venus, your Pluto trine his Mars, and his Mars square your Pluto
More and more passion aspects show up, and I feel I will start sounding like a broken record, lol. Mars & Venus together show a basic physical attraction between two people, or on a non-sex and romance level an appreciation of each others beauty, prowess or talents. With the square, there can be an impassioned approach but also a bit unstable, because one person can be crude towards the other, then the other person may feel in a romantic mood and then other is like "screw the romance, let's hop into bed!" And in worse cases one person is aloof but not quite like Venus-Saturn. There is just difference of moods and desire and after a while the strong feelings can turn from hot and sweet to bitter should things go south. Mars and Pluto manifest as a powerful and mostly physical duo, you bring out the warrior in each other in matters of lust, but be careful that you don't bring out the warrior in each other in an aruguement...in some cases it can get pretty ugly and feelings may get hurt.

-His Uranus square your Moon (7th house ruler), sextile by his Neptune
Now here, there can be a problem with emotional stability. When you are feeling down or you feel like things are not going right, you may count on him to be there for you. And when he's not, you may feel devastated. Or, what can happen is that he is erratic and not in one place for too long, so you feel he is unreliable, emotionally and you don't know what to do. Or this can be you. Moon-Neptune can indicate a feeling of knowing just what is on the other person's mind, or picking up on their feelings and instincts.

-His Sun conjunct your 7th house ruler, The ruler of his 5th house (Jupiter) in your 7th house, squared by your Sun
When someone aspects your 7th house or 7th house ruler in a positive way, there will be qualities in that person that draws you to them as a partner, wife, or husband. This is probably what you saw in him. And you may give him what he lacks, completing him as a partner and/or vice versa. With his 5th house ruler in your 7th house, he sees the relation as fun, and full of romance. This may be too extreme or too blunt but he may see it as an affair, but I could be wrong, only going by 5th house linked to romantic affairs. Sun square Jupiter is a fun-loving aspect, you may have given each other joy and he may have enjoyed brin in your presence, finding you radiant and full of life and if you two traveled anywhere together, you probably had a ball.

-Chiron opposite Saturn (possible)
In Magi Astrology this is a heartbreak aspect. They can be very extreme at times. I would interpret this as an activation of the wounded area in life, being weighed down upon by the discipline of Saturn. Or maybe this pain is activated in the relationship, and whoever Chiron represents, they have to look at the wound and heal it, as Saturn touches on this area that hurts.

-Aries Mercury trine Sagittarius Mercury
Wonderful communication, it is a wonder you would not forget him. You both are most likely blunt in your communications and maybe once in a while someone is wounded by a misplaced word, but I do not think this would have been a problem as you may have recovered easily. but also, the misplaced word would have probably lingered in your thoughts in secret. Mercury is the ruler of both of your rising signs, so there would have been an instant connection through communication anyway.

-Suns square by tradition

posted August 14, 2012 11:44 PM            

-His Sun conjunct your Saturn

-His Venus conjunct your Pluto

-He has a Sun-Moon-Mars T-square, Your Saturn, Sun and Mercury are involved in it

-Your Moon trine his Saturn

-Your Neptune trine his Sun and Mercury, His Neptune trine your Moon

-His Mars opposed your Mercury, his Mercury sextile your Mars

-Ruler of his 7th house (Saturn) on your MC

-His Moon (7th house ruler) conjunct your Sun & Mercury (your 7th house ruler and 4th house rulers respectively)

posted August 14, 2012 11:57 PM            

He tells me all the time how he was in love with me (I don't know if he still is, I mean he told me that the feeling is still there, but I don't think it's as strong as in the past). I was into him, but I was more afraid of his ways..since we are somewhat best friends he tells me everything and I didn't appreciate how he was with other women. He shocked me when he finally settled down (after I did, since I always 'rejected' him) and he's such a good boyfriend and father. He's in a stable relationship and all. I was so surprised because I just thought he would continue being a "player". But he always brings up the past and how he was in love with me, etc. He told me how nervous he was when we first met and he was realllyyy shy. Lol..and I wouldn't dare make the first move myself, so I guess we blew our first chance to be together. Maybe we'll have a second one some day in the very far future..lol.

I believe he's very, very hot. He's so attractive, lol. He's very sexy, yes, and I would like for us to get together in the future.

I checked and his Venus always conjuncts someone elses Pluto (checked with a friend of mine and his girlfriend which were born in the same year), however the conjunction wasn't as exact and tight as ours. The Moon/Sun wasn't there neither was Saturn and Sun or the others. Just his Venus/Pluto..he's very into sex and sexual, etc..maybe that's why lol.

Thanks for the wonderful reading . I believe Saturn binds and I don't always view it as a bad planet, I kind of dig Saturn .

posted August 15, 2012 11:46 AM            

Well, it makes sense, probably too much sense. I would describe it in these exact words without referencing the planets. Amazing job!

please let me know if you fancy a tarot reading, as I'd be happy to do one to return the favour

posted August 15, 2012 12:15 PM            

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-Mercury, Sun and Mars in the 10th house trined by Jupiter
With these inner planets in the 10th house, ruled by Saturn, this can indicate to me that there is something public about this relationship or even restrained or appearing as such.

We haven't told anyone about it other than a few distant friends/ online friends. But, we did meet online, on a very public forum.

A professional feel. Maybe you two met at where you work, have similar careers and are goal-oriented.
I can see this. When we began relating our life story and where we are, it was astonishing how similar we were. Also our career and life graph has been pretty much the same at the same time. When we met we were both at the bottom of a pit alone. We worked hard to be there for each other and bring each other up.

Mercury conjunct Sun means you two do have expression in common and general ideas and communication.
Yes, we hve similar priciples, which is very odd, because they aren't as common anymore. Also, we enjoyed our way of speaking of course that was something we did not do in the outer world. Just when we were alone.

Mars does not join the conjunction but barely does, I would watch for shows of ego in this relationship, and perhaps this is energizing to both of you as you may spur each other on to achieve success or to commitment or anything long-term.
We fought a lot. It was very common. Eventually it became a broken record. And the both of us are very prideful. We'd fight about a topic and if he was sensitive to it then of course he'd react by ignoring me or just putting down my ideas. Initially I did the same for him, but then I would just ignore him as my mark of disapproval. Lol. I guess I was too lazy to tell him each and every time. Well nothing in the form of commitment nor anything long term relationship wise. I guess because of how the relationship went with him, I'll never put another person before my happiness aka career. I guess I am more committed to myself.

The Jupiter trine is great, because it imparts levity to the Sun and Mercury, joy in sharing communication and good feeling is had in the relationship.
This may have been why it was so hard to let go. When it was good there was a really nice flow to ideas, sharing, caring etc. We could make each other laugh a lot. That's why it was hard to put all the bad things into perspective because our relationship was riddled with a lot of good as well.

-Mercury trine Uranus
You may run into new ways of thinking or sharing here.
Yes, I can say this is true on both ends. I learned a lot as did he. Not all the ideas were good though.

There is an unusual way of communication with each other,
Yes there was an interesting way we'd speak. We'd call through internet and leave messages. Ring tones for yes and no. haha
Majority of our communication was online. We tell each other things through tons of songs. I never spoke to him using my phone. Yup weird huh? Oh and he'd write songs and poems to tell me what he was thinking. Also since i knew he stalked my profiles on some sites and youtube. I would leave comments etc to get my point across. lol He told me about it once. hehe Made fun of me actually. I pleaded innocent. Also, why was he stalking? Well I did some stalking of my own and he left messages for me. haha

and you two spark each other in a positive way, especially with Uranus residing in the third house. Or, this can mean communication is on and off, hot and cold.

Hot and cold. We are in a cold phase. But honestly I think it's the end. I guess I'm just curious is all. Trying to learn, understand what really happened I guess. But yes, I think I was always trying to get away from him. I would initiate breaks but keep coming back after a year though I learned of new things and I was more apathetic and exhausted with trying so hard. I would give up for weeks, then we'd talk again. Then we wouldn't talk for months, then we'd talk again.

But this is usually more prominent with the harder aspects like the square. Talking and sharing of ideas and unusual happenings in not uncommon. Insights into each other as well.
We discovered certain aspects of each other that each was blind to or would not acknowledge.

-Jupiter conjunct Uranus in the 3rd squared by Venus
Jupiter conjunct Uranus. Expansion of the unusual. World views that are erratic and unusual. Long distance traveling and communication, sometimes you might not talk more months or weeks. It may not be so, but it is a possibility. Maybe one or two of you like to travel and then you keep in touch, or you may do the traveling together.
Travel no, but what we had was really odd between us. Also, it was a long distance thing.
Squared by Venus, can mean an a intercultural relationship or maybe you guys just believe in different things or come from a different background.
Yes, we are from different religions, cultures, family backgrounds, social status, career fields. But our principles, goals in life, themes in life, are similar.

There can be other people involved, not saying an OPEN relationship, saying that you may have friends in common.
No that hasn't been the case. Not that I know of unless he's going behind my back to befriend my friends. lol. I think we have a lot of people involved in telling us what to do within the relationship though. That's a truth.
-7th house ruler in the 10th house
An indication that you two may have met at an institution where you work at or some public place where there is work to do, or is professional. Can even mean the relationship exists to fulfill a certain goal. Be it marriage, raising a family, something with your careers, or status. Not saying that in a superficial way at all.
I had a feeling from the very beginning that it was to help us jump start our individual careers. I think that's what it has been. I had told him on numerous occasions, even wrote him a poem regarding it oddly enough. Also, I learned that he's been more into his career since last speaking to me. Also the idea that he was really nowhere and wanted to marry me was not acceptable to my family and therefore to me. So in a way he kept telling me that right now he's not worthy of taking care of me or even approaching my family about us. I thought he was very worthy except we'd work on our career goals together as a unit and then prusue some sort of open commitment. lol That did not happen. Once though he said that if he doesn't get his career of choice off the ground that he would pursue something more acceptable, stable and presentable for our families. This would then help his chances with my family and he'd be happy because he'd make making me happy his goal. That really melted my heart. Sigh.
-1st house ruler in the 11th house
You stand out in a group, or people outside the relationship. This relationship may also carry an element of a long friendship, which is important.
Don't know as of late, we are more strangers or aquaintances of long ago. The spark it seems died out. I don't think he cared for me the way I thought he did. He did some very hurtful things that if we had just been friends I would never ever consider friendship worthy. The sad thing is if you aren't friends first then you can't really be anything right? When we first met it was a light airy friend quality to us. We were always there for one another. We'd talk about how we'd want to be friends with our significant other first before jumping into a relationship.
-Pluto conjunct Saturn in the 1st house, sextile Venus & Neptune trine, squaring Mercury and Sun
You both appear to be very driven and influential from a first look, in extreme cases even intimidated though I doubt that is the case. Saturn is discipline and Pluto is power. You two are powerful together and strong values are shared, and this adds a ton of stability to the romantic Venus & Neptune trine you share, so things are not too over-idealized. However, it affects the Sun and Mercury by being a little too somber at times or restricting in speech or in ego. You two keep each other in check.
I'm not sure about this. Really don't have much to go on regarding it.
-Moon in the 2nd house conjunct Saturn, squaring Mercury and trine Mars
Moon in the 2nd house is good because in my opinion this means that both of you will find security with each other, and that is what Cancer, ruler of the Moon typically seeks, comfort and knowing that everything is stable and in place. Conjunct Saturn might mean restrained feelings, however. Often at the cost of this stability. Saturn adds the feeling of being glued or put together, but the emotions are not as freely expressed between you two, there can be a lack of understanding at times or in worse cases one can feel rejected. Moon square Mercury, watch out for these misunderstandings and bickering. Take a minute to consider what is said when feelings are tense.
All of this is spot on.
Moon trine Mars is great for physical compatibility, attraction and sexual needs on both sides. Is favorable for children as well. Don't know about this either.

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posted August 15, 2012 05:52 PM            

- His Pluto is on your Sun-Pluto midpoint, His Moon is on your Venus-Pluto midpoint, Your Pluto on his Moon-Pluto midpoint; Also Pluto conjunct Moon, Moon conjunct Venus, and Pluto conjunct Sun
Pluto is very integral to the "forbidden fruit" type relationships where there is much passion, lust and desire for another person, but there is all sorts of ways it can play out. With the Moon, Venus, and Sun present in each of these midpoints paired with Pluto, that is the type of energy you are dealing with in this relationship. All three of the aforementioned planets are warm, cozy and loving until you get Pluto mixed up with them. Emotions run high and if there was Mars it would take a sexual undertone, even though Venus can too it is less physical than the nature of Mars. While you may feel like you have or even need to be with this person, just be careful not to employ any manipulative measures or devolve into power struggles because that's what can happen when Pluto, a planet of extremes is involved. You may go from wanting each other to wanting nothing to do with the other person. This is someone who could easily get under your skin. Moon & Venus conjunction is very nice though, for comfort and loving feelings. He probably enjoyed the way you made him feel and appreciated your feminine grace and charm, and not to mention nurturing.

-His Moon, Pluto, and NN on your DSC
To you, he brings an opportunity to bond with him emotionally, or he is soothed by being with you. But also, with Pluto on your house of partnerships, he is bound to want control at some point, or gain the upper hand in some kind of way through the emotions. Watch for controlling tendencies. NN can mean that his spiritual goal coincides with the partnership, but the cost may be that your image becomes tied to this goal should you choose to be with him, and you focus more on the relationship.

-Your DSC falling in his first house, your Saturn on his 1st house
In you he may see someone who provides stability, or wants him as a partner or even vice versa. Saturn on the 1st house indicates that obligations are brought to the forefront of the relationship, or they may be commitments and obligations outside of it.

-His Venus opposite your Saturn, trines your Uranus, squaring Neptune
You are very different, very attractive to him and he appreciates your beauty. I don't just mean physical though I do include it, but there is something drastically different about you. You may be aloof seeming to him, or even colorful or romantic and this is what he wants to go after. However, you must be up front with him, because there can be distance in worse cases or a tendency to be lead on or lead someone on.

-His Jupiter trine your Mercury and Venus
Good, fun times and an open communicative aspect of the relationship. You love to hear from each other and spend time doing different activities or just simply sharing what's on your mind. Affection is exchanged in generous amounts between two people with Jupiter involved, you may feel fortunate, at times.

-His Mars trine your Uranus, squaring your Venus and Pluto, sextile Saturn while your Mars only receives a quincunx from his Sun and Mercury
With all these Mars aspects going to your Chart and few aspects from your Mars going to his, I will say here than he will probably do a lot of the pursuing. However, this can also mean that you are, but I only say him because many of your planets activate the energy of his Mars, and therefore his drive. He will likely find you to be a bit unattainable, however. But it is unlikely he gets the hint. I think you might be a bit surprised or confused by how he approaches you.

-Your Moon sextile his Sun and Mercury, or Chiron
This is a nice, breezy aspect but by itself does not indicate an extreme attraction because there's not much in the way of it. If there were a conjunction somewhere, the sextile may be strengthened. But just think of it as having an easy conversation with someone, and appreciating who they are. You feel a nice flow of energy from this person and they find they are comfortable to express themselves to you.

-His Sun & Mercury on your 12th, his Venus conjunct your ASC, your NN conjunct his ASC
Now he may also get under your skin and represent mystery to you with his Sun and Mercury in the 12th house. From time to time, he may say something to you that catches you completely off guard or seems to come from the left field. You may not understand him well enough, and may get irritated by him. But he feels as though he may have something to teach you or learn from you. I would say he likes you very much but does not get this across in a way you deem fit. Venus on the ASC is great for an appreciation of your beauty from him, and what you represent as a love interest. NN conjunct ASC is considered an aspect of a strong bond, if you believe in soul mate synastry. The spiritual goal fits in with that person's self-image and how they are projected to the world. With your outlook, you encourage his goal, but this also may mean your SN in in his 7th house. You may feel held back in the partnership.